Wang Qiuhua saw the mediator, she hugged the mediator and cried, half a year ago the eldest daughter-in-law Linlin left three children, returned to her mother's house, never came back, including twins who are more than one year old, the eldest son works in the city, let them take care of the three children, the eldest son has been blaming them for being eccentric, what is going on? Why would the eldest daughter-in-law leave her own flesh and blood?
For the reason why the daughter-in-law left home, the old couple also felt inexplicable, the father-in-law said that at that time, the daughter-in-law only said that she worked overtime and never came back to see the child, what is the unknown story behind this? In order to understand the truth of the matter, the reporter called the eldest son Wang Lei back.
The reporter asked his daughter-in-law the reason for returning to her mother's home, Wang Lei said that he and his daughter-in-law are free love, the feelings are very deep, this time the wife returned to her mother's home, because she has not been back since marriage, this time is to live in the mother's home for a period of time, it seems that want to understand the hidden feelings behind it or to communicate with the parties.
The reporter dialed Linlin's phone, the reporter said his intentions, but Linlin directly refused to return to her in-laws' home, but said that she could meet with the reporter alone, just when she saw Linlin before she spoke, she cried first, and the reporter hurried to comfort, saying that this time she came to find out the reason for the matter, and whoever was justified would help whom.
Lin Lin told the truth of the matter, she said that when she got married, the two families were very unhappy, that is, because of this reason, she never returned to her mother's house after marriage, when she was pregnant with twins the year before, the pressure at home suddenly became greater, she proposed with her in-laws, took the opportunity to say and say peace with her parents, let the mother-in-law also help bring a child, so that it is good for both sides, who knows that the mother-in-law is not willing to go to her mother-in-law's house.
The in-laws disagreed with this statement, and Gonggong Wang Hua said that there was a reason for not going this time, before he bought good things and went with his wife, but the family said who are you? He said that this situation is not once, and they have also gone to ease the relationship between the two parties in the past six or seven years, but unfortunately they have not been successful, and for a long time, they are not willing to stick their cold ass with hot faces.
The mediator is very confused, how much contradiction there is between the two sides, after the marriage of both parties are a family, why six or seven years after this knot is still unable to be solved?
Wang Qiuhua mentioned that the people were very angry, she said that her son Wang Lei was the eldest in the family, for the son's marriage they naturally attached great importance to, according to the local wedding customs on the first day of the wedding have been feasted guests, but on the wedding day, the daughter-in-law Linlin ran away, which made their family in front of relatives and friends very faceless.
Lin Lin said that when she got married, she was already pregnant for four or five months, but the in-laws did not prepare a marriage room, just casually rented a house, which made the mother very angry at that time, after all, she was pregnant, the rented house was still far from the in-laws' home, in case there was something in it, no one took care of it, the two sides were once a little unhappy, this is it, when they got married, they bought a little furniture casually, and even three gold did not buy for themselves, she felt that the in-laws did not value her at all, That's why she ran away in a fit of rage.
Wang Qiuhua said that the three golds were indeed not bought, but bought a gold, originally the eldest son got married and everything was not smooth, said that the next day to buy, the result of Linlin directly ran away, Linlin asked, why at that time in the mother's house said that it was directly to the county town to buy, and then did not buy, said that the next day bought, why did not anyone tell her about this?
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law's statements are very different, so how does Wang Lei, as a son and husband, think about this matter?
Wang Lei said bluntly that at that time, his parents had not said anything about it, and the mediator asked what was the reason for not buying it? Is it too busy to take care of? Or is there something wrong with the economy? Or don't you want to buy it at all? After all, the first two are still excusable, Wang Lei said that it may be too busy to take care of it, or it may be that his parents did not pay attention to it at all, Wang Lei said that when he and his daughter-in-law first started to fall in love, their parents did not look at her and did not want them to continue to communicate.
The mediator asked the mother-in-law why she didn't take a fancy to the daughter-in-law in the first place. The mother-in-law bluntly said that this marriage was not smooth from beginning to end, so it has been angry, the mediator directly asked, did you say that it was because she did not look up to this daughter-in-law to buy at all, the mother-in-law even waved her hand to deny this statement, the father-in-law was also very angry, saying that the daughter-in-law was picky when she got married, saying that this is not OK, but in the end it was also listed, Linlin was not satisfied with the furniture, and she said a cruel word at that time, this marriage love knot is not knotted, not knotted down.
Wang Lei said at this time that before getting married, there were no small contradictions between parents and wives, and the parents began to look down on their wives because they felt that she was too strong, and they had to obey her in everything, and the two sides accumulated a lot of contradictions, plus the father's cruel words, and the wife was angry before she escaped from marriage.
Remembering these things when she got married, Linlin was very angry, she ran away quickly, she was about to leave the mediation scene, fortunately she was pulled back by the mediator, after the mediator's patient persuasion, Linlin finally returned to the scene, the mediator came back to continue to do the ideological work of Wang Hua and his wife, saying that Linlin had been married back for so many years after all, you did not open her heart knot, so that she could not go back to her mother's house, Wang Hua and his wife said that as long as the daughter-in-law could come back, then they would come to the door again and ask for forgiveness from their relatives.
When the mediator thought that everything was happy, Wang Hua and his wife said that the daughter-in-law ran away from home this time not because of this incident at all, but for other reasons.
At this time, the second son Wang Liang also rushed to the scene, said the real reason why the sister-in-law ran away from home, he said that the sister-in-law and the eldest brother felt psychological imbalance, because they were about to get married, the parents made a down payment of 150,000 yuan to buy a house, he and his fiancée were responsible for the monthly payment and the decoration of the house, the eldest brother and sister-in-law were therefore dissatisfied, and the sister-in-law was more angry and ran away from home directly.
Lin Lin said that when she got married, she had been living in a rental house, and then the eldest son was one or two years old, and the in-laws let them go back to the in-laws to live together, and when they bought this house, they also made excuses that hanging under the name of the second elder was only because they could take a long loan, that's all, originally thought that this house would give them a family of three to live, after all, the in-laws did not tell themselves, but told the grandson that he was going to move to a new home later, and it was not easy for grandparents to see him again.
The result did not expect to become the second eldest directly later, she has been married for so many years, not even a house of her own, coupled with the promise of her mother-in-law before, which makes her very angry, so she directly left the three children and went directly back to her mother's house, and Wang Lei also said next to her, her parents have always said that they want a bowl of water to be flat, and his brother has what he also wants, he does not ask for more, he wants a down payment on a house.
It seems that not only Linlin has a knot in her heart, but even her son Wang Lei has some resentment in her heart, and even directly proposes to her parents to give them a down payment for a house.
Did Mr. and Mrs. Wang Hua really hide the decision made by their eldest son and daughter-in-law? What will they do with the demands of their eldest son now? Gonggong Wang Hua bluntly said that the economy in his hands is not rich now, and he will slow down for another two years, who knows that Linlin does not eat this set at all, and feels that gonggong is perfunctory to her.
The mediator said that even if the in-laws did not do anything wrong, they could not use the three children as chips, after all, they were their own flesh and blood, how could they abandon it fiercely, regardless of whether they asked? After listening to the mediator's words, Linlin bowed her head and said nothing, and when the mediator was ready to say something else, Linlin ran away.
Wang Lei hugged his son and said, parents have this attitude, let the daughter-in-law how to mediate, the mediator helpless to call Linlin and then communicate, the result linlin did not answer the phone at all, the mediator said to Wang Lei, your brother is now going to get married? What do you let your parents do, you are already an adult, you must be mentally prepared to get married, your brother wants a house, you also want a house, you also want your parents to take care of your three children, your parents are not gods, how can you force your parents so much?
Everyone was helpless, first returned home, brother Wang Liang said, in fact, said that it is not a big deal to open, or want to sister-in-law back home, the family said everything, the mediator called Linlin again, Linlin said that this matter is decided by her husband, she is at work inconvenient to come back, after saying that she hung up the phone directly.
Wang Qiuhua looked at the second son who was about to get married on the one hand, and on the other hand, the eldest daughter-in-law who wanted the house to not want to come back, remembering the days that had passed for half a year, Wang Qiuhua couldn't help but cry and cry, saying that the daughter-in-law returned to her mother's house, and the eldest son did not come back, who could understand her, seeing her mother's appearance, Wang Lei was angry and directly grabbed the door and left.
The mediator went forward to pull him back, Wang Lei said that he did not want to mediate when he saw his mother's state, and the mediator asked him loudly, does the mother not even have the right to complain? Wang Lei said that you can complain and communicate like a normal person, and the mediator patiently said, your mother is bitter, she cries and vents, so you are not willing to accept it?
At this time, Wang Lei also had tears in his eyes, saying that he wanted to be quiet outside the door, the mediator still patiently persuaded and explained, at present, he may be sandwiched in the middle of the most uncomfortable side is the parents, on the other side is the wife and children, Wang Lei said that he does not care about these, until now no one cares about his feelings, the mediator said that the parents may be biased towards the younger brother, but this time can be solved, Wang Lei sat on the steps and cried, why did they lie to him before? He also thought about it for them from the perspective of his parents, but he really couldn't figure out why he didn't consider his and his wife's feelings at all.
Wang Lei said that at that time, his parents bought a house for his brother, this matter can be spread out, the brother is going to get married, and now he wants a house when he gets married, which he and his daughter-in-law can also accept, he can't understand at all, why his parents have to hide this matter all the time, and finally can the paper cover the fire?
The reporter also wondered why this matter has not been spread out and said directly, Gonggong Wang Hua said, because the knot with the eldest daughter-in-law has not been untied for so many years, he thought that he did not tell her, directly bought it for the second elder, the mediator asked if the eldest daughter-in-law had a quarrel with you at that time? The father-in-law denied that there was none, and the mediator said that since the daughter-in-law had never been angry about it, why not communicate well? And asked his brother if he knew about buying him a house? Wang Liang said that he did not know that he had bought it for himself until the time of signing.
Under the mediator's questioning, the in-laws finally admitted that buying this house is for the second son to get married, the mediator said that if they explained clearly in advance, they would not make so many things, if the eldest and daughter-in-law agreed to buy it for the second son first, if they did not agree, they would think of other ways, they had to make such a scene, after the mediator patiently persuaded, the old couple also realized that they had done something wrong in this matter, saying that they would make up for the eldest son and daughter-in-law in the future.
Wang Hua said that in the future, this house will be left to the boss, and when the boss buys a house again, he will also add some, and the psychological counselor also asked Wang Lei if he realized his problem? Wang Lei said that he had no opinion when he encountered something, and the psychological counselor said that without an opinion, he should be corrected later, and the most important thing at present is to take on the responsibility of taking care of the three children, raising them is your responsibility, not your parents', the three sons need maternal love, you need to call your wife back.
The atmosphere at the scene finally eased down, and Wang Lei also told the mediator that in fact, the twins who are more than one year old have been sent to early education, and they let their parents help send them every day, and they will also give them the cost of a taxi, and he will also do the work of his wife later.
At this time, the younger brother Wang Liang held his brother's hand and said to him, he also knew that his brother was under pressure, after all, the three sons would need a lot of money in the future, but as a younger brother, he would definitely not stand idly by when he saw that he would have difficulties in the future? Isn't that an asshole yourself? After listening to his brother's words, Wang Lei also shed tears, and Wang Qiuhua saw that the two sons loved each other so much, and hugged the two sons and cried.
The mediator also said that in fact, everyone has been gambling and holding their breath in their hearts, but fortunately, now it is clear that under the persuasion of the mediator, the family shook hands and made peace.
In fact, to tell the truth, Wang Hua and his wife did do something partial, especially when the daughter-in-law got married, even a wedding ring, it seems that gold is not bought, this is indeed looking down on the eldest daughter-in-law, although the old two mouths do not admit it, and even said, if the marriage loves to be knotted, can this be a father-in-law who should say it?
Married for 7 years, has not been in contact with the old death of the family, did not open the daughter-in-law's heart knot, but also secretly bought a new house for the second, it is indeed a bit excessive, but how to say, also raise the boss, let him get married, to achieve the obligations of parents, but as a parent a bowl of water is uneven, easy to make the brothers have contradictions, serious, brothers turn against each other.
Of course, Linlin is also the mother of the child, no matter how angry with the in-laws and in-laws, can not take their three sons as chips, thrown in the in-laws' house, half a year do not care to ask, this is indeed not right.
What do you think about the in-laws' approach? If you were Linlin, would you be like her, leaving the child alone and not asking?