In the past, people got married relatively early, and most people got married and had children before they reached the age of 20, but now many people have not yet married by the age of 30, so they will be arranged by parents to go on a blind date as soon as the New Year arrives. The elders all want their sons to get married as soon as possible, and after marriage, they must have a grandchild to let themselves hold.
But many pregnant women find a particularly strange phenomenon, that is, most of the newborn babies are male babies. I don't know if those mothers who have just given birth to a child have found this phenomenon in the delivery room?
A friend once told me that when she gave birth, including the three pregnant women in the delivery room next door, only one girl was born, and the other five were boys. Although the mainland has long advocated equality between men and women, but there are still most families with the phenomenon of son preference, many pregnant women after pregnancy, the mother-in-law will let the daughter-in-law to check the gender of the child, if it is a girl, may not be born to face the fate of being eliminated, which also shows why most of them are baby boys.
Many elders think that it is better to have a boy than a girl, so many people will say "early birth of a noble son" when blessing the new person. There are also some young people who feel that they can support themselves after having a son, but they will marry after they have a daughter.
If many pregnant women give birth to sons, the in-laws will take special care of the grandchildren, rushing to hold the grandchildren, if it is a girl, many in-laws will only occasionally hug when they want to hug, and then let the daughter-in-law prepare to have a second child. There are even some elders who find that their daughters-in-law are pregnant with daughters and will let them beat them up, which is actually a very bad phenomenon and the physical harm to pregnant women is also very large.
There are also some in-laws who let their daughters-in-law give birth to sons, so that they can take some unknown drugs to increase the chance of having a son through drugs. In fact, there is no medical basis for this, but there are always people who believe it. Taking some unknown drugs is also very harmful to the body of pregnant women, so don't believe those folk rumors.
Xiaobian feels that these patriarchal concepts should disappear, whether it is the birth of sons or daughters, it is given by God, we should love our children well, and raise them. What are your thoughts on this?
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