is also a pensioner, why Gu Jia's father lives in a nursing home, but Zhong Xiaoqin's father enjoys four dishes and one soup
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Caring for the elderly is a problem that every family will encounter, and how to create a comfortable and stable pension environment for the elderly is also the unshirkable responsibility of every child. The TV series "Thirty Only" also shows us how three elderly people in different families provide for the elderly.
First of all, Gu Jia with the best family conditions, Gu Jia lives in a high-end community near the Bund, her home is a large flat floor, large area, good lighting, good environment, complete surrounding facilities and shops, it can be said that it is a good place to live for the elderly, but Gu Jia's father did not live with his daughter and son-in-law.
The second is Zhong Xiaoqin, a native of Shanghai, Zhong Xiaoqin's parents are in Shanghai, after resigning, Zhong Xiaoqin's father retired at home, and he began to study cooking when he had nothing to do. The purpose is very simple, just to make her daughter Zhong Xiaoqin eat better, and she can eat four dishes and one soup every day.
Zhong Xiaoqin's parents have their own house in Shanghai, so they don't need to live with their daughter, but occasionally go to Zhong Xiaoqin's house to bring her food and tidy up the house.
The last is the outsider Wang Manni, Wang Manni's hometown is not far from Shanghai, her parents did not follow Wang Manni to Shanghai, the old couple live in the town for their lives, the pace of life in the town is slow, the price is not high, plus Wang Manni will send 2000 yuan to her parents every month, on the whole, their life is still very comfortable.
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In this comparison, it seems that Gu Jia's father, who has the best economic conditions, is the one who is the most "poor", in most people's cognition, it is unfilial piety to send the elderly in the family to a nursing home, in fact, Gu Jia's father went to a nursing home for a reason.
Gu Jia originally wanted her father to live with her, but Gu Jia's father said that he didn't want to go, and Gu Jia proposed to install a camera at home, if something happened to the elderly, they could know it as soon as possible, Gu Jia's father felt so uncomfortable, and there was a feeling of being monitored.
During the chat, Gu Jia suddenly found a pile of promotional paper from the nursing home on the dining table at home, and Gu's father explained: I don't want to send people under the fence, and I don't want you to worry about me, and I have also been to the nursing home to investigate, and the conditions over there are still very good.
The reason why Gu's father did this was to reduce the burden on his daughter, and secondly, he wanted to create a quiet and independent environment for the elderly, he voluntarily wanted to go to a nursing home, which is not the same thing as sending the elderly to a nursing home because their children do not want to be responsible.
The third is because Gu Jia once hated her father because of her mother's death, which caused the relationship between father and daughter to be very stiff, and if they really live together, they will naturally feel very embarrassed.
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With the change of the times, the thinking of the elderly has also begun to change, they no longer stubbornly wait for their children to take care of themselves, but want to reduce the burden of their children and offer to go to a nursing home.
Since the thinking of the elderly has begun to change, then the current nursing institutions should also follow the development of how to improve the equipment, security system, improve the management of the hospital, and improve the service capacity is now the nursing home should pay attention to.
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