Gu Jiarenmei in "Thirty Only" is also self-disciplined, she can take care of her son and husband at home, she can help her husband deal with major customer relationships in the company, and she can also pull business through her wife, no wonder she can move into a first-line riverview mansion worth 30 million yuan before the age of 30.
But in this marriage, which everyone envies, there is a hidden crisis.
Stills from the TV series "Thirty Only".
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Gu Jia and her husband Xu Huanshan met in the 08 Olympic Games, when Gu Jia was a college student volunteer, Xu Huanshan was a fireworks designer, and the relationship between the two began with the romance of fireworks.
After Gu Jia graduated and worked in a foreign company for two years, she persuaded Xu Huanshan to leave the team and start a fireworks company with her.
It wasn't until the annual sales of the fireworks company exceeded 10 million that Gu Jia persuaded Xu Huanshan to buy a 10 million mansion and make a jump.
It stands to reason that if he can get a wife like this, what more can a husband ask for? But at this moment when he should be happy, Xu Huanshan felt empty.
Stills from the TV series "Thirty Only".
Gu Jia's advantage is that he is very capable, and his disadvantage is that he is too capable.
Xu Huanshan felt that he was not like Gu Jia's husband who relied on, but more like the "eldest son" who was controlled by her and pushed by her.
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Gu Jia always felt that Xu Huanshan was very talented in fireworks design, so he took care of everything and let him not touch the yang water in life.
From wearing socks to changing houses, Gu Jia will arrange it properly.
Xu Huanshan wears the wrong socks, Gu Jia will remind him to change his stockings, what breakfast to eat, Gu Jia carefully prepares, even where to buy a house, how to decorate, what furniture to buy, when to enter the new house, what to do when to enter the new house, Xu Huanshan doesn't care, as long as people arrive.
When he had dinner on the day he first moved to a new house, Gu Jia asked Xu Huanshan if he had to change to a big house, whether it put a lot of pressure on him, and Xu Huanshan said no, because he made the decision.
Stills from the TV series "Thirty Only".
Yes, Xu Huanshan made the decision to change the house, but Xu Huanshan didn't do anything except the decision.
And Gu Jia changed the house in order to let everyone live a better life, not only did he have to make a decision, but he couldn't admit that there was pressure, otherwise how would Xu Huanshan be the head of the family?
In fact, every day when he returns home from the company, Xu Huanshan has to play games in the car for half an hour to regulate his emotions before he dares to go upstairs.
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Even in the company, the customer relationship needs to be maintained by Gu Jia, the "full-time wife".
Xu Huanshan prides himself on being a designer, and often talks to customers about how good his products are, but businessmen pursue profits, and customers pay more attention to how to make money at low costs.
This dislocation caused Xu Huanshan to have a stiff relationship with customers again and again, and his subordinates had no choice but to find Gu Jia to help clean up the mess.
Stills from the TV series "Thirty Only".
Gu Jia helped clean up a lot, and knew the operation of various departments of the company, and even which employees were clear.
Xu Huanshan is the company's talker on the surface, but in fact he is more like a puppet who was pushed to the front of the screen by Gu Jia.
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Like a child who is strictly disciplined and wants to break through the layers of shackles of his parents, Xu Huanshan is often on the verge of danger.
So Xu Huanshan accepted the feeding of 25 yuan/orange from the company's female employees, and did not shy away from eating dinner alone with female employees in the office.
Even Lin Youyou in Beijing ate his ice cream knowing that he was married, and sent him dinner photos knowing that his wife would not let him eat dinner, not only did he not stop it, but he was also as excited as if he had found a companion who had done bad things together, and he fell deeper and deeper.
At least, Lin Youyou supported him to keep the blue fireworks that he regarded as a dream, instead of letting him destroy them all for safety reasons like Gu Jia.
Therefore, Xu Huanshan cheated on Lin Youyou, concealed that Gu Jia had an accident after producing blue fireworks, and buried his good future, which was actually a "rebellion" against Gu Jia's control.
Perhaps a marriage that supports each other, participates in each other, and fulfills each other can last a long time.
Gu Jia unilaterally devoted herself wholeheartedly, and inadvertently deprived Xu Huanshan of the right to participate, after all, she could only raise a "good son", not a responsible husband.