"Thirty Only":
"Tea Girl" Lin Youyou will never admit that the reason that really made her make up her mind Xu Huanshan was not because of Gu Jia's slap, but because of Gu's father's words.
"Don't let yourself drown in a small puddle before you see the sea. ”
recently revisited "Thirty Only", and found that when the marriage between Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan broke down due to Lin Youyou, the words floating on the barrage were: "Such a good family was broken up by Lin Youyou......"
In fact, looking back now, a large part of the reason why Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan's marriage came to an end was due to Xu Huanshan, not Lin Youyou.
Xu Huanshan took over the new fireworks project in Beijing, and when he came to the playground to investigate, he met Lin Youyou, who was responsible for entertaining him, not to see Lin Youyou as a newcomer in the workplace, she was enthusiastic, generous, and had no stage fright when meeting customers.
That day, Lin Youyou took Xu Huanshan to visit the playground, Xu Huanshan invited Lin Youyou to eat out of gratitude, during the meal, Lin Youyou played and sang a song to him in order to thank Xu Huanshan, looking at Lin Youyou, who was full of literary and artistic fan, Xu Huanshan felt extremely relaxed, he hadn't been so comfortable for a long time.
Xu Huanshan's wife is a perfectionist, she has strong ability and brains, the family's fireworks company is ostensibly Xu Huanshan is in charge, but in fact, the company's right to speak is still on Gu Jia, even the Beijing amusement park is also won by Gu Jia, Xu Huanshan lost his luster in front of Gu Jia, but his ability is indeed limited, and he can only choose to rely on Gu Jia.
Lin Youyou revealed his love for fireworks to him when he saw Xu Huanshan for the first time, in Lin Youyou's place, fireworks are the most beautiful works of art, which cannot be measured by money, and her romantic thoughts are obviously inversely proportional to his wife Gu Jia.
Although Gu Jia also likes fireworks, she is more practical, fireworks are their family's way of making money, in order to improve the economy, Gu Jia will work fireworks, not just for the sake of good looks, as a fireworks design Xu Huanshan prefers others to appreciate his art, rather than selling art.
Lin Youyou likes fireworks, Xu Huanshan will design fireworks, for this reason, Lin Youyou regarded Xu Huanshan as her idol from the beginning, she worships him, likes him, appreciates him, and sees Xu Huanshan so good to her family, she wants to get him again.
Xu Huanshan, who was worshiped by Lin Youyou, also got an unprecedented sense of being needed and satisfied in this process, in front of Lin Youyou, Xu Huanshan felt that he was valuable, and in front of Gu Jia, he would always be the one who was dominated.
Do you say that Xu Huanshan really likes Lin Youyou as a person? Not really, right? What he likes is the feeling that Lin Youyou brings him, if Xu Huanshan really likes Lin Youyou this person, he will not ask Gu Jia to forgive himself again and again, and beg Gu Jia's father to forgive him.
In the follow-up, in order to get Xu Huanshan, Lin Youyou hit Gu Jia's son with the idea, which touched Gu Jia's weakness, and she slapped Lin Youyou violently, but unfortunately, this slap did not wake up the obsessed Lin Youyou.
The real reason why Lin Youyou retreated was because of what Gu Jia's father said to her.
Gu Jia's father advised Lin Youyou as an elder.
First of all, Gu's father told Lin Youyou that Xu Huanshan had expressed his attitude to them, that he was willing to return to the family, was willing to use everything to make up for his mistakes, and was willing to solve his own problems.
Secondly, Gu's father used his own personal experience to tell Lin You what true happiness is, Lin Youyou is now in his early twenties, her family must hope that Lin Youyou can have sweet feelings and a happy marriage, she has no need to belittle herself for Xu Huanshan.
In the end, Gu's father advised Lin Youyou not to narrow his path at the beginning of his life. After all, other families and lives belong to others, and what they rob may not be as good as they think.
Gu Jia's father did not scold Lin Youyou for destroying his daughter's family, but reasoned with her seriously, and under the persuasion of Gu's father, Lin Youyou finally let Xu Huanshan go and left Shanghai.