The new pension of the 70-year-old: one does not bother the children, the second is accompanied by someone, and the third can make money!

At the age of 70, my wife died of illness at the age of 54, and a pair of sons and daughters also settled in the big city, and I was the only one living in the big family. I thought I was strong, but I stayed up alone for a year, but I couldn't stand the days of living alone, and in the second year of my wife's death, just enough to retire, I chose to retire early.

At that time, many colleagues said that my brain was broken, stay for 5 more years, the pension will be relatively small, and I retired so early, I can only get about 2,000 pensions, not enough pension!

But I think that the amount of pension does not matter to me, because I have a son, and I can rely on him to support him when I am old, even if my son is not good, I still have a daughter.

Later, after retiring, I ran to my son's house to help them bring their babies, burn fires and cook for the family.

Originally such a harmonious state of life, I think it is very good, when I have the ability, try my best to help my children to do something, and when I am old, I can get their filial piety and gratitude.

However, expectations are always good, and reality is unpredictable.

After I went to live with my son, my son and daughter-in-law were good to me at first, because I had a pension, I could help share some of their financial pressure, and I could help them take care of the housework and cook with their babies, and they didn't have to worry about anything.

However, when I brought up my grandson and sent him to kindergarten, I lived a relatively leisurely life every day, buying vegetables and cooking, and from time to time I would travel, and my son and daughter-in-law began to feel that my leisure was like a burden to them.

My attitude towards me is also getting worse and worse, especially when I am old, there are also some small problems in my body, which makes my son and daughter-in-law very disgusted.

My son is better for me, after all, I am his father, but my daughter-in-law is different.

My daughter-in-law wanted to nibble on my money every day, and it turned out that the couple would give me 2500 yuan every month as a family meal, but after my grandson sent me to study, the expenses were slightly larger, and my daughter-in-law began to ask me to bear some food expenses. She didn't dare to tell me directly, so she asked her son to come and ask me.

The son is also a man who is afraid of his wife, the daughter-in-law tells him to do whatever he wants, there is no manhood at all, in the face of the son's request, I dare not refuse, and gradually I will bear half of the food costs, and their family will pay 1500 yuan for me to pay a thousand.

I thought that I had paid for my life, and my daughter-in-law's mentality would be better, who knew that she was getting more and more inching forward.

Often at dinner, in front of the family, complained that there was no money to buy things, no money to pay the children's tuition, lunch care fees, or anything.

This embarrassed me, because she was telling me that although she did not directly ask me to pay for it, she would send my son to lobby me behind her back.

I refused, but I would welcome my daughter-in-law's bad face. Several times, I didn't pay for them to buy this and that, and my daughter-in-law directly blamed me, saying that I was not like other people's parents, and I could contribute to my children.

He also said that I knew that eating, drinking, and sleeping at my son's house, not doing anything, eating my son's and using my son's, when I was sick, I had to trouble them with a big son.

In the face of my daughter-in-law's unfilial words, I did not dare to squeak, because I was indeed relying on my son for the elderly, so I only had patience.

But patience will only make them hate me more and more, especially when I am sick, I want to take a break, let them take care of their own chores, and as a result, if I don't do it, they won't move, they all have to rely on me.

In the end, I lived in my son's house for less than 8 years, and I couldn't stand it and wanted to go back to my hometown. At that time, my daughter was also very filial, and knowing that I was not having a good time at my son's house, she invited me to live in her house.

The conditions in my daughter's house are very good, and my in-laws live separately, so I thought I would be blessed in the past.

Who knew that going to my daughter's house for three months, I was afraid. My daughter was indeed very filial to me, buying me everything to eat and buy for me to wear, and still wouldn't let me do it.

But my son-in-law did not do this to me, since beating me over for a week, his attitude has changed from enthusiasm to indifference, he does not dare to do anything directly to me, but it is getting worse and worse for my daughter.

The couple was always in the room and quarreled over my business. The son-in-law complained that my daughter was too good to me and not so good to my in-laws. He also said that I have a son, why do I want to come to his house for the elderly.

Bent on supporting me, the relationship between my daughter and son-in-law, so it became worse and worse, began to sleep in separate beds, and then constantly quarreled. In order not to destroy their marital feelings, I had to propose to go back to my hometown to live.

But after such an experience in my children's family, I am 67 years old, no longer young, and my physical condition is getting worse and worse, and it is a little inconvenient to live alone.

Especially once you are sick, or if something happens, there is no one around to help you, which is extremely troublesome. At that time, some people asked me to hire a nanny, and some people told me to go to a nursing home, but I could afford to pay for a pension of more than 2,000 points.

Just when I was worried about not finding a suitable way to provide for the elderly, it happened that the surrounding area of my home was developing greatly, doing a lot of office buildings and industrial parks, and also coming to a lot of migrant workers.

I suddenly thought, I live alone in a huge self-built house, waste is wasteful, why not rent him out, so that someone comes to live with me, I will not be alone, I have something to take care of, the most important thing is that I can still make some money. When I told my son and daughter about this idea, they agreed.

Later, I took out a hundred thousand yuan of home funds and changed the three-and-a-half-story self-built house into 10 small apartments for rent. I lived in two rooms by myself, and the remaining 8 apartments were rented out for 800 yuan, which was quickly robbed by those who went to work.

Every month, in addition to some maintenance fees, utilities, and health expenses, I probably have an income of about 6,000. I calculated that in less than 3 years, I would be able to earn back the money for renovating the house.

When I rent out the house, I have a lot of "roommates" around me, and my life is not alone. In order to make a good relationship with a tenant, I live on the first floor and often open the door to invite tenants to come to my house for dinner.

Almost every morning, I would make extra buns or boil more porridge for the tenants who were in a hurry to work. For the New Year's holidays, tenants who have not returned home, I will also ask them to spend the holidays with me.

In this way, my relationship with the tenants became better and better, and they would be very enthusiastic to help me whenever I had anything, and several times, I was unwell, or the tenants took me to the hospital for examination.

Gradually, I rented out the house for more than 2 years, and I lived very freely every day, accompanied by tenants, and had money to earn, and I was no longer afraid of loneliness, and I did not have to bother my children.

As for, when I slowly grow old in the future and my body declines to the point where I need to be served, I will continue to stay in this home, after all, renting a house is so profitable, I can also use this money to hire a good nanny to give myself a pension.