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Today for everyone to explore is that a selfish phoenix man said to his pregnant wife: "Wife, you are pregnant, can not go to work, there is no income, my mother said, in order not to let you reach out and ask me to take money, ask you and me AA system, so it is fairer, usually you have no money to use, just ask your parents to take, after all, your parents have responsibilities and obligations, and I am only your husband, there is no responsibility to give money to you to use." ”
The wife responded: "Divorce, you go with your mother." ”
Let's take a look at this story.
Ms. Luo / 29 years old
I am 29 years old, my surname is Luo, I have been married to my husband for three years, my husband was a very qualified man before marriage, and he was very good to me.
But later after getting married, I understood that the good before marriage was all pretended, in fact, he was a phoenix man, so when I found out that he was a phoenix man, I really regretted being with him.
But they were all married, and it was useless to say anything, and they could only slowly change his behavior as a phoenix man on his own.
But no matter what I said about him and persuaded him, he would not take me seriously, and even told me not to be nosy, and said that his parents were the most important people in his life, and I was not qualified to manage or say anything about him.
But I can only indulge him, because he is a very stubborn person, and the things he decides, no matter how much others try to persuade him, are useless.
There is also usually a special arrogance of the mother-in-law, often yelling at me, but also told me to serve her every day, if the service can not get the position, will be scolded, so at that time for the sake of family harmony, I often wronged myself to serve the mother-in-law, but even if I pay no matter how much, the mother-in-law will not treat me well, and even often with my old announcement, saying that I am a woman who has lost the family.
Because I love to buy things, and the things I buy are still very expensive, but every penny I spend is my own, so when my mother-in-law says that I am a loser, I feel that he is a lot of nosy, but my mother-in-law is like this, always think that I spend his son's money, so often in front of my husband to provoke the feelings between us, originally our feelings have been cracked, he provoked, my husband is more and more disgusted with me, but also often scolded me, saying that I am a woman who knows how to live a life.
My husband listens to my mother-in-law very much, no matter what her mother-in-law says, he believes it, and he never believes what I say, he only thinks that I am lying, so I have no sense of trust in his eyes.
Slowly, I also became more and more disappointed in him, because I really did not know why I would meet such a man, obviously before marriage he became a good love for me, but after marriage it was like this, so I was really disappointed and sad.
I also thought about getting a divorce, but every time I thought about being with him before, I couldn't bear it, because we were really happy when we weren't married before, so I thought it would be a pity after the divorce, and then I kept choosing to be.
Although I will be very aggrieved every day, as long as he does not do something excessive.
Later, in the blink of an eye, I also married him for three years, and for three years, his parents kept urging me to have children, but at that time, I was not in good health, so I could not get pregnant.
But fortunately, some time ago, I was pregnant with a child, and after I became pregnant, I was very happy, because I knew that as long as I had a child, their whole family would hurt me, and their attitude would slowly improve.
But when I told his family about this matter, his family was really happy, and the attitude of my husband and mother-in-law was much better, and at that time I was very grateful for the arrival of this child, if it were not for his arrival, maybe I would have been wronged all the time, so this child was really my savior.
Later, after more than a month of pregnancy, I began to have reactions, always dizzy, want to vomit, in order to be able to raise a baby with peace of mind, I chose to resign, because I was also tired from working every day, and I had to contact the computer every day, and the radiation was very much, so in order to be able to give birth to a healthy baby, I had to resign.
But who knows that after I resigned, my mother-in-law was very angry, because my mother-in-law felt that women did not need to be so pretentious, just pregnant, and it was not a big deal, so my mother-in-law did not agree to my resignation.
But I was so uncomfortable that I couldn't hold on at all, so I had to quit my job no matter what.
After quitting my job, I had no income, and then I could only reach out and ask my husband for money, when I didn't quit before, I never asked my husband to take money, my husband didn't spend it for me, but I had to ask him to take money when I resigned, because I didn't have money to use, so I had to ask him to take money for a maternity checkup, besides, he was the father of the child, he had that responsibility and obligation.
But who knows that after I reached out and asked for a while, my mother-in-law was particularly upset, and she felt that I married his son to covet his son's money, and then let my husband live with me in the AA system, so that I didn't have to worry about my greed for their money.
At that time, after my husband heard my mother-in-law say this, he also came to me strangely and proposed the aa system, when he said: "Wife, you are pregnant, you can't go to work, my mother said that you must have an AA system, so that it is fair, after all, you need to spend money on obstetric examination, you ask your parents to take, after all, your parents have responsibilities and obligations, and I am your husband, there is no responsibility and obligation, you are not worthy to spend my money, this is my mother's order, you must not refute." ”
After I listened, the whole person was not good for an instant, because I did not expect him to say such a conscienceless thing, what is called his responsibility? Isn't the child his? And where did he come from? How could he listen to his mother so much? This is clearly the behavior of a ma bao man, he is not only a ma bao man, but also a phoenix man, so at that time I was really disappointed, and then I directly proposed a divorce, originally I wanted to be with him, but he completely broke my heart, so I must divorce, so as to ensure that I can live a good life in the future.
At that time, I responded directly: "Divorce, you go with your mother." ”
After saying that, I directly packed up my things and left, and later went to the hospital to beat up the child, although the child was very poor, but in order not to affect my future life, I had to do this. Later, my ex-husband and my mother-in-law regretted it when they learned about it, because they didn't expect me to do such a thing.
But it was useless for them to regret it, they had ruined all this with their own hands, and they could have lived a good life, but they had to die, so they couldn't blame me for doing such a thing.
Conclusion
Marriage is not a child's play, marrying someone else has to be responsible, and don't be a confused person after marriage, otherwise sooner or later you will regret it.