A while ago there was a hot search, it probably said: The daughter asked her mother: "Mom, is it okay not to get married?" ”
Mom said: "If there are fireworks outside, the neighbors overflow with the aroma of rice, and the family on the street is traveling hand in hand, you can stop crying." ”
This sentence has become the copywriting of many people, I think they probably yearn for a happy and happy marriage, but also afraid of the chicken feathers in the marriage. Marriage is very contradictory, married or not married, there will be regrets.
I saw a very touching and touching sentence, she said, "I propose to you in the name of non-marriageism." "Some people may think, since it is unmarried, then why do you still ask for marriage? But in fact, I find this sentence very attractive, precisely because she is unmarried, and then met the person, so she abandoned the concept of unmarriedism. So look! In fact, whether you get married or not really depends on yourself or what kind of person you meet.
I thought that everyone would feel the loneliness of being single and the sadness of old age. But I didn't think that the comments of many girls were desolate.
They said, "That one-dollar firework pokes at the center for no reason, I want to buy it, but some people say you don't know how to save."
"Just came home from work and did not change into slippers, change into comfortable house clothes, someone in the living room told you to cook quickly, the child is hungry"
"It's been a weekend, I thought I could read my favorite novel, but someone told you to wash and cook and clean."
If your married life is like this, can you stop crying? Sometimes I think about it, marriage is just like that.
Now the children after 00 are no longer children, many families have begun to urge marriage mode, most families think that getting married and having children in their 20s is the normal trajectory of life, and even in the eyes of some parents, their children are more shameful than divorce. This traditional view of face is suffocating.
In this society, girls can also be financially independent and do not need to live the life of a husband and a godson as before. If she's not married, she can curl up on the couch on the weekends and watch her favorite movies, wear her favorite clothes to meet her friends, and do whatever she likes. In fact, I just think that women also have their own minds and souls, but also have their own hearts, they also have great ambitions and ambitions, marriage is by no means the only way out for women. Housewives are by no means the only destination.
Often friends or relatives say that your cooking is really delicious, you clean up the home so decently, you must be a good wife and mother in the future, who marries you he must be very happy.
I don't like the word "good wife and good mother", I hate it, I don't want my life to be defined by these four words. Nor do I want to be specific to whose wife and mother. I like to cook because I like good food, and I clean up my home because I like to live in a clean and comfortable house. These are just things I like, not relying on them to become a so-called "good wife and mother".
This may also be the reason why more and more girls are reluctant to get married, because they are always inexplicably defined by others. Marriage is like that cage, and when you go in, you can't get out.
My dad asked me: Why not get married?
Me: "I don't want to get married when I see you and my mom like this." ”
My mom asked me, "Why don't you get married?" ”
Me: "I don't want to get married when I see you and my dad like this." ”
My aunt asked me, "Why don't you get married?" ”
Me: "Aren't you divorced too?" Why stop getting married? ”
My uncle asked me, "Why don't you get married?" ”
Me: "You and your aunt quarrel and fight every day, and I fight every day when I get married?" ”
It's not that you don't want to get married, and you're afraid of getting married, and the ads you adults are so bad that they can't attract me at all.
So, it doesn't matter if you don't do it right. If you are willing not to get married, take your parents with you. If you are looking forward to marriage, then I wish you a happy life when you meet a good person. Life is your own, and being happy is the most important thing. Don't care what others think, parents. Knotting or not knotting is your own right.
A lifetime is so long, instead of meeting the wrong person, in the trivial quarrels and disputes, it is better to be alone, alone and beautiful. Inner richness and ease are more important than anything else.
Lin Xi also once said: "Many people get married just to find someone who can watch movies with themselves, if it is just to find a partner, I don't want to get married, I can also watch movies alone." ”
Married, the three views are inconsistent and blind, even the quarrel is not at a point, he does not understand your grievances, he thinks you do. You're going to hang yourself, and he thinks you're swinging.
If you don't get married, you don't get married, it's not wrong, it doesn't matter if you don't get married for a lifetime.
Here is a small commissary on the edge of the cloud, post-00 nonsense investors, thank you for your patronage