Since chasing "Please Advise Me for the Rest of Your Life", I have found a strange phenomenon, those characters in the play, no matter what they have done, but in their bones, they are all good people.
I remember when we first started, we especially disliked Dr. Yan.
Although the surgical plan he prescribed to Lin Jianguo would reduce the quality of Lin Jianguo's life, we have to admit that his choice is also very reasonable, and the most unacceptable thing is that because of the Lin School, they chose Gu Wei, and he immediately transformed into an old yin and yang master, and satirized Gu Wei in the open and secret.
Such a practice, it is inevitable that there will be some small belly chicken intestines.
But later, when Gu Wei was falsely accused, he stood on Gu Wei's side without hesitation, even if he did not consider Gu Wei's protagonist aura, we had to say that he was a very responsible doctor.
Of course, what surprised us the most was the two love enemies in the play.
The first is Gao Huan, as Gu Wei's green plum bamboo horse, likes Gu Wei for many years, and is the daughter-in-law identified by Gu Dad and Gu Ma, in most stories, she will definitely become a vicious female match.
But Gao Huan did not, although in the previous story, she added some blockages to Lin Zhi's school, but after knowing Gu Wei's sincerity, even though she had everything in her heart, she still chose to leave.
Of course, what moved me the most was that during the time when Gu Wei was framed, Gao Huan had just returned to China, and he used all his energy to help Gu Wei wash away his grievances, although he could not be a lover, but as a friend, Gao Huan was really good.
The second is Shao Jiang, as a person who liked Lin Zhixue in high school, Shao Jiang's appearance was completely to fight with Gu Wei.
Therefore, even if he knew that Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue had already held hands, he would still jump out and stalk and fight, which was somewhat unpleasant.
Fortunately, after talking to Lin Zhixue, he still chose to let go.
Screenshot of the TV series "Please Advise More for the Rest of Your Life"
We often say that when you can't love someone, you may only need one turn to find true happiness.
There are two reasons, one is that when a feeling becomes an obsession, the parties have lost themselves nine times out of ten, and after turning around, many things that were not clear before can be seen clearly, even if there is still no love, at least they can let themselves go.
As for the second, in most cases, when you are obsessed with a person, it is likely that there is another person who is also worried about you, because you only have that person in your eyes, and you will naturally ignore the person who has been guarding you.
When you let go of your gaze, you can naturally see the person who has been waiting for you.
For Shao Jiang, it is completely the second situation -
Over the years, from abroad to the country, there is a woman who has always followed him and made everything for him, and this person is his agent Anfei.
Because Shao Jiang is a Chinese, Anfei has been trying to learn Chinese, if you don't look at the face, just listen to Anfei talk, we may not think of her as a foreigner at all.
We all know how difficult it is to learn Chinese as a foreigner, and Anfei has worked so hard to learn Chinese in order to be closer to Shaojiang.
After all, although Shao Jiang was abroad at that time, as a Chinese, the focus of his career would return to China sooner or later.
After Shao Jiang returned to China, she was his biggest help.
Because I like you, I try to get close to you and become the same person as you, just to be able to help you, how deep such a love is, we can figure it out with our toes.
It's just a pity that over the years, Shao Jiang's heart is full of Lin Zhi school, and he can't see Anfei's efforts at all.
I don't know what to do, but I go deeper.
An fei and Shao Jiang met musically, and after knowing each other, they tried to stay with Shao Jiang, and later became Shao Jiang's agent, accompanied him to perform, and handled various concerts for him.
In my intuition, although Anfei has a deep affection, in her bones, she is always a proud girl.
Therefore, no matter how much she likes Shao Jiang, she will not take the initiative to express her heart, at least until Shao Jiang completely puts down Lin Zhi school, she will not declare this feeling.
Although I like you, when you have someone else in mind, I would rather just have the identity of a friend, even if I can only look at you from a distance, I feel satisfied.
If it wasn't for Lin Zhixue rejecting Shao Jiang, Anfei might have waited like this.
I even think that if Shao Jiang really came together with Lin Zhixue, she would not object, and even sincerely blessed them.
Thinking about it carefully, the turning point of the story actually comes from Lin Jianguo.
During that time, Lin Jianguo suspected that Lin Zhixue was in love with Shao Jiang, and specifically found Shao Jiang to ask about him and his daughter, and also asked about the future plans of the two.
At this moment, Anfei walked in, and Shao Jiang immediately introduced Anfei to Lin Jianguo, saying that Anfei was his agent and his girlfriend.
For Shao Jiang, this is just a stopgap measure to solve the problem, but for Anfei, it is a long-awaited warm moment.
When the heart was pierced, Lin Jianguo just left, Shao Jiang immediately changed his mouth, saying that she was his "temporary" girlfriend, but Anfei did not think so, without the lin school, anfei was a lot more confident, and issued his own declaration of love to Shao Jiang - "You are mine sooner or later"
In fact, at this time, Shao Jiang already had Anfei in his heart, so he did not directly refuse.
Later, Gu Wei, fearing that he would not be able to give Lin Zhixue a future, agreed to break up with her.
Although this matter got a perfect ending, Lin Zhixue was still very angry, because she was dissatisfied with Gu Wei for always hiding herself (to be fair, on this issue, Gu Wei is particularly similar to Gu Xiao, always thinking of carrying things when encountering things, but to the person who really loves them, the most wanted to do is actually to fight side by side with them).
In order to explain the situation to Lin Zhixue, Gu Wei chased all the way to Shao Jiang's company and kept guard outside the company's door.
Lin Zhixiao felt that this would not affect him well, and went out to remind Gu Wei not to pestering himself anymore, and Shao Jiang also came to persuade him to go back first.
Seeing the lonely voice of Gu Wei leaving, Lin Zhixue felt very uncomfortable, but he still asked Shao Jiang's emotional situation with a strong smile, and sincerely hoped that he could be happy and find a lover who could accompany him for a lifetime.
Because of Lin Zhixue's words, Shao Jiang began to face his heart, tried to accept Anfei, and took the initiative to invite Anfei to have dinner with him.
"If you want to invite me to dinner, I just have time." It can be seen that Anfei has been waiting for this day for a long time.
Although Lin Zhixue had been gambling with Gu Wei, when she really wanted to go abroad, she hesitated, and after thinking about it, she still decided to give up the opportunity to go to Germany, because she felt that even if she flew abroad, her heart would still be here.
For this decision of Lin Zhi School, Anfei did not object, although Lin Zhi School is a good seedling, but as a person who has come over, she knows what it is like for a person to "lose his heart".
From this point of view, Anfei is really similar to Lin Zhixue, because when facing emotional problems, they all choose to obey their hearts, and this is the most responsible attitude towards feelings.
Back to the original topic, if Shao Jiang has been clinging to his inner obsession and has been pestering lin zhi school, not only will he not be able to meet the truest love, but he will also become the most hated look of us.
We always say that the male protagonist is the female protagonist, and the male second is everyone's, because the male second is affectionate and loving.
I don't know, in this story, Shao Jiang is counted as a male number, but in the emotional world of Lin Zhixue, he is indeed the second male number.
But this male second, it is not everyone, but Anfei's.
To some extent, if it were not for Anfei's accompaniment all the way, Shao Jiang might not have reached the current height at all.
Between them, it is not only a relationship between love and being loved, but also the best business partners. Compared with the young White MoonLight Forest School, An Fei was the most suitable person for Shao Jiang.
Fortunately, Shao Jiang was able to stop the loss in time in his obsession with Lin Zhi school, so that he did not miss the happiness around him.
Not every love can be answered, in the red dust world, love and must not be the norm of life. However, when love is not possible, how we should continue is the most test of our wisdom.
If it is only rejected, we can still insist on it, if the other party already has someone else in mind, you may as well turn around and look behind you, because it is likely that behind you, there is also a person waiting for you.
And that person may be the best person for you.
It's just that the person who has been waiting behind him has been at the bottom of the love food chain, looking forward to an unknowable future.
Maybe this is fate, if the person behind him, because he waited too long and was discouraged and chose to give up, this love may only leave regrets.
(Originality is not easy, if there is a reprint, please indicate the source.) ）