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Where there is a father, there is a son! I am sure that I will be calculated by my children and grandchildren, and I can only make a "killing move" to change my life!

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I've been living with my daughter for almost two months and I feel good. During this time, she and I changed two cities, ate local snacks, visited places of interest, experienced different customs and customs, and lived a very happy life.

It diluted my anger towards my son and grandson a lot.

During this time, I saw through the surveillance camera in my mobile phone that they came to my door one after another, opened the door with the key, and naturally couldn't open it, and then they all took out their mobile phones to call me, but I had already replaced the original card.

Then I didn't see them again, and they couldn't open the door without the house certificate.

I knew they must have been crazy looking for me all this time, but they couldn't find me.

My daughter is a divorced and childless freelancer, and she loves to travel and has no fixed place to live.

And it was precisely because of my disappointment with my son and grandson that I finally chose to live a chic "nomadic" life with my daughter.

I agreed with my daughter: "No matter where I go, if I can't go any further, I will be cremated on the spot, and my ashes will be taken back to my hometown to be buried with my wife, and I don't need to inform my son or grandson."

An old friend of mine who talked about everything in the province knew what I was thinking and said to me, "I really didn't expect you to become such a ruthless person with such a traditional concept!"

I smiled bitterly: "If people don't do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed!" In the face of their naked calculations against me, I can only make a painful move!"

When my son and daughter-in-law were in junior high school, my son and daughter-in-law divorced because of emotional discord, and my grandson has been living with me for so many years.

Since childhood, the relationship between the grandson and the daughter-in-law has always been very good. Although in the first few years of divorce, his daughter-in-law did not have time to take care of him because of frequent changes. But it did not affect her grandson's affection for her.

This has also become the basis for her to claim value from us in disguise through the emotional kidnapping of her grandson.

My daughter-in-law is not highly educated and ambitious, and I always feel that my son has delayed her youth, and I want to make up for it from our old couple.

And the grandson has become a "tool man" that she can use justifiably and smoothly, and this child listens to her, and gradually forgets about the careful care and academic support we have given him since his father and mother divorced.

I don't know how to think from our point of view, but instead help the calculate us together.

My wife never survived the last year of the new crown epidemic, leaving me alone to live in this house of more than 100 square meters.

I have a pension of about 3,000 a month, plus my wife has left nearly 500,000 pensions, and my life is okay.

I originally thought that I would have sons and grandchildren who all lived in the same city as me, even if there were more mustards, when I was old and sick, they could not ignore it, and at the end of my life, I would die in this house, which was also a good ending.

But who would have thought that since this year's Chinese New Year, my son and grandson have brought home their new talk partners, and my ownership of my house has begun to be in jeopardy!

First of all, my grandson called me after the second day of February, saying that he and his partner were going to get married, and my granddaughter-in-law fell in love with my house, because this house has elementary schools, junior high schools, and high schools, and the schools are good.

I'm happy, and that's what I did. The house of more than 100 square meters, I live alone, it seems a bit big.

If my grandson and granddaughter-in-law get married, my house can be renovated and renovated so that my grandson and granddaughter-in-law can live in.

I have something to rely on, they don't have to take out a mortgage, and I leave them with my house savings and my pension.

I thought it was good, and my grandson's next sentence made me fall to the bottom:

"Grandma, I have taken a fancy to a good nursing home for you, not far from our home, the conditions there are very good, I went to live in a suite for you, the bathroom is also in the room, and it is only 2,500 yuan a month to eat and live."

Listening to my silence, the voice of my former daughter-in-law suddenly came from there: "Dongdong is your own grandson, who will you leave this house to him if you don't leave it?" Give early and give late, what is there to hesitate! "

I was angry as I heard that she was emotionally unfaithful and was found out divorced by my son. Because of this incident, we have been laughed at by our old family for a long time.

Where there is a father, there is a son! I am sure that I will be calculated by my children and grandchildren, and I can only make a "killing move" to change my life!

For so many years, we have looked at our grandson's face, and chose to ignore her behavior of emotionally kidnapping her and crying poor in front of her grandson at every turn, and asking her grandson to give her pocket money.

Now she has the face to talk about us, and I asked her: "You, your own mother, have you ever done a little bit of support for your children for so many years?" What do you have for your child's marriage? "

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I scolded her, but my grandson was upset and said that I was talking too badly, and that I was just thinking about him.

The more I thought about it, the more I held my breath, and I wanted to talk to my son and vent it.

I didn't expect my son's reaction after hearing me say this, which made me even worse.

He first scolded his grandson and his ex-wife. Later, the topic changed and said: "The nursing home mentioned by my grandson, he also inspected it for me, and it is indeed quite suitable for me." "

He said: "You also know my current situation, the new person I am talking about, I have two daughters, who are now in school, and if I want to live with her, I have to take on the responsibility of a father and pick up and drop off the children."

"You are really sick, there is a disaster, I simply don't have the ability and energy to provide for you. Your grandson doesn't seem to be able to point out now, you are alone at home, no one to take care of, not to mention loneliness, it is also a waste for the house. You still rent out the house, and the rent can also give me some subsidies for my family, and we can all rest assured that you stay in the nursing home! "

After listening to my son, I remembered a saying: If there is a father, there must be a son.

I couldn't think about it, so I called my daughter, who has been living in accommodation since she was in junior high school, and has been studying and working abroad for so many years, falling in love, getting married, and divorced, except for us getting some money in the early years, basically we don't have to worry about it, and she is very self-reliant.

The daughter knows the situation at home, but she never says anything.

When she heard me say this, she said, "If you don't want to be around them, come and live with me." I'll give you a pension! You can also live in a different way!"

My daughter's attitude gave me confidence.

I put the house on the list of agents and asked them to sell it for me.

I've thought it all out:

On the day I leave, I will not give any more money from the sale of the house and the savings in my hands, and I will leave all the money to my daughter.

I'm sure my wife under Jiuquan will also support me in doing so.

I didn't want to be so ruthless, but if I wasn't cruel to them, they would be cruel to me!

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