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Some people mention that the relatives have been around for a thousand years, the cousins have not left for a hundred years, the grandson is rich and does not know the uncle, and the nephew begs and sacrifices to the uncle, this sentence is really true at all!
My grandson and grandson were brought up by me, and I was afraid of falling into the mouth, so I treated them both equally, as long as I was around, whether it was food, clothing, or pocket money, I was absolutely in duplicate, and never said that because I was a grandson, I would favor one over the other.
In fact, a neighbor reminded me that my grandson is with someone else's surname, and after three generations, he is no different from an outsider, and my grandson is my surname, which is related to my blood, so I don't care so much about my grandson.
As a result, I didn't listen to persuasion, and the consequence was that on my 70th birthday, I understood the difference between my grandson and my grandson!
01
It is said that "my grandson is a dog, and I will leave after eating", but I disagree with this sentence very much, I feel that no matter whether my grandson or grandson is a member of my own family, why should I be so clear.
But my grandson's operation on my 70th birthday poured me a basin of cold water on me, making me clearly understand that the older generation would not say such things for no reason.
I am the only daughter in my family, I have been pampered since I was a child, and I entered a key university under the careful cultivation of my parents, and it is here that I met my current wife.
My wife and I were introduced to each other by a colleague, and I was quite old at that time, and I was already an older young woman at that time.
My wife has never been married because he is busy with studies and work, and when we first met, I didn't fall in love with my wife, because he was from a rural area.
My wife was the only college student in their village, and it could be said that she bore the hope of the whole village.
Because I have too much to bear, I will continue to have trouble in the future, if I marry such a person, I will have to bear it together as his wife, and I have not suffered too much since I was a child, so I don't want to put so much pressure on myself.
After I went home and told my colleagues what I thought, my colleagues said that I was stupid, "How honest such a person is, plus your family conditions are better than his, he will feel that he owes you in the future, and he will be doubly good to you!" ”
With the persuasion of my colleagues and the unremitting pursuit of my wife, the two of us naturally entered the palace of marriage.
After getting married, I didn't have such a deep affection for my wife, but I felt that the two of them were quite comfortable getting along, but in this growing relationship, I also fell in love with my wife.
My colleague has a sentence that is particularly right, after getting married, my wife feels that she has not given me a good living condition, so she wants to make up for me and loves me very much.
When my mother-in-law urged me to give birth, I didn't need to speak at all, and my wife stood in front of me for the first time, "We can give birth when we want, it's a matter for the two of us, Mom, don't worry about it." ”
I could see that my wife was friendly to me, and I didn't want him to suffer at both ends, so I promised my mother-in-law to have a child as soon as possible.
No matter what I do, my wife doesn't want me to worry, he will solve the affairs of his hometown by himself, I want to help, he will say that he doesn't want me to be burdened, I just need to go to my own class every day.
In this way, under the maintenance of my wife, I gave birth to a son and a daughter for him, and made up a "good" word, not to mention how happy my mother-in-law was, and made a big deal in the village for this purpose.
My son and daughter are two years apart, and my mother-in-law helped me take them to elementary school, but unfortunately passed away because of poor health, in order to take care of the two children, I can only be a full-time wife at home, and my husband has no objection to this, but is quite supportive.
With the passage of time, my son and daughter have been admitted to key universities, and after graduation, they have settled down in various cities, leaving my wife and me alone.
At first, I called my son or daughter every day to see them, but they were either in meetings or busy, and rarely answered my calls.
I was sad for a long time, and I felt that I really couldn't help it, and when I grew up, I didn't want to go back to this home, and I didn't even want my parents at home.
Fortunately, I still have the guidance of my wife by my side, and slowly I have adapted to this kind of life, and after my wife goes to work in the morning, I clean up the housework at home.
When my wife gets off work in the evening, we eat and then go to the park or the supermarket for a walk, although the days are peaceful, but very happy.
However, it didn't take long for my wife and me to end with the arrival of two people.
02
I received a call from my son that day, and I was still curious at the time, how could this busy man have time to contact me, an old man, and he must have gone to the Three Treasures Hall for nothing.
Sure enough, the weasel gave the chicken a New Year's greeting, and the son wanted me to help take care of the little grandson, he said that he and his daughter-in-law needed to go on a business trip, and the son had no one to take care of, and they were not at ease when they asked for a nanny, so they wanted to send it to me.
I felt uncomfortable, I felt that my son needed people in front of me and not in the back, but my grandson still had to take care of it, so my grandson began to live with me.
Not long after my grandson lived here, my daughter also had a problem, and then I heard that my grandson was here, so I thought about sending my grandson over, thinking that if the two children were together, they would also have a companion, and I had no objection to this.
The originally deserted home is lively again, both of them are older children, and I have found the fun of taking care of children before, although I am tired every day, but also happy.
Under my care, the two children grew up, and during this time, my son and daughter would come to visit from time to time, but because of the distance, they did not stay here for long.
When I came out with my two children, the neighbors would ask me, and at first I would say that one was a grandson and the other was a grandson, but then when someone asked again, I would say that they were both grandchildren.
Because I really can't listen to what some people say, although I know that they are kind, but I don't think so, but I don't know that I was slapped in the face by reality later.
The neighbors saw that I treated my grandson and grandson the same, so they said to me, "Sister, you can keep a snack, this grandson still has a foreign word more or less, no matter how good you are to others, it is in vain, in the end, people are still close to that side, you end up with no people and money, don't be stupid!" ”
At that time, I didn't like to listen to these words, they were all my own children, so I knew what to do, and even if my grandson had someone else's surname, he still had our family's blood on his body, what was different, but the reality was really different.
The two children are getting bigger and bigger, and when they are about to go to junior high school, my son and daughter don't let the two children be on me, and they take them back separately.
A few days after I was picked up, my son called me again and asked me to stay with him for a while, saying that he and his daughter-in-law often traveled on business and that there was no one to take care of his grandson at home.
I wanted to go, but I couldn't bear my wife, so my son finally took us both over, and so we began to live at my son's house.
But since then, my grandson has less contact with us, and as the two children enter high school, there is a significant gap in their grades.
In the end, my grandson was admitted to a key university, and my grandson relied on my dredge to get into a good junior college, but this grandson still thinks I am nosy.
Since high school, I found that my grandson's academic performance is getting worse and worse, so I often call him to say that I don't know if it's because of too much, my grandson starts to stop answering my calls, and he usually comes to see me, but gradually he doesn't come.
It was also at this time that I began to find out whether the neighbors around me were right in telling me, and it wasn't until my 70th birthday that I really felt the difference between my grandson and my grandson.
03
For so many years, my grandson hardly contacted us, and my grandson would come to live at home for a few days every holiday, and when I was 70 years old, my family said that they hadn't been together for a long time, and everyone went to get together together.
My grandson arrived early that day, and after I arrived, I hurried over to help, asking me if I was tired from riding in the car or anything, and not long after I arrived, my daughter and son-in-law also arrived.
Looking back, I never saw the grandson, and the daughter said that the grandson was too late last night and hadn't woken up yet, so I would come over when I woke up, and we didn't have to wait for him.
But having said that, I waited for the dish to be served, and I didn't move my chopsticks, so I wanted to see when my grandson came, and at twelve o'clock, my grandson came.
I didn't say a word when I entered the house, I sat down at the table and began to eat, I didn't even say a word of blessing to me, I was actually very angry in my heart, the same child I brought, you said that I was favoritism, you treated me like this, I had nothing to say.
Since I was a child, I have treated both of them equally, and I can't figure out why my grandson would be like this to me, is it really a blood relationship?
After a meal, my grandson gave me vegetables and gifts, but my grandson didn't say a word, and left directly after eating.
The bloodline is inseparable, whether it is a girl who marries or a son who marries a daughter-in-law, there is always the same bloodline flowing in the body, and in the final analysis, it is a family.
We don't have to be so clear, home is a place of intercession, not a place of reason, a person's understanding of family affection is not caused by blood or genes, but by education.
The word blood relatives is not groundless, some people say that the daughter who marries out spills the water, and the daughter marries out is someone else's person, so she shouldn't care anymore.
But the daughter is also a child who has been raised by herself for more than 20 years, how can it be said that she will give up, especially in modern society, there is not so much attention to the inheritance of boys and girls, and sometimes even the surname is discussed.
So family affection is always family affection, even if my grandson is no longer sensible, he is also my grandson, and he is also a child of our family!
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