Although many people don't like Shao Jiang, from the perspective of adults, Shao Jiang seems to be more suitable for Lin Zhi School than Gu Wei, for the following reasons:
First, the relationship between the young plum and the bamboo horse allows them to have the best love starting point.
Although many times, the relationship between green plum bamboo horses, because they are too transparent with each other, it is not easy to produce the love between men and women, but from the perspective of marriage, the relationship between green plum bamboo horses is the most appropriate.
Because of the green plum bamboo horse, know each other's roots, if you add the blessings of both parents, this relationship will be smoother. After all, in real life, the blessing of both parents, although not a necessary element of love, is the most important plus.
Second, similar interests and hobbies allow them to have more topics.
Lin Zhi school likes to play the piano, Shao Jiang is a musical talent, lin school has always admired Shao Jiang's talent, even she chose to learn the piano, more or less also has Shao Jiang's shadow.
Someone once said that good love and marriage, even if we are seventy years old and eighty, we can still find common topics, for them, not only common topics, but also grow together.
Third, the two of them are close in age and can accompany each other farther.
From the plot point of view, Lin Zhixue and Gu Wei are more than ten years apart, and Shao Jiang is three or four years old, not to mention that people of similar age can find a common language, just from the rest of their lives, if Lin Zhixiao and Shao Jiang come together, they can accompany each other for more time.
Although we always say that age is not a problem, we have to admit that in a high probability, Gu Wei is likely to leave first, and after Gu Wei leaves, what is left for Lin Zhixue is a long period of loneliness and thoughts.
(Of course, this is purely personal opinion, please spray lightly if you don't like it.) ）
Screenshot of the TV series "Please Advise More for the Rest of Your Life"
Not only that, judging from Shao Jiang's performance after returning to China, Shao Jiang seems to be quite good.
First of all, it is because of Shao Jiang's long-term affection.
Judging from the plot, Shao Jiang has been abroad for four years, everything has long been human, but the feelings for Lin Zhixue seem to have never changed.
I have never understood why Shao Jiang has not contacted Lin Zhixue for four years. According to his own account, it was because lin zhi school was still small at that time, there was too much uncertainty between the two people, and now he had a successful career, so he returned to China to confess to Lin zhi school.
If this is the case, Shao Jiang can also be regarded as a responsible boy.
Secondly, it is because of Shao Jiang's carefulness.
That day, he went to the Lin family as a guest, accidentally saw Lin Jianguo's medicine, learned that Lin Jianguo had cancer, and he immediately began to arrange for Lin Jianguo to go abroad for treatment.
Without raising the bar, such a careful boy is really rare. In other words, ordinary people may be curious when they notice those medicines, but they will never think about it for so long. As for his autonomy, we can also understand it as concern and chaos.
Although the two families are family friends and should care about each other, I think that being able to filial piety to each other's parents as if they were their own parents is really reliable.
Third, it is because Shao Jiang can bring happiness to Lin Zhi school.
Gu Wei was very good, but because of the nature of his work, he was always busy and didn't have so much time to accompany Lin Zhixue.
On the other hand, although Gu Wei once gave Lin Zhi school an opportunity to practice the piano, but interlaced like a mountain, in comparison, Shao Jiang can help Lin Zhi School realize the value of life and find the happiness that belongs to music.
If it weren't for Gu Weiying appearing in the life of Lin Zhixue, I believe that most of us would bless Shao Jiang and Lin Zhixue.
However, from another point of view, Shao Jiang also has his own fatal weakness.
First of all, Shao Jiang is not really long-term.
We believe that Shao Jiang's statement that he wants to wait until everything stabilizes before he confesses his heart to Lin Zhixue, but I think that if he really liked Lin Zhixue once, it is absolutely impossible not to contact Lin Zhixue for four whole years.
If Shao Jiang really liked to live in lin school, he would not be unaware of the difficulties of Lin school over the years, and if he could participate in the life of Lin school early and help Lin school in a timely manner, Lin school would not always knock the triangle iron.
I even think that the reason why he came to Lin Zhixue was most likely because he was not good enough to mix well abroad.
Second, Shao Jiang was too naïve.
Helping Shao Jiang add a lot of points to Lin Jianguo's going abroad, but it is in this matter that we can see his childish side.
In this matter, Shao Jiang may really be kind, but he ignored a problem, from going abroad to treatment, this is a big expense, it is likely to spend all of Lin Jianguo's savings, in case the treatment fails, it is likely to return to the pre-liberation overnight.
The most ridiculous thing is that he obviously did not have a single word with Lin Zhixue, so he went to the hospital on his own initiative to find Lin Jianguo's medical records.
Third, the Shaojiang River has no sense of boundaries.
Although he and Lin Zhi's school were young plum bamboo horses, but now that they were all adults, he still staged a head-touching kill at every turn, and how to look at it felt a little inappropriate.
"Children avoid mothers, women avoid fathers", even between mother and son, father and daughter, when children reach adulthood, they should have a certain sense of distance, not to mention that they are just green plum bamboo horses.
At the most heinous time, the Minglin School had already rejected him, and he was still stalking there.
Of course, Shao Jiang also had an opportunity, but he personally lost the opportunity.
Later, when the two were practicing together, Lin Zhixue was in a bad mood because of Gu Wei's affairs and had been out of state.
During the break, Shao Jiang once again expressed his heart to Lin Xia, saying that he regretted going abroad, saying that if he had not gone abroad in the first place, it is likely that they would have been together long ago.
Admittedly, this statement is true, and if he had not gone abroad in the first place, it is likely that they would really be together by now.
But the "if" thing is always just if, and all the assumptions about the past are superfluous, because the future can still be worked on, but the past can never be repeated.
"There is no if, it is all in the past, and it is only now that I slowly know what I want, and it is at this time that I met the right person." 」
"I think when I was in high school, I liked you, I liked my brother, but my liking for Dr. Gu was my liking for love."
Having said all that, Shao Jiang finally understood everything and truly chose to let go.
"It's just that the timing wasn't right, and everything changed." Maybe if he could return to China earlier, the end might be different, but he didn't, and such an assumption had no meaning at all.
Just when the atmosphere was awkward, Xiao Shan called and rescued Lin Zhixue in time.
"The last thing I need now is your comfort, I just digest it alone." Fortunately, at this time, Shao Jiang was still relatively sober, did not continue to entangle, and left himself with the last decency.
Having not read the original work, the blind guessing of the later Shao Jiang will also be similar to Gao Huan, and start his life again in another place.
Lin Zhixue liked Shao Jiang, but that was when he was in high school. Now that Lin Zhixue has been a university, there has been no contact for four years, and the relationship between them has long since returned to the original.
Thinking like this, even without Gu Wei, it would be difficult for them to continue the original heartbeat.
I liked you, but that was once. Such words always sound full of regret.
You have touched my heartstrings, but you have never stopped for me; you have come to my world and disappeared without a trace; I have liked you so much, but you have never given me the slightest response.
With such feelings that cannot see the future, what qualifications do I have to wait for you in what identity?
However, just as I have put you down and started my new life, you have come back and told me that you like me too, but you have forgotten that my liking for you has long been a thing of the past.
I think that before this, Lin Zhixue must have waited hard for Shao Jiang, and at that time, she must have been full of expectations for the current reunion, but now, that expectation has long been exhausted.
I believe that Lin Zhixue will like Gu Wei because in her heart, there is no shadow of Shao Jiang.
Although Gu Wei is somewhat straight men and is not as "romantic" as Shao Jiang, he is mature and stable, affectionate and single-minded, and has a promising job, so he naturally becomes the most suitable person for Lin Zhi school.
As for the gap between them, whether it is the cognition of external objects or the difference in living habits, as long as they really love each other, it is not too much of a problem.
Happiness is actually like this, even if there has been an opportunity, even if the other party has liked you, but once you miss it, it is really over, because in this world, no one has the obligation to wait for you all the time.
(Originality is not easy, if there is a reprint, please indicate the source.) ）