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"The rest of your life, please give more advice" is really a rare film and television work.
Although I have not read the original novel, it is safe to say that Xiao Zhan's "Rest of My Life" with Yang Zi has completely exceeded the scope of novels.
This TV series not only spreads a lot of beautiful classical music to us, but also shows us a lot of sad and painful human suffering.
Before all this is about to end, "The Rest of Life" once again leads us to think about the concept of "the rest of our lives" through the perspective of Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue.
When Lin Zhixue's father almost accurately knew the end of his life, when everyone confirmed that lin Jianguo could not be saved in this flower world through external forces.
Gu Wei also showed us the concept of "hospice care", a concept that most people can't face.
Under the influence of thousands of years of Confucian culture, few people will directly use the "bloody" name of hospice care.
Instead, most of them are less direct names such as "palliative and palliative care", "palliative care", "palliative care", etc.
Indeed, the medical concept of hospice care is ultimately an "imported product".
In any way, he is "incompatible" with us, who have a history of five thousand years, so even now there is still a phenomenon of "water and soil incompatibility".
Chinese people have long had a deep-rooted concept of "death", and most of them are very secretive about death, and even very taboo to talk about death.
In a survey of Chinese families on the "concept of death", only 36.18% were able to discuss the topic of death with their families at home.
Another 14.06% of families have never had a discussion with their families about the topic of death.
At the same time, this kind of hospice care, which originated from Western civilization and concepts, is in fundamental conflict with our traditional concept of "filial piety culture".
This special ethical and kinship relationship is, in the eyes of outsiders and families, "children have the obligation to serve their parents."
For the elderly, whether it is emotional or material, such a small social group has an irreplaceable role in social security.
For these reasons, a large proportion of older people are still willing to choose to live in their families in the final stages of their lives.
For the children of the elderly, they are unable to face the "pressure" of family affection and traditional filial piety.
If they choose to give up the treatment of their parents and choose to receive hospice care, they are very likely to be pressured by society and public opinion.
As a result, comments and discussions such as "filial piety" and "irresponsibility" will follow.
Even in today's modern and open era, such voices and discussions still exist.
Under such a big premise, although the young Lin Zhixue can accept the advice and guidance of her fiancé Gu Wei, can her mother and relatives at home also accept such a choice?
Maybe in "The Rest of Your Life", there will be no trace of noise, but how many people can accept it in reality?
Let your loved ones no longer suffer from the pain caused by chemotherapy, and choose a more comfortable conservative treatment, but you will separate yourself from your loved ones prematurely.
Such a choice is not something that everyone can make, it is not a choice, it is a choice!
Even if Lin Zhixue and Li Huijuan in "The Rest of My Life" agreed to let Lin Jianguo receive hospice care treatment, Lin Jianguo was very cooperative with such treatment.
But the real-life hospice may not be as beautiful as in "The Rest of Your Life".
And this may be like those "hidden deep meaning" classical music, which is left for us to think and explore in "The Rest of Our Lives".
In reality, the mainland established the first specialized research institute for hospice care as early as 1988.
However, after more than 30 years of development and exploration, such a medical model is still in the "primary" stage, and there is no clear "legal" identity.
In some related studies and reports, experts believe that at least 6-8 hospitals in the general large city should have 80-120 hospice beds.
But to this day (2017 data), there is still no city that can reach such a scale, even if it is rich as the north, the upper and the wide.
In addition, in the eyes of many people or in practice, the main service population of hospice care is mostly concentrated in terminal cancer, elderly patients like Lin Jianguo.
People of other ages, such as cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases, chronic respiratory diseases, and children, are mostly in a state of neglect.
In addition, Gu Wei in "The Rest of Her Life" did not introduce what hospice care was like Lin Zhixue, but just let her see and feel it herself.
In fact, hospice care is an emerging discipline that spans multiple disciplines in addition to medicine.
In terms of complexity, he is more complex than the "MDT multidisciplinary consultation" often mentioned by Gu Wei, Gao Hun and others.
For example, it is often mentioned that "theory of science", "sociology", "demography", "humanistic sociology" and so on.
However, the mainland's research and exploration in this regard is pitiful, and it is limited to "descriptive" research in the only relevant papers.
Finally, this medical concept, which was finally pushed out by "The Rest of Life", does not actually have a "legal" identity in the mainland.
In terms of laws and regulations, the relevant administrative departments have not yet had a clear legal positioning for hospice care.
This has also led to the end-of-life relationship being placed in a very awkward position, and neither the health department nor the civil affairs department has a clear management authority.
Under such a situation, neither the medical insurance system nor most local policy subsidies can cover hospice care.
This has also led to the emergence of problems such as "no publicity", "no guidance", "can't afford to live", "can't live" and so on.
Yes, hospice care is more like a "money pit" than expensive and frequent cancer treatment, a time-consuming, laborious, and space-consuming "money pit."
Because it is conservative treatment and aims to alleviate the pain of patients before they die, he is more like keeping chronic patients in the hospital and cannot give them expensive patent drugs.
From my personal heart, I am very envious of Lin Zhixue, and she met Gu Wei, an attending surgeon who loves her deeply.
But "The Rest of My Life" is like this, he starts from the first episode, but constantly throws us various issues and topics.
Let me constantly swim between music and medicine, this episode I am still tasting the meaning of a classical song?
In the next episode, I was immersed in the deep thinking that medical or sociological issues brought me.
I wanted the rest of my life to end so that I could get away from these thoughts and thoughts.
I don't really want "The Rest of My Life" to end, so that I can continue to see Gu Wei flirting with Lin Zhixue.
Maybe the ending of "The Rest of My Life" is perfect, maybe the ending of "The Rest of My Life" is sad.
Maybe I can find the direction of life from "The Rest of My Life", maybe I can draw my attitude towards life from "The Rest of My Life".
Maybe I understand what the "rest of my life" really represents, he is the rest of Lin Zhixue and Gu Wei's life? Or the rest of Lin Jianguo's life? Or the rest of Li Huijuan's life?
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