The TV series "The Rest of Your Life Please Teach More" is being broadcast, and as the plot unfolds, the relationship between Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue has gradually deepened, and in Gu Wei's body, I have also seen a mature view of love. Everywhere does not talk about love, everywhere is love, a look, an action will show his love for Lin Zhixue vividly, his like is not sweet words, but the details of every move.
1. Love House and U
Because they like Hayashi School, they also love Ya and Wu for Hayashi School and pay their own care and time. Although Lin Jianguo was his patient, Gu Wei's concern for Lin Jianguo had long gone beyond the greetings between normal doctors and patients. This point is reflected in many details, first of all, Lin Jianguo can't eat because of chemotherapy, Dr. Gao's answer is both official and distant, and Gu Wei took time to visit him after doing surgery for a long time, on the one hand, he instructed him not to eat, on the other hand, he took the initiative to ask about the food he wanted to eat, and then left in the dust, even Dr. Xiao Du sighed: Dr. Gu actually came? Secondly, when Lin Jianguo was discharged from the hospital, Gu Wei not only gave instructions in person, but also personally wrote down the precautions and handed them to Lin Zhi school, which showed the degree of care.
This kind of person who cares about a person, and even the person she cares about, has become the object of her own concern, not only let Lin Zhixue find the main heart, but even become her psychological dependence, unconsciously into the life and heart of Lin Zhixue, so that the silent practice of moisturizing things will not only not make the other party disgusted, but will produce the bud of love without being aware.
2. There is a degree of progress and retreat
In the relationship between Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue, I saw the word "not hurrying". The development and heating of the two people's feelings did not go very quickly nor very slowly, when Gu Wei carefully tested whether Lin Zhixue had a boyfriend, his nervousness was visible to the naked eye, and after receiving a negative answer, the smile on his lips exposed his mind.
I thought that after knowing that the school did not have a boyfriend, he would grasp the timetable white, or speed up the development speed between the two, but Gu Wei did not, he was still like before, not hurried, gave the other party the most comfortable atmosphere to get along, did not deliberately show his heart, but as early as every move reflected his difference in Lin Zhi school. Learning to try the Coke that Lin ZhiXue likes, trying to eat her favorite hot pot, and eating breakfast in the way of Lin Zhixue, every small detail makes me see Gu Wei's tolerance and respect for Lin Zhixue. Dr. Gu, who is so advanced and retreating, is really difficult not to be impressed.
3. Reject ambiguity
Gu Xiao said that Gu Wei was not close to a woman, at first I thought it was too pompous, after all, there was a high doctor around him, but when Gu Wei realized that he liked Lin Zhi school, he had begun to take the initiative to keep a distance from Dr. Gao and refused to be ambiguous. When eating cake, Dr. Gao is accustomed to seeing the two as the same kind of person, excluding others, not only taking the initiative to hand Gu Wei exclusive tableware, but also wanting to share the cake with him, and Gu Wei, who is seriously clean, takes the initiative to pick up disposable tableware, refuses Dr. Gao's sharing of food, and always pays attention to the expression of Lin Zhixiao, although the two people's intentions are not mutual, but even a little opportunity to cause misunderstanding Gu Wei will consciously stop, so that the boy who is "clean and self-righteous" gives the other half a sense of security.
4. Resolve misunderstandings
Smart people know how to resolve misunderstandings rather than create them. In the relationship between the two, although Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue had a misunderstanding, it usually did not last more than ten minutes, and he understood how fragile this relationship that was still in the bud was, so any misunderstanding would be explained in time. Instead of the usual TV series, the male and female protagonists do not open their mouths because of a small misunderstanding, and then one suspects that the other party does not trust, one suspects that the other party does not explain, and finally consumes feelings in the process of mutual pity. Gu Wei did not evade the problem and took the initiative to resolve the misunderstanding.
For example, in the play, Lin Zhixue thought that Gu Wei had moved to Dr. Gao's house, and he was angry, Gu Wei took the initiative to propose it during the meal after gu Wei knew it, and he solved the misunderstanding; for example, when Lin Zhixue hysterically said that Gu Wei deliberately tortured her, he was not angry and did not feel that the other party did not know the good villain, but first admitted his behavior, and then explained the reason for his doing so, and the atmosphere between the two returned to normal in an instant. Take the initiative to communicate, resolve misunderstandings, if people in the relationship can do this, I think there will be very few people who regret being separated by misunderstandings.
I thought it was a relaxing little sweet drama, but I learned a lot from Gu Wei and Lin Zhijie, especially Gu Wei's mature concept of love, which made me understand that a good relationship needs to be managed with care in addition to the joy at first sight, have you learned?