The most carefree time in life is when you don't know how to love.
Once you fall in love with someone, you are always a little afraid, afraid of getting him, and afraid of losing him.
This feeling of gain and loss is the most torturous, but the world is inseparable from "love". After all, this life is only for themselves, it is too lonely and lonely, if there is a person they care about, they have unlimited expectations.
However, love is not always good. Sometimes, the person you fall in love with doesn't love you, or you have loved each other once, but because of various misunderstandings, you can't go back to the past, and the other party just wants to leave you.
So, where do you go from here? Although there is no shortage of people who use stalking moves, it is appropriate to treat lovers who are still in love, and if that person does not have any feelings for you, it is useless to pester.
Not being entangled is the best way to love someone.
Shao Jiang in "Please Teach More for the Rest of Your Life" is the brother of Lin Zhi's school Qingmei Bamboo Horse. When Lin Zhi School was most confused, his few words gave her the direction of her efforts, and since then Lin Zhi School has found her own life goal.
Shao Jiang is a talented violinist, who became famous at a young age and has his own career that took off all the way. The others were handsome, and they were once the Prince Charming in the hearts of all girls in high school, but in his heart he was the only one in the Hayashi School.
Unfortunately, although he appeared in her life very early, because he did not confess at the most appropriate opportunity, he was taken by Dr. Gu Wei and occupied all the hearts of Lin Zhixue.
Shao Jiang once thought that as long as they were not married, he still had a chance, after all, Lin Zhixue's parents had a solid foundation there, and he confidently thought that there was absolutely no problem in becoming Lin Zhixue's boyfriend.
But in fact, love never comes first, first served. Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei have experienced this ordeal of their father's stomach cancer, the two encourage each other, redeem each other, and have long been in touch with each other, the difference is that layer of window paper.
Even if it is not broken, the girl's heart has long been buried, and it is difficult to change it. When the two people showed their hearts, Shao Jiang was even more impeccable. In the face of love, he chose to face it bravely and did not continue to entangle.
Shao Jiang's choice was actually very wise. The highest state of loving someone is not necessarily to have her completely.
Having two people's common good memories and watching her truly get happiness is not a kind of happiness?
Smart as Shao Jiang, he is no longer stubborn, but let go of this heavy feeling, and gives the warmth to the people around him who treat him best.
Shao Jiang was like this, why not Gu Wei?
Once, when he didn't understand Lin Zhixue's intentions, he mistakenly thought that Lin Zhixue's heart liked Shao Jiang.
After all, the person who appears during a girl's most confused period is likely to become someone who will never be forgotten in a lifetime. What's more, Shao Jiang is excellent, comparable to lin zhi school, and the lin family's parents also like it.
Therefore, Gu Wei chose to retreat. Although the heart is very painful, compared to it, pestering a girl who does not have herself in her heart can not make herself as she wishes, but also disturbs the life of others can not be peaceful, so why bother.
31-year-old Gu Wei, mature and rational, although this is the first time in his life to be touched by girls, what he thinks is that her happiness is more important than anything.
Fortunately, Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue were both in love, and the two also began a romantic love.
But life can be smooth anywhere? Happiness is never at your fingertips.
Because Gu Wei was violently attacked by the Internet, his work was suspended, and his career was confused, he knew that he could not give Lin Zhixue a happy promise, so he messed up the first formal visit to his future parents-in-law.
The original appointment between the two to study in Germany was disrupted, Lin Zhixue also proposed to break up, in order not to drag down the future of his girlfriend, Gu Wei decided to stop pestering and let the loved one fly away.
Although the double blow of life, career and love is trapped in a low valley, Gu Wei believes that since he cannot give his loved one a good future, it is also a kind of happiness to watch him develop in a better direction.
So, for the second time, he chose to accept reality and promised not to pestering her again.
Compared with Shao Jiang's letting go, Gu Wei's letting go may be more difficult.
After all, Shao Jiang was in love and could not be loved, and Gu Wei compromised for love. But whether it is Shao Jiang or Gu Wei, their way of treating love is worth pondering.
Instead of leaving the other party reluctantly by his side and unhappy, it is better to bear all the pain alone.
Respect each other's choices and achieve each other's life and happiness, so that it is the performance of deep love for a person.
There are often some people in life who are tormented by love and do not want to live, so that the people around them are uncomfortable with it, but they cling to it, and even become obsessive, and in the end, they actually harm others and harm themselves.
Life is not so long, why bother with it like this. Love is only a small part of life, without love, does not mean that there is no everything.
When you understand this truth, you will find that sometimes, letting go and not entangled is true love.
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