In this society where the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is tense, as a mother-in-law, she is most afraid of encountering a daughter-in-law who is arrogant and unreasonable; and as a daughter-in-law, she is most afraid of encountering a strong and domineering mother-in-law who is good at moral kidnapping.
Some mothers-in-law have never been able to level a bowl of water. When you are young and have convenient legs and feet, you choose to help your favorite son raise a family. And when you are inconvenient with your legs and feet and are sick for the elderly, you go to find an honest son to retire.
Although there are all parents in the world, no matter what parents do, children cannot resist and refute too much. But parents have been biased for a long time, and their children will eventually be cold, and eventually they will cut off contact with their parents.
01, the mother-in-law worked hard to help the younger son raise the family and raise the child
In Yangmei's impression, her mother-in-law has never been kind to herself. Since she married into her in-laws' family, her mother-in-law has been working hard to raise children in the little uncle's house, even if she is tired of a problem, she has no complaints.
Yang Mei's husband, the eldest son of the family, although he was admitted to the university by his own efforts, he was far away from the poor mountain village. But in the eyes of the in-laws, their most eccentric is the younger son, the husband's brother.
Even if this young son has no success, he dropped out of school at a young age and went to society. But after several years of wandering, he did not earn money to support himself, but instead relied on his parents and brothers for relief. But even so, the little uncle who is good at sweet talk still coaxes his in-laws to turn around and pay for him alone.
When Yangmei was pregnant and gave birth, her mother-in-law waited for her brother-in-law's daughter-in-law Yuezi at the little uncle's house, but she let her find her own mother to serve the confinement. Yang Mei was angry, but she could not force her mother-in-law to take care of herself, so she could only tearfully invite her mother-in-law's parents.
Later, the mother-in-law became even more intense. No matter when Yangmei turned to her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law said that she was exhausted and needed to help her younger son with her children and let Yangmei find her own way.
Finally, the mother-in-law also said coldly that she did not have the ability to raise children, so she did not want to give birth. Whoever gives birth to the child and who takes care of her may not be obliged.
02, the mother-in-law is sick and pensioned, but only looking for the eldest son
After being ruthlessly rejected by her mother-in-law, the strong Bayberry never asked her mother-in-law again. Even when she was bitter and tired, Yangmei gritted her teeth and survived. And her husband still does not understand her stubbornness and stubbornness, thinking that she is self-inflicted.
After surviving the most difficult first few years, Yangmei thought that she could finally catch her breath and enjoy her life. But who knows, the mother-in-law who works as a cow and a horse in the little uncle's house has come to her husband with a lot of pain.
As soon as the mother-in-law came to Yangmei's house, she disguised that she was willing to come to the eldest son's house. But Yangmei is very clear that the mother-in-law was driven out by her sister-in-law who crossed the river and demolished the bridge, and had no use value. But the mother-in-law also deceived herself, and Yangmei did not immediately expose her.
The mother-in-law is still crying and complaining about how she has worked hard to help her younger son raise her children, and even the pension for many years has been pasted upside down to the younger son's family, but now she has ended up with no one to support.
The husband is very distressed about the mother-in-law, and he promised to say it without saying a word, and his parents will follow him to retire in the future. The bayberry standing next to it did not agree.
She asked her husband, your parents will follow you to the pension in the future, but now the mother-in-law is full of pain, every three to five to go to the hospital, who is out of this medical expense? The in-laws' pensions are all given to the little uncle, and they can't get the money, so aren't we the wronged boss? The benefits do not account for half of the points, and we have to rush ahead of the things that contribute money.
03, the eldest daughter-in-law to drive people: I am not obliged
Yangmei's accountability made her husband stunned. He was embarrassed for a minute, but finally advised Yangmei not to be unforgiving, his parents are now homeless and pitiful, if they do not take them in, his parents can only go back to the dilapidated house of their hometown to retire.
Her husband's pleading, although it made Yangmei feel the slightest move. But thinking of the cruelty and indifference of her mother-in-law at that time, Yangmei still made up her mind. She said, if you're going to take in your parents, then we'll divorce. Your parents didn't give me a little favor, and I don't owe them anything.
Despite her husband's intercession, Yangmei directly rushed people: At the beginning, you said that you had no obligation to help me raise my children, and now I am not obliged to give you a pension. Everyone is even with each other, who you help to raise children, go to find someone to retire, it is natural.
The in-laws immediately looked ugly, and they still wanted to die and struggle, but Yangmei did not show any mercy, and directly took out 3,000 yuan to the in-laws to let them go back and forth from where they went.
Her husband is still blaming Yangmei for being unkind, saying that his parents are not saints, where can they not make mistakes? But as a child, you can't say things every day with your parents' mistakes, not to mention that the feud of the confinement is really not shared in the sky?
Yang Mei did not care about her husband, and she did not know whether the feud of other people's confinements was not shared. But her feud of confinement is indeed not shared by the heavens. After that, the mother-in-law's indifference broke her heart even more.
She can allow her husband to perform filial piety, but she will not put her in-laws under her own eyes to fulfill filial piety. Whether it is to say that she is selfish, to say that she is cold and cruel, when she is the most tired, the most bitter and difficult time, how can the mother-in-law consider her feelings?
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Do you support Yangmei in sending her in-laws away?
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