Two years ago, the son took his parents from the countryside to the city, saying that he wanted to make the second elder happy. But who would have thought that half a year ago, the son would drive his parents out of the house and disappear himself. What happened in between, why did the son change so much?
Here, for the time being, the son is called Xiao Wang. The matter also started with Xiao Wang bringing his parents to live with him. The mother's personality is relatively strong, since the fight moved in, three days of two ends and quarrels with Xiao Wang's wife. The mother not only had many contradictions with her wife, but also had a relationship with Xiao Wang.
The mother believes that Xiao Wang and his wife have made a lot of money over the years, so the demand for Xiao Wang is becoming more and more serious. When Xiao Wang could not meet his mother's needs, the mother thought that her daughter-in-law was doing something wrong with it, making a big fuss, and threatening to go to court to accuse Xiao Wang and his wife.
For more than a year, Xiao Wang's life was miserable. In desperation, he chose to divorce his wife and leave the house by himself. After the divorce, the parents moved out. But later, the parents found out that Xiao Wang did not seem to be really divorced, because the son and daughter-in-law still lived together.
Xiao Wang's divorce and not leaving home made her mother think that she had been deceived, and she came to Xiao Wang for three days. In order to affect the normal life of his wife and son, Xiao Wang had to choose to move away and go to other places.
Xiao Wang's parents still refused to give up. Parents believe that Xiao Wang has always been a good child who is filial and sensible, and the reason why he has become so ruthless and ruthless is because of the provocation of his daughter-in-law.
Parents can't find their sons, so they have to pestering their daughter-in-law, hoping that the daughter-in-law can assume the responsibility of the second old. When the daughter-in-law saw the unreasonable mother-in-law, she naturally did not have a good face, and directly called the police to complain about the other party's disturbance. Accompanied by relevant personnel, Xiao Wang's parents went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to determine that their son had long been divorced.
Although the second elder promised not to harass the other party again, he still hoped that the other party could tell him where his son had gone!
(The plot is fictional, and if there is a similarity, it is purely coincidental!) ）
Comments:
After reading the above story, I don't know what everyone thinks?
The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an eternal problem. Especially in contemporary times, people are self-conscious and their status is elevated. Daughters-in-law no longer resign themselves to it, so that those mothers-in-law who "become mothers-in-law" cannot bear the huge gap. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has also attracted more and more attention.
The starting point of the contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law in the story is still Xiao Wang, the son of the mother-in-law, and the husband of the daughter-in-law. After marrying a daughter-in-law and having children, the focus of a man's life will naturally shift from his parents to his wife and children.
Of course, this does not mean that when a man marries a daughter-in-law, he forgets his mother. At each stage of life, the focus of life and work is different. Children cannot always follow their parents' instructions and follow the instructions of their parents. Times and environments cannot remain static.
Fathers and children are very different in their lifestyles and habits. Does this mean that parents and children cannot live together? Our parents raised us for more than a decade. When we grow up and have children, our parents are also in their twilight years. It makes sense that parents want to spend more years with their children and that their children want to spend more time with their parents.
But in the process of getting along between the two generations, there is still a lot to pay attention to. Parents cannot always treat their children as minor children, and children must also give their parents sufficient understanding and respect.
Of course, the most important thing is to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In the family, there is no marriage between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there is no blood relationship, it is entirely because of a man, so that the woman who originally did not intersect, has a connection. The quality of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law directly affects the harmony and stability of the family.
In the above story, the son took his parents from the countryside to the city, originally meant to allow his parents to enjoy the blessings in their old age, but who ever thought that in the end, it would become the nightmare of the second old. The son's intention is good, but he does not consider the consequences and cannot mediate the relationship between the mother and his wife, which has caused the situation of the wife's separation.
Knowing the mother Mo Ruozi, what kind of character and living habits the mother is, shouldn't the children be the most clear? There is nothing wrong with filial piety, but you must also express it in a way. If you are not able to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, do not let your mother-in-law live under one roof for a long time. Never overestimate your own abilities and the endurance of others.