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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Someone once asked me: "What do women care most about men's conditions?" ”
Perhaps, many people feel that women care most about men's money, but in fact, they are not, women in the relationship, really look at money is not much.
When women and men enter into a relationship, they need to be tolerated and loved by men more, and they can really put her in their hearts, which is far better than giving her money.
No matter what kind of feelings, women will not only look at men's money, but care more about whether men are specific to themselves.
On the basis of love, men can make women have an absolute sense of security, which is what really impresses women.
At the end of the day, women attach great importance to feelings, and under this premise, they care more about whether the man they love has better hard conditions than how much to save.
Because, the money is gone, you can earn it back, but you lack the necessary ability, and you may not be happy in life.
So, what women really care about is these "hard conditions" of men, and I hope you have them.
First, have the ability to make money
In the eyes of women, men can have no money or no house, but they must have the ability to make money.
If men are incompetent and not self-motivated, even if the family has money, women may not be able to see it.
Therefore, men want women to follow you firmly, preferably with the ability to make money so that they can give her a visible future.
In life, many men do not work hard enough, but they are bent on marrying a young and beautiful daughter-in-law, which is naïve.
Everyone wants to marry a beautiful and virtuous wife, but only if you have the ability to give a woman a happy life.
If you don't work hard, and you don't have the ability to make money, just fantasy, it seems unrealistic.
What women really value is not men's money, but men's ability to make money, and a capable and far-sighted man will definitely be favored by women.
Therefore, men should change their minds, do not think, must be down-to-earth, and actively improve their abilities.
When you are good in yourself and have stronger abilities, it is easy to believe that you want to find the ideal object.
Whether it is love or marriage, women will not only look at men's savings, but care more about men's abilities.
Some men don't work hard themselves, and they think that women spend money indiscriminately, which is ultimately a manifestation of inability.
Of course, I don't approve of women reaching out to men for money, but men also need to have the ability to make women happy.
Having money does not mean that you can get a woman's favor, only by letting a woman see that you are a positive person, have a strong ability, and can give her a sense of security, she can rest assured to be with her.
Second, be able to assume family responsibilities
A responsible man, who can take on the responsibilities of the family, is most likely to impress a woman's heart.
Because, after being with you, women do not want to live a rich and noble life, but hope to have a strong dependence to make life more smooth.
Men have a sense of responsibility and are willing to pay for the family, which will surely make women feel at ease and be able to devote themselves to life wholeheartedly.
In the eyes of women, responsible men are often more moved than rich. Many times, a man is willing to take responsibility for the family, even if he has no money, he can get the favor of women.
Especially after marriage, a man's sense of responsibility is more important, which is also the place where women attach the most importance.
A man without responsibility, certainly will not let a woman get happiness, is likely to live a chicken feather.
They don't want to pay, they have to live and live, naturally they can't get the favor of women, and even let women down, so they are discouraged and leave.
On the contrary, men have the responsibility to work hard for the family and take the initiative to take the pressure of life, which will make women particularly moved.
At this time, women will also work hard with men, because with dependence and a strong spiritual pillar, life will definitely get better and better.
Therefore, what women really value is not men's money, but men's sense of responsibility.
This is also the reason why some men are very poor but can marry beautiful women, because they are excellent, have a strong sense of responsibility, and are willing to work hard for the family.
Such a man, often can get the favor of women, will make women choose you more firmly.
In fact, women who fall in love with men, or are willing to marry men, really do not care about men's money, but through communication, see your responsibility, see your responsibility.
In this way, we will willingly be with you and create a happy life in the future together.
Third, take the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex
Women in the relationship, all hope to get the man's exclusive love, eager to be gentle for a lifetime.
Therefore, what women care about most is whether men are emotionally single-minded and whether they can always love them.
If men are very careful, even if they have money, women will not be involved.
Because, women will not give themselves to a man who is not worthy, if there is no sincerity, it will definitely stop the loss in time.
Whether it is love or marriage, women will not like the kind of man who is not single-minded about feelings, and if men cannot restrain their emotions, women will eventually leave with a cold heart.
On the contrary, when a man can take the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex and treat his feelings very sincerely and single-mindedly, he will definitely get the favor of women.
In the face of such a man, the woman will be firmly with you, no matter whether the future is good or bad, it will not leave you.
In fact, what women really care about is not men's money, but the love of men's lives.
It is far better for men to love women, cherish women, and truly put women in their hearts than to give women money.
In life, some men have money, but they do not get the favor of women, the reason is that this kind of man is not single-minded, and he provokes women everywhere.
And some men, although the economic conditions are not good, but there is a beautiful woman around, the reason is very simple, such a man is single-minded, can cherish and care for women with heart.
Therefore, if men want to get the favor of women, and want women to be firm with you, they must take their feelings seriously.
When you live up to a woman's infatuation, she will be willing to be with you and go to a better future together.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Zhang Xiaoxian wrote in "The Woman on the Bread Tree": "Affection is a burden that I cannot bear, and love words are only lies that are occasionally honored." ”
Women have always been very cautious about feelings, because they are afraid of being betrayed, and they do not want to be hurt in their feelings.
Therefore, when they interact with men, they will carefully judge the sincerity of men, even if there is a slight hesitation, they will not rush to communicate.
Therefore, in the relationship, what women really care about is not the man's money, but these three hard conditions:
Men must have the ability to make money, be able to take on family responsibilities, and take the initiative to keep their distance from the opposite sex.
When you do this, I believe that women will be more favorable to you and wholeheartedly with you.
I hope that in life, everyone can meet the real right person and truly love each other until the white head.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.