When many people watch "Xiao MinJia", they think that Xiao Jie is pitiful, just escaped from the side of Ma Baonan, and fell into the hands of Xu Zheng, a person with perverted control desire, but I feel that the reason for this pathological love relationship is not Xu Zheng alone, Xiao Jie also has a big problem, she and Xu Zheng are together, it really confirms the sentence "Zhou Yu beat Huang Gai, one is willing to fight one wish to be beaten", others can not be persuaded!
So what's wrong with Xiao Jie? First, Xiao Jie's love brain is too serious, she always feels that Xu Zheng can't see her close to the boy, because she loves her very much, even if she has normal interactions with some of the opposite sex, after being interfered with by Xu Zheng, she is a peaceful person, she wants her to delete the contact information, even if it affects her work, she will not hesitate, her such a move, will only exchange for Xu Zheng's intensified control, in fact, at this time Xiao Jie should fundamentally look for the reason, see if Xu zheng has been hit by anything, or has psychological problems. After finding the cause, then prescribe the right medicine, so that the problem will be solved, rather than the love brain's belief, which is Xu Zheng's performance of liking himself.
Second, Xiao Jie is immature, look at things can never see the essence, in fact, Xiao Jie is not a child, but also married once, many things only like to look at the surface, can not see the inner thoughts of others, she feels that Xu Zheng sends flowers to her every day, picks her up and commutes, as soon as there is a party, not to follow, or to guard at the door, in the eyes of colleagues, this is Xu Zheng's love for her performance, so it caused a wave of envy, Xiao Jie also has a light on his face, he feels that he is not happy, but she did not think that Xu Zheng was so inseparable from her, Not because of love, but because of distrust, because of the perverted desire to control in Xu Zheng's heart!
Third, Xiao Jie is very willful, when Xu Zheng and Xiao Jie took both sides of the family to see the house, Xiao Jie was dissatisfied with Xu Zheng's mother's proposal to have children after they got married, the face collapsed at once, in fact, as a parent, the children have children after marriage, this is a very normal issue, if the couple has other plans, you can be reasonable with your parents, there is no need to put a face at the beginning, that twisted and pinched look is quite annoying, who sees it is uncomfortable, this is a second marriage person, but also so willful, It's a bit overwhelming.
There is also the latest plot, Xiao Jie and Xiao Min went to the nursing home to see their mother, because all aspects of the nursing home were deeply rooted in the mother's heart, so when Xiao Jie proposed to let her mother go home with herself, her mother clearly refused, and there was no half unhappiness, it was a good nursing home in her heart, but Xiao Jie wanted her mother to go back with herself again and again, and then her mother really couldn't help it, saying that she was tired for a lifetime, and now she wanted to choose to live the life she wanted to live, Xiao Jie did not say it again, in fact, Xiao Min understood her mother's heart very well, When her mother wanted to come to the nursing home, she only said that as long as her mother was happy, but if she was a little unhappy in the nursing home, she would go back to live with herself, which gave her absolute freedom and did not make the family feel estranged.
Finally, why Xu Zheng has no sense of security, because Xiao Jie does not have a sense of boundaries for boys, whether it is with friends, colleagues, family, she is always grinning, do not know convergence, just like Xu Zheng asked her not to use her hands and feet on Jia Jun, although Jia Jun is her nephew, but the good villain is also a big boy, even Xiao Min's mother will be jealous of some things, not to mention her aunt, in addition, in order to appease Xu Zheng, she has deleted Qian Feng's contact information, but when she is in a nursing home, why should she let Qian Feng sit in her own car? Isn't that self-inflicted trouble?