In the TV series "Xiao Min's Family", Xiao Jie and Xu are a pair that has attracted more attention, and many viewers hope that Xu is Xiao Jie's true son, because Xu Zheng is handsome and rich, and he is also very good to Xiao Jie.
However, the problems exposed to him should not be underestimated, such as being too easy to be jealous, as long as he is a man, he will be jealous, even Jia Jun is no exception, which seriously affects Xiao Jie's work and life.
Because Xu Zheng, Xiao Jie and his old friend Qian Feng have broken off contact, in a sense, they are not in contact can also be understood, after all, Qian Feng likes Xiao Jie, this is something that Xu Zheng and Xiao Jie know, and it is also a suspicion to avoid contact without contact.
However, Xu Zheng asked Xiao Jie's customers to work not to be men, which is too much to say.
Xiao Jie has tried her best to satisfy Xu Zheng's possessiveness, she tried to choose female customers, but in order to be promoted, she had to contact male customers, and she did not expect Xu Zheng to know and then became jealous.
Xu Zheng wants Xiao Jie to live in the world of motherhood, and there can be no males who intersect with her, but this society is that there are men and women, and it is impossible to deal with only women and refuse all male jobs, but this point offends Xu Zheng.
Xu Zheng opposed Xiao Jie's taking over the male customer, and also gave her a multiple choice question, fiercely saying that she should choose one between the male customer and him, directly forcing Xiao Jie into a corner.
Xu Zheng is very good to Xiao Jie, he loves Xiao Jie very much, but the unreasonable demand he makes is to kidnap Xiao Jie with love, which is very selfish, and if this problem is not solved, they will be separated sooner or later.
Xu Zheng's approach is certainly not right, but what we want to discuss today is Xiao Jie's choice, in the face of the choice question given by Xu Zheng, how should she answer?
In fact, although each man has different reasons for "kidnapping" women, they do require women to sacrifice for them, sacrifice their careers, and sacrifice their future in many cases.
Therefore, Xu Zheng's choice question has given all women a wake-up call, that is, how to balance or how to choose when facing career and family or husband.
If Xiao Jie can achieve balance, then of course, there is no need to do a choice of two, which is the best result, but if it is not balanced, Xu Zheng does not give Xiao Jie the opportunity to balance, then the only thing left is choice.
If it really comes to that step, career and family, how will Xiao Jie choose?
Although Xu Zheng really loves Xiao Jie, and his family conditions are also very good, this does not mean that Xu Zheng will always love Xiao Jie and let her have no worries about food and clothing for a lifetime.
There are too many examples that have proven that the consequence of a woman giving up her career for the sake of her family, not to get more, but to have the possibility of having nothing and wanting to start over is too late.
Therefore, women really can't be confused, they must first let themselves have a career and confidence, and then talk about feelings and families, and don't give up the fundamentals of their own survival for things that are too variable.
Love can be said to be no, the family can be said to be scattered, only career and work can be firmly grasped, what women do well is not as good as marrying well, has been proved to be the wrong view, women must not be confused.
I hope that Xiao Jie can withstand the pressure, make the right choice, and stick to his ideas, because this matter is not a big problem at all, and work and family can be coordinated and balanced.
This matter is Xu Zheng's problem, he is too selfish, Xiao Jie should not sacrifice his future for the problems of others, even if Xu Zheng is not jealous, because of other reasons to prevent Xiao Jie from developing his career, Xiao Jie should not compromise, women should have this persistence, so that there will be no end of the day!