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Good character is already the standard of mate selection that more and more women attach importance to. With the abundance of material life, the traditional marriage of "marrying and eating" has become a bit outdated, and in today's well-eaten and well-dressed, women have begun to put the advantages and disadvantages of character in important consideration when choosing a husband.
However, its measurement standards have their own advantages. Some people think that respecting the elderly and loving children is a good character, and some people think that filial piety to parents is a good character... But it is often overlooked that when taking responsibility, the man who is willing to take the initiative to stand up and take responsibility is a more advanced manifestation of good character. It is a man's courage and open-mindedness, and it is the most solid pillar to carry the family.
We all know that between husband and wife, apart from the principle and bottom line things, everything else is a small thing. Often, those who make the family jump are also caused by small things; in the end, divorce is not a big thing.
All this is because the husband and wife pick each other's faults, and when there is a problem, they think about how to pick themselves out first, and push the responsibility to each other. And the person who is forced to be responsible is even more a stomach full of anger that has nowhere to be sprinkled, and the grievances of a stomach have nowhere to tell. Over time, the feelings were consumed, and then The labor swallows flew apart.
And those who are angry in the family are mostly because there is a husband who is willing to take the initiative to take responsibility.
The little aunt is a person with a very bad temper, because she is the youngest child in the family, and she is spoiled a little lawless. After marrying someone, her temper did not relent at all, but if there was anything in the in-laws that could not go along with her wishes, she would "bluntly" lose her temper anytime and anywhere.
At the beginning, the in-laws were also very upset by her. The three married sisters-in-law also easily did not dare to return to their mother's house, and every time they thought of their parents, that is, they bought good gifts and secretly called out their brothers to take them home. Everyone was afraid of provoking this powerful sister-in-law.
The little uncle is a very good-tempered person, including the little uncle's parents, are gentle old people, and the neighbors are also people who give a thumbs up.
Although the little aunt just married into the house and made a fuss, the in-laws also tried to tolerate it. The little uncle took the reason for the little aunt's tantrum to himself, saying that he could not speak or do things that fell into the eyes of the little aunt, so he caused her to make a big fuss. He never said a word to his aunt in front of his parents and outsiders.
Four years have passed, and the little aunt who is mirror-like in her heart is no longer making trouble. She even said something to outsiders: "Even if my husband goes to the street to beg for food, I will follow him, no matter what kind of mix he will be in the future, I will follow him in this life." ”
It turned out that once the little aunt was kind enough to help the neighbor see the store, and the neighbor said that there was one less men's shirt, and it was the most expensive one in the store. Although it is not explicitly stated, the implication of the statement is already obvious - to identify the little aunt as a "guard and self-theft".
At that time, the store was not basically equipped with a monitoring system like now, and the little aunt cried and cursed while aggrieved.
Later, it was the little uncle's apprentice who proved his innocence for the little aunt, saying that the shirt had been taken by him half an hour ago, and now he had come to deliver the money.
The little aunt was dumbfounded, she hadn't seen the boy take the shirt from the shop.
Later, the little uncle's apprentice explained that it was just to help her round the field. Because the little uncle had been at work, he had also taken responsibility for him. At that time, it was obvious that the young man's work mistake caused losses to the customer, but the little uncle took the initiative to take the responsibility to himself, and he paid the customer 2,000 yuan.
The little uncle said to the young man at that time: "You don't have to feel sorry for me, I am your master, you make a mistake in your work, I am responsible." In the future, work more seriously and don't make the same mistakes again. ”
Therefore, the young man has always remembered the words of the little uncle, and he has also taken the little uncle as an example, whether in work or life, he is a man who takes the initiative to take responsibility.
Later, the neighbor also personally came to the door to apologize. It was his own husband who took the shirt away and gave it away, not telling her in time.
Although in the end, the misunderstanding was lifted, but at that time, if there was no young man who took the initiative to stand up and take responsibility, then the little aunt was really full of mouth and could not explain it clearly.
However, the little aunt also knows that the favors she has received are all good rewards because the little uncle took the initiative to take responsibility for others.
After that incident, the little aunt suddenly woke up, for so many years, the mistakes she made were the little uncle taking responsibility for her, although the man's shoulders were very broad, but how big his grievances were, it was estimated that they were too big to move their backs.
Later, the little aunt sincerely apologized to her in-laws and took the initiative to invite the three sisters-in-law to go home for the reunion dinner. In the days to come, she was also extremely filial to her in-laws, and every time she wanted to lose her temper, she would think of the husband who took the initiative to take responsibility, and she actually suppressed her bad temper.
The former "black smoke miasma" home seemed to have changed greatly, and the little uncle finally did not have to be that gas bag again. With a man's courage to take responsibility and willingness to take the initiative to take responsibility for the harmony of his wife and family, he finally won a warm home for himself.
When there is a disagreement between husband and wife, there is a husband who is willing to take the initiative to take responsibility, and the contradiction between husband and wife will be greatly reduced. And this responsibility and tolerance of men is also more likely to stimulate the resonance of love in his wife.
Selfish men often think of pushing their wives to the front when things go wrong. The man who takes the initiative to take responsibility will definitely protect his wife behind him at such a time and take responsibility for himself.
Marrying a man who is willing to take the initiative to take responsibility is a woman's greatest happiness and the strongest "foundation" for long-term happiness in marriage. If you just happen to meet such a good man with a big explosion of character, please be sure to cherish him, he is worth your true feelings, he will certainly live up to your true feelings.