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The more children emerge, the farther away they are from their parents, which is a helpless situation. However, some children are far away from their parents because of their careers, and most of the girls are because they are "far away from marriage".
It is not easy to start a new family, and over the years, examples of unhappy marriages abound, and many parents would rather marry their daughters later than let her marry into another city. However, a mother and daughter who have recently become popular do not have these troubles.
Women marry neighbors, and mothers often "feed" across the wall
Many parents do not ask their daughters to marry the rich and noble families, but prefer that the man is a family that knows the roots, and the woman has done it.
When a woman marries into a neighbor's house only separated by a wall, her married life is surrounded by happiness, both the care of her husband and in-laws, and the love of her mother at any time.
In the picture is a rural bungalow, there is a red brick wall between the two families, this wall is not high or short, separating the space but not separating love, the mother can reach out her hand to "feed" her daughter.
Sometimes it is simple fruit, worried that the daughter will send hot buns if she does not eat well; when she washes and encounters, she will give her daughter a glass of water; she will hear her sneezing across the wall, and she can send cold medicine directly to her daughter.
This kind of concern is not a day or two, but a year, two years, usually there are many such pictures, but the woman did not record all of them, after seeing it is really envious.
Netizens have sighed: "Open the wall, this is not more convenient", this may be the nearest mother's home, I also want to see if the neighbor has a good child, in advance to help the daughter choose a choice.
Smart daughter not far to marry? There is some truth to this statement
It is said that marriage should not be too far away, but it is also a minority for women to marry so close. From another point of view, a woman can marry into the neighbor's house not only she and her husband have a green plum bamboo horse feelings, the parents of both sides must have gotten along very well for so many years, is the real "know the roots".
The wise daughter is not far from marrying this sentence, And Tuanzi's mother once heard it from the mouth of a treasure mother, Xiao he. Her daughter and Little Candy took a school bus and we often chatted together.
Her family conditions are not very good, after graduation, she stayed in the school city to work hard, and met her excellent husband in the process of work. At first, she and her family were very happy, but as she settled in another city after marriage, she also experienced the grievances of marrying away.
Although I have been wandering for many years, I have few friends who are particularly close to me, and my usual days are a bit boring. His own little family is very happy, but the shorter holidays are too late to go back and forth to his hometown, and he can only call his parents and send a video to tell him about his thoughts. Her husband was okay with her, but he couldn't stop her from missing her parents.
In the eyes of her mother-in-law, it is not easy for her to be alone outside, and neighbors also call her "daughter-in-law from abroad", all of which makes her never have a sense of belonging. Xiao He has said more than once that if there is a chance to choose again, I will definitely not marry far away.
Why is it said that the daughter of a wise man is not far from marrying? The sourness of it comes to people understand
The mother of the child is worried, but the girl does not choose to marry far away, not only to reduce the entanglement of the mother's family, but also to make herself more belonging.
Time seems to pass slowly, but carefully calculated, if you only meet with your parents once a year at the New Year after marriage, then the next few decades will be only a few dozen faces, and some regrets are difficult to make up for later.
Parents are getting older, if the daughter marries too far, there are happy things can not come back in time to reunite, parents are sick, encounter trouble can not quickly rush to the side, that feeling of powerlessness only experienced people understand.
Of course, parents will not stop their children from going too far, marrying far away is not the only measure of happiness, how to balance or rely on the efforts of the family.
Tuanzi's mother's heart:
If the woman is married very close to each other, then they also need to pay attention to the scale of interaction, and sometimes too much interference will bring contradictions. If you really meet true love and marry far away, then the man must also be considerate of his wife. Regularly accompany the wife back to her mother's home, or occasionally pick up the wife's parents for a tour.
Women who are married far away should see through their parents' actions of reporting good news and not worrying, call their parents more to greet them, and do not let their parents worry.
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