"There is only a mother in the world, and a child with a mother is like a treasure, thrown into the arms of the mother, and happiness cannot be enjoyed"! “
Of course, children with mothers are good and happy, but how many people know how much the price to pay to be a mother is, how much suffering, how many sins?
From pregnancy: morning sickness can not be eaten, inconvenient movement, the face began to grow spots, the stomach protruded stretch marks.
Then to the imminent delivery: nervousness and fear, nine deaths, incontinence shame, a frail life can not take care of themselves.
Then to the postpartum period: due to the lack of experience with the baby, panic, mental tension, extreme anxiety, and even depression.
The child is older: there is no self, all the plans are based on the child first, and the heart that cannot be finished for the child to eat, wear, live, go to school.
So still doesn't feel anything? Still can't understand the pain and tiredness of being a mother? Such young people should take a good look at the family drama "Dear Child" starring Qin Hao and Ren Suxi.
In the plot of this drama, there is no dog blood plot and deliberately created conflicts, some are all real life chai rice oil and salt, and some "solved" and "unsolvable" troubles encountered by the characters in life.
Especially Fang Yinuo, who became a mother for the first time in the play, the details are portrayed as particularly real and delicate, even if people who have not experienced the life of a pregnant mother can be deeply touched by her experience, and have sympathy and reflection.
Episode 1: Fang Yinuo stood in front of the mirror to remove makeup, wiped off the foundation, and revealed melasma on both cheeks. Then she took off her coat and shirt, took a few steps back, began to look at her own figure in the mirror, and then looked down at her stomach, which was covered with stretch marks on both sides, and she couldn't bear to look up, her eyes were full of tears, and her mood was very low.
Through this segment, we can see how much pregnancy affects a woman's appearance and figure, and how depressed a woman's mood will be in this huge change.
Episode two: Fang Yinuo broke the amniotic fluid and was hospitalized in labor, she appeared calm and brave on the surface, but when the birth doctor pushed her to the delivery room, she was extremely nervous and afraid, talking vigorously, and asking her husband why she had not come. When she arrived at the delivery room, she gave birth vigorously, sweating profusely, looking exhausted, but the child was not finished, she used the last bit of strength, and finally gave birth to the child, and then she herself was weak and had mild hallucinations.
Through this segment, we see the psychology of a woman when she gives birth, and how painful it is to have a child, how great it is, and it is no exaggeration to say that having a child is to let her go through the ghost door once.
Episode 3: Fang Yinuo returned to the ward from the delivery room, and after her husband Xiao Lu came in, he suddenly smelled a stink in the room, and he said this idea. After Fang Yinuo listened, she lay down and looked up at her lower body, and then realized the problem, it turned out that she was incontinent, so she drove everyone out in shame. Her husband wanted to help her clean up, but she was very embarrassed, but she really couldn't take care of herself, so she had to cover her head with a pillow and let her husband handle it on herself.
Through this segment, we can see that as long as a woman gives birth to a child, she must face the problem of shame, in fact, not only incontinence, prenatal examination and childbirth, women must face unreserved exposure to strangers, even if they are reluctant and uncomfortable, they must also be overcome for the sake of children.
Episode Four: Because she is a novice mother and has no experience, Fang Yinuo returns home after childbirth, carefully coping with everything about the child, feeding the child, recording all the changes in the child, and paying attention to any small things related to the child. Usually, as long as the child cries, as long as there is a little abnormality in the body, she will be nervous and overwhelmed. After the child had a jaundice (unable to eat or sleep), she became more cautious, and for a long time afterwards, she was in a state of extreme anxiety and tension.
Through this segment, we can see how deeply the mother's love for her children is, how much she cares about and cares about the children's usual health, and these are completely from their hearts and unconditional.
There are many such dramas in "Dear Child", and here I will not go into detail one by one, but I will look at it with my own heart to ensure that it is more moving than this text description.
Young people have limited ability and do not have the ability to return maternal love for the time being, which does not matter. But I should at least understand how difficult it is to be a mother, and how selfless and great maternal love is.
Knowing this, the young self can at least start now, have a better relationship with their mother, and let them have a little happier and happier.
Other than that!
As young girls, it is still a benefit, they can see the plot of Fang Yinuo, to understand what kind of experience it is to be a mother, and what kind of attitude they should have to treat marriage and being a mother in the future, which will be more smooth and better than Fang Yinuo's mother. (End of full text)
—— What are some of your memories of your mother?
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