Many people say: Parenting is like fighting monsters to upgrade, you must have enough patience, as well as super ability, in order to continue to upgrade in the "game" process. Indeed, parenting is not as easy as imagined, and you must be vigilant every day in order to keep groping for progress along the way.
As a new mom, parenting is really mixed, with expectations and fears. Although I have done a lot of psychological construction before, and I have learned and accumulated relevant experience with babies, I really used it in practice, and found that the gap between imagination and reality is really too big.
On the road of parenting, the mother always steps on the pit, so that she and the baby are suffering. Originally wanted to provide more care for the baby, so that they can grow up in a relatively comfortable environment, but instead they are kind enough to do bad things. Many parenting mistakes, unconsciously walk in, and then at the cost of the baby 'injury'.
Next, I will share some parenting misunderstandings that have been confirmed by many mothers, hoping to help more young mothers. These mothers use their own personal experience to warmly remind more mothers not to step on the pit on the parenting road, so that the baby can suffer less.
The following parenting misunderstandings, as a parent, you must know early!
Myth 1: The sleeping head type has become a thing of the past
Until now, there are still many elderly people in rural areas who are "intimate" for the baby to prepare the shaped pillow. Make a pillow with a thick book and a soft towel to secure your baby's head to the book. I just want to say that such a self-made shaped pillow really needs to be eliminated.
In this age of health and freedom, flat heads really don't look that good. And adults know that sleeping is fixed into a posture, and it is particularly hard, and it is definitely uncomfortable. What about young babies? They're sure to feel bad too.
Myth two: more sun exposure, can supplement calcium elements
Babies do need plenty of calcium to grow up to help their bones and teeth grow. But if you only take the baby to the sun, you want to let them ingest calcium, which is really a bit of a "fool's dream". There is no necessary connection between sun exposure and calcium supplementation, and can only be supplemented through food supplements, or calcium tablets, liquid calcium.
The study found that basking in the sun, at best, is only a mediator, which can promote the increase of vitamin D components in the baby's body and promote the absorption of calcium. Therefore, don't joke about the baby's health, and often bask in the sun, it is easy to make the delicate skin tan and sunburn.
Myth three: Eat complementary foods early to get better in your body
The girlfriend recently had a big fight with the mother-in-law because of the baby's food supplement problem. The old man feels that after a hundred days, he can give the baby rice soup, rice paste supplementary food, and even feed the baby with his girlfriend on his back. But the girlfriend feels that the supplementary food can not be early, at least until after half a year old.
There are a lot of old people who always use the ideas of that era to raise children, and this idea is inherently wrong. The standard of living is constantly improving, and the concept of child-rearing naturally has to keep pace with the times. The addition of complementary foods is related to the baby's gastrointestinal health and must not be carried out early.
Written at the end: there is no best parenting experience, only the most suitable parenting method for your own baby. This is the case on the road to parenting, combined with the baby's physical development, to choose the most beneficial parenting method for their health. Those so-called parenting remedies and traditional concepts really need to be changed.
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