This is perhaps the first time that a domestic drama has focused the camera on such a woman.
She looked in the mirror and began to remove her makeup.
Foundation, eyeshadow, lipstick...
Revealing her dull complexion, sagging skin, and full of macular spots.
Then, she took off her coat and the camera moved down.
A huge, hideous belly came into view.
It was covered with stretch marks, as if to break the belly.
Touching his stomach, feeling a living little life.
The woman showed a look of pain.
Her parents are alive, her husband loves her, and her family is happy.
Why do you show such a look?
Some people say that just watching the first few episodes, if this is a European and American drama, it will have been blown to the sky a long time ago.
Some people say that they don't want to see it but can't help but look at it.
This is the best domestic family drama in recent times.
Or rather, it's an apocalypse worth thinking about for every man.
Don't believe it, you see —
"Dear Child"
Just looking at the plot introduction, some people may feel that the dog is extremely bloody.
The birth of a daughter has brought a seemingly harmonious and happy family into a day and night of quarrels.
The wife blames the husband for not caring enough, and the husband complains that the wife is too cautious.
Between the parents of the two families, they also have different ideas and give each other a face.
In the end, they broke up and parted ways.
However, when they have married separately and reorganized their families, an accident has come.
The daughter was diagnosed with leukemia, and doctors suggested that her biological parents have another child and save the daughter with umbilical cord blood.
Otherwise, you can only watch your daughter die.
To save, or not to save?
Two families, four men and women.
Further up, there is the older generation that is constantly arguing.
Ethics and morality are at odds with each other.
When you think about it, you feel that the sense of contradiction and conflict is too strong!
However, when the audience turns on the TV at the point of watching the dog's bloody topping.
What comes into view is a 3-minute long shot.
Fang Yinuo, played by Ren Suxi, removes makeup and undresses in front of the mirror.
Looking at his ugly belly and haggard face, he showed a look of pain.
Such a large belly, hanging under the thin body.
The spine is pulled by gravity and it is difficult to stand up straight.
The impact of the picture is very strong.
It also shows the long-lost truth in domestic dramas.
It was a true pregnant woman, weird, ugly, and tired.
She has the love of her parents, the care of her husband, and has not been hurt by the outside world.
But physical pain and mental stress will still make her unable to control her emotions.
With lighting and sound effects, it is like a horror movie.
Not to mention her sweaty and sore face during childbirth.
Let people who have had production experience feel empathy, but also let people who have not seen a cold sweat.
Does this treatment look familiar?
Hu Kun, the director and screenwriter of "Dear Child", is the script planner of "The Hidden Corner".
Although it is not the original team, the style and angle of the story will still remind us of the summer dominated by "Little White Boat".
Then again.
"Dear Child" is a bold attempt in this era of encouraging fertility.
Because the audience's most evaluation of it is "fear of marriage and childbearing brochure".
In the previous domestic dramas, "fertility" was not only filmed very easily.
And almost none of them come from the perspective of the pregnant woman herself.
Most follow a process:
After learning the news, the whole family rejoiced, vomited a few times when pregnant, became a little grumpy, and then let the husband show a little "spoiled wife power". In the blink of an eye, I arrived at the delivery room, the husband waited anxiously at the door, heard his wife roar a few times, and the child was born smoothly. Then the whole family gathers around the mother and baby, enjoying themselves in the ward.
However, how fortunate are these few in reality?
There have been data showing that about 10%-15% of women will suffer from postpartum depression.
This equates to one in every 10 pregnant women who suffer from depression.
And we all know that from depression to pathological diagnosis, there are countless pressures in between.
What kind of life do most pregnant women live?
In addition to the shape.
Pregnant belly can also cause compression of the bladder and frequent toilet visits.
You can't sleep and can only lie down, you can only half lean on the sofa.
Blood circulation is obstructed, the legs are swollen and it is difficult to walk.
Pregnancy is more than just "a little heavier."
And in "Dear Child", I also noticed more terrible harm -
Maternal self-esteem.
Fang Yinuo returned to the ward after giving birth.
Because the lower body anesthetic has not been passed, there is no consciousness, so it is not known that he has not controlled the excretion.
Husband Xiao Lu (Qin Hao) did not have the heart to say "how to have taste".
This made Fang Yinuo feel extremely ashamed.
An adult, in front of friends and family, strangers sharing a ward, is incontinent.
How many people can afford it?
Asian talk show actress Huang Ali once shared her story.
Friends told her to pick up a few extra packs of free diapers at the hospital.
Not for children, but for yourself.
Postpartum incontinence is a problem that all women who become mothers have to face.
It's torture enough to happen.
But the husband did not understand.
Xiao Lu advised her not to be ashamed, and forced her to face it.
The plot caused controversy.
Some people think that Xiao Lu does not know how to respect his wife.
Some people also feel that Xiao Lu is not afraid to be busy, is it not good enough?
In fact, this scene is very common in hospitals, but most people ignore one fact:
Incontinence in a sober situation, the feelings of the parties have long exceeded "shyness", but "shame to face".
Fang Yinuo's self-esteem as a person to others is frustrated.
Xiao Lu's reaction, on the other hand, was that he was self-centered and "he didn't mind."
Another plot.
Mother-in-law and friends are all around to tease the children noisily.
In the whole ward, Fang Yinuo became a supporting role in that corner.
No one even noticed that she couldn't reach the water cup at the head of the bed.
It wasn't until her mother entered the ward that she first discovered her daughter's helplessness.
This is also a very real and moving detail.
When a woman goes through great difficulties and torments, she finds that everyone's attention is on the child.
For a vulnerable woman, it was tantamount to telling her that she was just a birth tool.
Don't think it's women who are too pretentious and too vulnerable.
Under the influence of hormones and mental stress, it is too normal for women to be prone to depression.
Along with emotional instability, there is also paranoia and jealousy.
I asked my sister-in-law to take care of the children, but I always suspected that my sister-in-law was lazy.
Give the child to the mother-in-law to take, and I am afraid that the mother-in-law will not be able to play cards all day.
Even pull out binoculars to monitor remotely.
I know I'm a middle school teacher.
When encountering a child, he instantly transformed into a first-level response hand of the public account.
Putting "experts say" on the lips, you can't listen to other people's explanations at all.
When you find out your child is sick, it's crazy.
From home to the hospital, hoarse and incoherent.
Just looking at Fang Yinuo's behavior, it is really easy to draw the conclusion of "brainless".
But when we follow the camera to experience Fang Yinuo's various helpless moments.
You will understand how much pain a new mom needs to digest alone if she wants to look strong.
The biggest problem naturally lies with the husband.
Although compared to many people, Xiao Lu can already be called a "good husband".
He would massage his pregnant wife's calves every day.
I will also be busy with my wife.
But always absent at important moments.
Before Fang Yinuo gave birth, he went home to deal with work, but he opened a bottle of beer, overslept, and directly missed the delivery.
Let Fang Yinuo not find a family member to answer here.
Fang Yinuo woke up every night in the middle of the night to feed.
And whether it was the sister-in-law pushing the door in to call someone, or Fang Yinuo's movement of breastfeeding, it failed to wake him.
Fang Yinuo, who wanted to drink water but could not walk, could only shed tears of grievances.
The most infuriating thing is that his mother secretly asked him for the child's placenta and gave his brother a "supplement".
Xiao Lu said that it was impossible to give, but he wanted the child's placenta at the first time.
Even visiting his wife, who had just given birth, was lined up behind him.
He loved his wife and his children.
But he will always put his comfort first.
There is a small detail at the beginning of the story.
After Xiao Lu finished eating a bowl of noodles at the supper restaurant, he packed two more and went back.
The purpose was to pretend that he had not eaten.
Is this deception really necessary?
For Xiao Lu, this is his principle of doing things:
Lip service, actually do another set.
Saying that he had to take care of his wife and children actually did not do anything except to be a mediator at home.
In the subsequent plot, Xiao Lu escapes family disputes and does not return home, and goes to the step of derailment.
Although the dog is bloody, it is also much more real because of the character foreshadowing buried in the early stage.
Xiao Lu's "scum" is actually a kind of cowardice to escape.
This angle is not harsh on Xiao Lu.
It's a hint to men:
Looking back at yourself, whether you have unconsciously become the person who blames and harms.
So is this drama really a promo for marriage and childbearing?
Pai Ye felt that the opposite was true.
The play "Dear Child" provides a very novel perspective.
Let every couple and couple see the problems that may erupt in the relationship.
It also allows everyone to understand and understand what preparations are needed for childbirth.
Screenwriter Sun Haoyang also mentioned in the interview that "fear is because I don't see enough."
Only by daring to face the problem head-on can it be possible to solve the problem.
Does it spread anxiety?
Spread.
But perhaps, this real, realistic "negative energy."
It is the rarest wealth in the domestic drama market today.