While watching "Dear Child", I blushed, it is not easy to be a mother, and those who are children must be filial to her (all elders should be filial), and your mother is not only the person who gave you life, but also the person who raised you with hard work and taught you to establish the three views. In ancient times when science and technology were backward, mothers giving birth to children were like passing through the ghost door, and there was often a choice of "protecting the big or keeping the small", and the bitter day of the birthday mother was described very appropriately. In order to conceive you, her body is deformed and her face is haggard. In order to support you, she is physically and mentally exhausted, and even loses love.
In the first episode, Fang Yinuo (Played by Ren Suxi) appears in the scene of removing makeup and revealing her pregnant belly. She wiped off her makeup, revealing pregnancy spots on her face and a stomach that looked like it was about to explode. The stretch marks on both sides of her stomach looked a little scary, and she cried as she stared at her "ugly" self in the mirror. On the one hand, I feel sad for my "ugly" self, because not all pregnancy spots and stretch marks may gradually ease after the end of childbirth. It was a big blow for a woman who was born with a love of beauty, and she had to accept this for the sake of her children.
As a working woman, she had to work pregnant until she was about to give birth. In order to choose natural childbirth more conducive to the child's immunity (and of course more conducive to the recovery of the mother's body), she has to feel the pain of cutting the skin like a knife, which may be tens of minutes or dozens of hours. Even in modern times, there will be maternal physical problems or sudden critical situations. In the final analysis, it is still the mother who uses her life to save her child's life. However, these are the beginning of her efforts for her children, and she will pay more for the rest of the time.
The newborn baby needs to be fed milk powder every two hours, remember to feed first and then feed the water, if there is no one to help the mother, the mother will not want to rest, because she is very weak at this time, even can not reach the sip of water. If you want to breastfeed, you are doomed to be a mother who can't sleep at night, encounter a child with jaundice and fever, and live in a hospital seriously, then the mother will be anxious to catch fire, and even cry bad eyes and fall ill. If you can't find an experienced good sister-in-law, or the child's grandmother and grandmother don't know how to take care of the child, then the novice mother will be miserable!
Seeing Fang Yinuo sitting on a confinement, encountering a child sick, a sister-in-law running away, her husband Xiao Lu (played by Qin Hao) is unreliable, her mother-in-law is not available, and her mother-in-law does not know how to pretend to understand a series of problems, it is really painful for her! So for the sake of children's health and maintaining family stability, everything now has to be compromised. Let's say that there are more and more trends in maternal depression now, not without reason, all of which are forced by the environment. For the sake of children, ugly appearance and out-of-shape, these are visible blows to the naked eye. The helplessness in my heart and the despair of life are even more terrible!
If you want to keep watch over your children all night, you have to snub your husband. The bitterness in his heart was not listened to, and the husband still felt that his wife was unreasonable. At this time, the wife's appearance can not attract the husband, the child's crying will also affect the husband's rest, coupled with the lack of husband and wife life, at this time, as long as a woman gives her husband a little signal, he has a high probability of cheating. Fang Yinuo was unfortunate enough to get on this file. To tell the truth, Xiao Lu is really not a qualified husband, his wife is about to give birth, and he drinks at home. Fang Yinuo returned to the ward after giving birth, and he rushed to the door of the operating room.
The child is going to be discharged from the hospital and comes home, and he does not know how to clean up in advance. For the noodles made for Yinuo, people just casually say "not hungry", he really does not leave food. If the child has a high fever and wants to go to the hospital, he will give priority to accompanying the customer? Not as reliable as ordinary friends! What use does such a husband want him? Fang Yinuo was born as a result of giving birth to youth, sacrificing health, and losing love. The husband who cheated during the puerperal period is almost gone. Really, in order to have a child, there is almost nothing left when the mother, we must be filial to the mother.