As the saying goes, the emperor loves the eldest son, and the people love the son. As parents, even if the palms of their hands are meat, they can't really achieve a bowl of water and treat all children equally.
Parents can not do a bowl of water flat, then naturally will make the snubbed children cold, disappointed. Even if he still honors his parents and fulfills his obligation to support his parents, when it comes to the critical moment, the children will rise up to resist.
Aunt Huang did not expect that three years ago, she had an eccentricity and intercepted the demolition money of her eldest son to buy a house for her younger son, but in the end, when she was old and helpless in her old age, she was sent away by her eldest daughter-in-law with 3,000 yuan.
01 Parents are eccentric and children are centrifugal
The most terrifying thing in this world is that parents are shouting a bowl of water to level, but at the same time secretly subsidizing the child they like. Such a cruel fact will make the child who was left out in the cold discouraged. So parents are biased, children will be centrifugal.
Aunt Huang has two sons, from small to large, the eldest son is well-behaved and obedient, and the younger son is lively and cute. Although the eldest son is very successful and later strives to be admitted to the ideal university, Aunt Huang still only likes the younger son. Because the younger son has a sweeter mouth, looks better, and is more pleasing to his parents.
Because of her eccentricity, Aunt Huang was at ease to give all the good things to her younger son. It is precisely because of Aunt Huang's eccentricity that the younger son, although he is old, is still nibbling on the old and does not do the right thing.
The eldest son, who was snubbed by Aunt Huang, was self-reliant and not only successfully graduated from college, but also found a high-paying job in the local city. Although relatives and friends all praised the eldest son for having a job, Aunt Huang would prefer that it was the younger son who had a job.
Seeing that the eldest son successfully married the only daughter-in-law in the city, and rose step by step with the help of the old man, Aunt Huang was not as happy as others said. Because she thinks that the eldest son, who has good economic conditions, should take money back to subsidize the younger son.
It's just that the eldest daughter-in-law is not a fuel-saving lamp, and after learning that Aunt Huang is biased towards her younger son, she rarely returns to her in-laws' house. Although she did not prevent her eldest son from honoring his parents 2,000 a month, the eldest daughter-in-law was unwilling to pay a penny for the extra money.
02 Parents intercepted the demolition money of their eldest son to buy a house for their younger son, but in his later years he was sent 3,000 yuan
Others praised the filial piety of the eldest son, and did not forget his biological parents after marriage and family. But Aunt Huang was extremely dissatisfied in her heart, the eldest son was married to his daughter-in-law and forgot his mother, and was firmly grasped by the eldest daughter-in-law in the palm of his hand, becoming a strict wife, otherwise how could he ignore his brother?
Holding such dissatisfaction with the eldest son, after the demolition of the old house, Aunt Huang, who received 1.5 million yuan in demolition money, did not tell the eldest son, and did not even leave a penny for the eldest son, and all bought a house for the younger son.
After the eldest son hurried back, Aunt Huang told him that if your economic conditions are good, don't compete with your brother for your parents' family property. The eldest son left only one word, and then when I was not biological, he left with a hurt expression.
Since then, the eldest son has never returned to visit except for sending back 2,000 living expenses every month, and even rarely calls. Later, after learning that Aunt Huang took her own money to subsidize her younger son, the eldest son directly cut off 2,000 yuan of living expenses.
At this time, Aunt Huang, who was immersed in the joy of her young son's marriage and family, did not feel that there was anything wrong. After all, the eldest son is the most filial piety, and he will certainly not turn a blind eye to his own parents in the future.
But such a beautiful dream, until Aunt Huang asked for help from her eldest daughter-in-law for the elderly, was woken up by 3,000 yuan. Since giving her young son 1.5 million yuan to buy a house, Aunt Huang has lived with her younger son.
At the beginning, the two little ones were grateful to her, and they were willing to give her a good look, and they would also honor her mother long and short. But after a long time, coupled with the fact that Aunt Huang's body also had various small problems, the face of the little daughter-in-law was particularly ugly.
After Aunt Huang fell ill again and was hospitalized, the daughter-in-law directly left 3,000 yuan and left. Later, after Aunt Huang recovered from her illness, her daughter-in-law directly drove her out of the house and asked her to go to her eldest son for the elder son, saying that they had raised her for so many years, and now it was the turn of the eldest son to fulfill his filial piety.
Aunt Huang, who felt guilty, did not want to go to her eldest son again. But she didn't go looking for her eldest son, but she was homeless. She went to find her eldest daughter-in-law for the elder daughter-in-law, hoping that the eldest daughter-in-law would forgive her, and she was willing to be a cow and a horse to serve the eldest daughter-in-law's family.
Seeing Aunt Huang who came to the door for help, the eldest son's face was very ugly, but he did not say anything. The eldest daughter-in-law remembered that 1.5 million yuan of demolition funds were all distributed to the little uncle, and she could not forgive her eccentric mother-in-law, so she simply refused Aunt Huang to stay for the elderly.
Aunt Huang threw a look at her son for help, but the eldest son took 3,000 yuan from the bedroom and told her, take 3,000 yuan to rent a house, my house was bought by my parents-in-law, and I am not qualified to take you in.
Hearing her son's words, Aunt Huang's hopes were shattered, and she was suddenly sad. She wanted to beg her son and daughter-in-law for forgiveness, but when the words came to her mouth, she could not say them. How could her debt to her eldest son over the years be explained clearly in one or two sentences?
All this blamed her, blamed her eccentricity, blamed her for privately intercepting the demolition money that should be distributed to the eldest son. It's just that she doesn't understand how the eldest son, who is obviously so filial and obedient, can be like a changed person as soon as he gets married?
03 The eccentricity of parents is their own self-inflicted self-inflicted wounds
Perhaps many people will blame the eldest son for not filial piety, but no one has ever considered it, if it were not for Aunt Huang's eccentricity, she only thought about the younger son, and did not hesitate to sacrifice the interests of the eldest son, then would the eldest son still be so indifferent?
The eldest son may not be worried about his parents not paying for the demolition, but the eccentricity of his parents. Obviously, they are all biological sons, but the parents are only thinking about the younger son, but they do not care about their eldest son at all. Such a fact is the most heartfelt and the most discouraging to the eldest son.
Therefore, when Aunt Huang was driven out of the house by her daughter-in-law in her later years, and the old man had nothing to support, the eldest son only gave 3,000 yuan to send people away, which was completely the result of Aunt Huang's eccentricity and self-inflicted suffering.
Today's Topic:
If you were the eldest son, would you break off the relationship because of your parents' eccentricity?