When it comes to family inheritance, most parents, no matter how reasonable, will only leave the family property to their sons, and the married daughter can only get a small part, or not at all.
For their own eccentricity and preference for sons and daughters, parents still do not think so, thinking that this is a matter of course. After all, when a daughter gets married, that is someone else's family. But the son is different, no matter what, the son and grandson always follow their own surname.
It is the parents' calm mentality that will force the daughter to gradually deviate from the parents, and finally be discouraged and cut off contact with the mother's family. But if parents can level a little bowl of water, perhaps many resentments will be gone.
01, "the son is divided into 3 suites, the daughter is divided into 50,000"
In this life, Aunt Zhong's biggest regret is that ten years ago, she and her wife privately made a decision, and the 3 houses that were demolished and distributed to the demolition of the old house, as well as the 800,000 demolition funds, were all given to her son, but only 50,000 yuan was given to her daughter to appease.
The angry daughter, in the end, did not ask for the 50,000 yuan, directly threw the money back to her parents, and took her son-in-law and children back to her own home, and since then she has rarely boarded her mother's door.
Under the influence of the older generation, Aunt Zhong and his wife always believe that their sons and daughters are completely different. No matter how filial the daughter is, sooner or later she will be someone else's family. The son is no longer filial, but he is always his own family.
Therefore, Aunt Zhong did not inform her daughter, and directly gave her son the 3 houses and 800,000 yuan assigned to the demolition, leaving only 150,000 herself, and the other 50,000 to her daughter to show comfort.
When her daughter was called home to share the money, she learned that she could only get 50,000 yuan, and she immediately became angry and questioned her parents: I worked for 8 years, and I raised my parents and brother for 8 years. Now that your parents' hometown is demolished, you only give 50,000, are you giving grace or charity?
The daughter threw 50,000 yuan back, and then never looked back and left very firmly. After that, no matter how Aunt Zhong and his wife called and pleaded, their daughter rarely came back. Even if I came back, I would only rush to sit for half an hour and then leave.
02, ten years later eccentric parents regret
The daughter's coldness surprised Aunt Zhong and her wife. But they always think that they are not wrong, although this incident hurts the daughter's heart, but whose family property is not left to the son, where is left for the daughter? The daughter is just greedy and insufficient.
Before the son got married, the old couple did have a comfortable life, collecting the rent of three suites. Until the son married the only daughter in the city and asked to buy a house in the first-tier big city, the old couple had no choice but to sell two of the houses, and only reluctantly gave the son a down payment in the big city.
When the wedding is married, the daughter-in-law officially takes over the financial economy of the son. As long as the daughter-in-law does not speak, the son does not dare to take half a penny back to honor his parents. Fortunately, Aunt Zhong and her wife have some pensions, although not much, but barely enough for living expenses.
But the daughter-in-law is not a fuel-saving lamp, especially after she gave birth to a son for the family, she is even more pampered and proud, crying for a while about the economic pressure of raising a child, and crying about her son's incompetence and cowardice.
Aunt Zhong was soft-hearted for a while, and then compromised again, handing over the pension of the old couple and relying only on the rent of a house to survive. But later, even this only remaining house was looked at by the daughter-in-law, and she cried and made trouble and had to be put into her own hands to take care of it.
In order to avoid the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and in order not to let her son be caught in the middle, Aunt Zhong reluctantly agreed. But since then, Aunt Zhong has never been able to take back the house, and even her own pension has to be taken out every month to subsidize her son.
03, ten years later eccentric parents regret: self-inflicted
When she was young, when she was disease-free and painless, Aunt Zhong did not realize the benefits of having money in her hands. Until her wife fell ill and was hospitalized, faced with high medical expenses, Aunt Zhong had to plead with her son to sell the house to save people.
But the daughter-in-law disagreed, saying that the house would really be sold out, and as for the people, they also tried their best. In the end, Aunt Zhong couldn't bear it and had to call her daughter, hoping that her daughter could help.
The daughter and son-in-law came, but the daughter only took out 30,000 yuan, saying that this was all their savings. Their savings have long been taken to buy a house to repay the mortgage, and the 30,000 yuan is also saved by thrift.
Looking at the 30,000 yuan sent by her daughter, Aunt Zhong was very unhappy in her heart. When the daughter gave the money, she made it very clear that this 30,000 yuan was the last time she honored her parents. Anyway, the parents gave the younger brother three suites and 800,000, with these assets, the parents' pension will not fall.
After the daughter gave the money, she turned around and wanted to leave. Aunt Zhong was immediately anxious and wanted to stop her daughter, hoping that her daughter could stay and take turns taking care of her wife with her. But my daughter said bitterly that in order to buy a house, we owed 200,000. When I don't go to work, the creditor will catch up. You still have a son and daughter-in-law, find a son and daughter-in-law to take care of.
Looking at the back of her daughter and son-in-law leaving, the wife shook her head and sighed, and Aunt Zhong couldn't help but burst into tears. If they had a bowl of water and did not favor sons over daughters, perhaps their daughters would not have stood idly by and watched them.
But now, even if they give their daughter 50,000 yuan more, it is estimated that they will not be able to exchange their daughter's filial piety. The daughters had long since become indifferent, and it was they themselves who caused all this.
Today's Topic:
Do you think that the encounter between Aunt Zhong and his wife is self-inflicted?