Coming to work after the new year, Nagging with colleagues makes me feel very uncomfortable. Colleague Xiaomei is a very filial piety person, often giving her mother online shopping for various things.
But Xiaomei went to work and Nagged me: My mother came to see me marrying far away, and before leaving, I bought my mother a lot of souvenirs and gifts. But as a grandmother, I didn't say buy a dress or a snack for my children. Even a bag of milk.
But when I went to my brother's house, she was wrapped up in a big bag and was eager to move everything in the house.
Over the years, my mother has given all the cash in her hand to my brother. But see a doctor, call me back, let me spend money.
My mother's family demolished and demolished three suites, not big, got 2 million cash, all to my brother, just give me fifty thousand. I don't care about this, after all, my brother is around to take care of her.
I have a younger brother, everything in my mother's family is that I run in front, and I rarely go from the end of the demolition, and my heart is cold. Not because of the money, but because of my mother's attitude towards me.
When I came home during the Spring Festival, my mother packed a trunk for my brother to eat, old hens, eggs and various canned drinks.
I brought my husband and I a few bottles of pickles and said it was far from easy to get, but we also drove back.
It has been more than twenty years since my father died, and my mother's daily expenses have always been borne by me. I am willing to spend money on my mother, I often buy things for my mother online, I always feel far away, I owe my mother.
I don't think I'm at a loss, on the contrary, there is a mother who feels very happy. At any time, I will not compete with my mother for money or a house, and if I have the ability, I will earn money outside.
However, my mother's approach was too much, and she hardly considered my feelings at all.
Go home for the New Year, give the child money, give my brother 500, and give my child 200. At first I didn't know, the child took out the red envelope to play, I saw it.
I feel that my mother is too eccentric, I don't argue about the house demolition money, usually I have to be fair, after all, I still have a husband.
As a daughter, I not only do not fight for property, but also take great care of my sister-in-law like my own family, and I only hope that they can also treat the elderly kindly!
I bought clothes and souvenirs for my younger siblings from afar, and my younger siblings didn't buy anything for my children before they left, and I felt that I deserved it. I feel like I'm an outsider. My neighbor gave me a big goose before leaving, and my mother didn't bring me anything.
The old man was speechless. They all like to rob the rich and help the poor! Of course, they are all robbing daughters and sons! Most of the daughters are filial piety, they like to be brothers and demons, and after experiencing more things, they will be sad and want to understand a lot of things!
I took care of my brother too much, all the bedding he had before he got married was hand-picked by me online and cost more than ten thousand, and my salary was not high.
When I came home for the New Year, my brother refueled my car and asked me to go back to the gas money, and it cost me more than 1,000 to buy clothes for my brother's children.
Xiaomei's tears crackled, feeling that she didn't want to go home for the New Year in the future, and they didn't regard me as their family at all.
I understand that parents also have difficulties with parents. As the saying goes: 5 fingers are not long, although the palms of the hands and the backs of the hands are meat, most of the parents in China still rely on their sons for the elderly! I recognize that I spend more money on my brother, but some small details, I feel that the whole family does not care about me at all.
When my father was alive, he told my mother that the family property belonged to my brother, and that there was no daughter like me.
My husband and I have no opinion, we must have raised ourselves to adulthood, our parents have fulfilled their obligations, the things of the elderly, willing to give to whom to give the rights of who is the family, and filial piety to parents has nothing to do with.
But the mother's various practices are obviously biased in favor of the son. Why treat me so harshly and chill my heart.
The demolition of three suites got 2 million all for my brother, give me 50,000, and my mother also let me spend money to see a doctor. I accept this, after all, the old man! My mother came to my house without buying a bag of milk for my children, and I couldn't accept that I would like to move my brother's house.
Xiaomei said that it is estimated that after the New Year, I will not go home, and I will go back to the fire when I go back. What do you think?