Text/Coriander
Whether a man really loves his woman or not can often be seen in many ways.
In fact, women are sensitive. Whether a man loves her or not, she can easily feel it.
It is said that "men need to be adored and women need to be pampered". A woman who is loved and spoiled by a man is happy, or the greatest hope of a woman in her life is to be loved and spoiled by a man in the palm of her hand.
So, how to see if a man loves you, in fact, can be seen from the four most ordinary aspects of life.
★ Clothing
If a man really loves his woman, the main performance is often "smooth". Shun is also a kind of pet. The premise of pet is shun.
For example, after two people fall in love and come together, a woman will often change her man from the way she dresses.
We have to admit that in terms of aesthetics and dressing, women's vision is often better than men's. Many men are also reluctant to spend this energy paying attention to their own clothing. Unless those occupations are particularly particular about dress, men will pay more attention to it, otherwise, most men will dress more casually.
But with a woman, most men will give this right to his woman and submit to her aesthetic consciousness.
You go outside and inquire about the clothes worn by many men, which are basically bought by women. Believe it or not.
★ Food
When in love, men behave most thoroughly to women. At that time, women said what they wanted to eat, and men basically did not say anything. This is also because a man loves his woman, so he will behave smoothly with her.
You rarely see men arguing with women over what they eat during a relationship. Even if he actually doesn't like to eat this kind of thing, he will have to aggrieved himself in order not to brush the woman's intentions.
And women often do not care about the whole man's pickiness about eating, and it may also be because of men's obedience and pampering that women feel that as long as they like to eat, men will also like it.
So, when you see the truth about those couples decades later, because of the fish's head and tail, you will know that love is also a kind of obedience. Because women think that men like to eat fish tails, so for decades, she always left fish tails to men, but in fact, men like fish heads, but he never said, because women left him, he obediently ate.
Therefore, obedience is also a manifestation of love.
★ Live
If a man loves his woman, where to live, he will not feel any difference. Even, men will leave their hometowns and cities because of love and go to live in women's cities. I understand this deeply.
My best classmate, her husband, is such a man. More than twenty years ago, for the sake of my classmates, he gave up the stable unit in his city, which was crazy behavior to many people at the time, because many people, for a stable job, resisted breaking their heads, but he had to give up.
He was the eldest son in the family, his father had died prematurely, he had only one mother, and he had younger siblings below him.
In the eyes of many people, he is not filial piety. For love, he left his hometown, leaving his lonely mother and younger siblings who were still studying. However, he still has no remorse.
When I first came to us, it was also very hard and I did a lot of work. Later, I began to try to do business, and my life slowly improved. But no matter how bitter and tired he was, he didn't complain.
Classmates are also touched by his love, so double his kindness to his family, what is going on in his family, what money is needed, classmates have no second words. Especially when their economy is getting better, her husband's hometown will be repaired, the ancestral house will be rebuilt, etc., she will let her husband go back, and bring enough funds.
In fact, at that time, the classmates were only reluctant to raise her grandmother, because her own birth mother also died early, it was the grandmother who brought her up with hard work, and the grandmother did not want her to marry far away, so she had no way to leave.
He obeyed her and, with his man's responsibility, gave up his family for her. Fortunately, the economic strength he has exchanged for hard work can make up for his lack of leaving home. He often brought his mother to live with him, and often gave financial help to his younger siblings. In this way, he used it to make up for the lack of affection in his early years. Therefore, such an ending can also be regarded as a happy ending for everyone.
★ Line
Have you ever seen a couple of lovers go out and play, and men quarrel with women over where they are going? Very few. Even couples after marriage are basically where women or children want to go, and men should follow the shift or be drivers.
It can be said that in addition to being stubborn about their own career or love, men have a casual attitude towards other things. If you ask a man, "Where to play today?" ”
He may more likely ask you in turn, "Where do you want to go?" ”
Because you want to go, he will go with you. What he likes is not where to play, but to play with you, it is because of you by his side, so he feels that where to play is interesting and meaningful.
Therefore, if a man really loves his woman, his obedience in these four aspects is still quite obvious.