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Love is like the spring sun, shining warmly on the body, making people forget the cold of winter and run towards the vibrant far away.
As people grow older, they need to experience friendship, family affection, love, marriage, and even more complex interpersonal relationships, allowing people to constantly enrich their lives in the experience.
Women actually have more obsessions, often single-mindedly pursuing love or running a family, giving up too many things while loving others, resulting in bias in their own life path.
Yi Shu said: "There are four life test questions in total, academic, career, marriage, family, the average score is high to pass, do not spend too much time and energy on any one question." ”
Really powerful people know how to plan ahead and plan for the rest of their lives.
These four questions about life are actually related to each other, and women often pay too much attention to one of these problems, and make their lives monotonous and incomplete.
And smart women will use a "half-hearted" attitude to run their own lives, not to waste all their youth on one thing.
She knows how to put part of her energy into more practical things, such as running her own business, cultivating her hobbies, enriching her life, even if the love is not satisfactory, she can still let go freely.
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A really powerful woman who knows how to "half-heartedly". "Half-hearted" women will make men love more crazy and more fascinated.
A truly powerful woman who knows how to love others will also love herself.
When many women love a person, they will take out their 100% enthusiasm and use all their energy to let the other party feel their surging love.
But love is the most elusive emotion, and while pursuing love, we must also be psychologically prepared to be hurt by love.
Therefore, while loving each other, we must also determine whether the other party cherishes themselves and whether they can let their lives continue smoothly and healthily.
Powerful women will love themselves, will retain their best side, will be kind to their youth, will learn to let themselves grow, will have better opportunities, and can make themselves more confident.
She will not let herself stand silently behind a man because she loves this man, she will use more effort to keep up with the man's footsteps and exude more charming charm.
Knowing how to love yourself, you can have greater energy to love others, can you make your life have a more balanced development, and you will not be helpless when love fades.
The British politician Halifax wrote in Miscellaneous Feelings: "Self-love is far from a shortcoming, and this definition is appropriate. A person who knows how to love himself properly will be able to do everything else properly. ”
Truly powerful women, when they love others, will not forget to love themselves.
Therefore, loving yourself first is a person's attitude of being responsible for his own life, and it is also the wisest life choice.
A truly powerful woman is good at running a marriage and at running herself.
A woman's true happiness is that after having a happy family, she can still be happy to be herself, can make herself responsible for the family, and can also achieve something in her career.
Lu Yan is known as the ugliest "supermodel", she is not a traditional beauty, no exquisite facial features, no proud background, but all the way to success.
After that, she took the initiative to pursue a French man and married into a rich family, and many people thought that she had something to rely on and could "retire from success".
But Lu Yan still did not give up her career, with her keen sensitivity to fashion, to open up another world. She got married and had children without any delay, and she also became a designer and owned her own brand.
Thanks to continuous learning and innovation, she ushered in her own double harvest in career and marriage, and became an idol for many people.
Women, no one can stop you from progressing, giving up your own heart of dependence on others, and bravely chasing your dreams, in order to be more confident in marriage.
Hugo said: "I would rather open my future on my own strength than seek the favor of the powerful." ”
The same is true of women, when they have better conditions, they should not become their own stagnation, but the cornerstone of their own progress.
Truly powerful women, when running a marriage, will not forget to run themselves.
Only a better self can make people's lives more brilliant, and can they be worthy of better people and a better life.
A truly powerful woman, living in the present, is also good at seeking the future.
A powerful woman cherishes the happiness of the moment, but will still work hard and fight for the future for herself.
Stalin said: "There is nothing eternal in the world, everything is changing, everything is developing." ”
If you stop here today, you will face the crisis of being eliminated tomorrow, everyone is the same, even in a comfortable life, do not forget to always be alert to yourself.
In marriage, if a woman is immersed in the comfort of the moment, she feels that she can live a safe and smooth life by relying on the strength and care of a man, which is a very wrong idea.
The world is changing every day, including the hearts of men.
When his vision has seen higher and farther, and the woman is still standing in the same place, a huge gap will arise between the two people, and they will never be able to return to the previous state of tacit understanding.
It is not a comfortable life that relies on one's own struggle, it is as illusory as the mirror flower and water moon, and it is easy to disappear.
Moreover, the laziness that you have stolen will eventually need to be repaid by yourself.
And a woman who is good at planning the future can see the essence of life clearly, she cherishes the happiness of the moment, and at the same time still works hard and strives to realize the value of her life.
The road of life needs to be walked out step by step by yourself, only in this way can you experience more, you will have more insights, and you will know how to cherish.
Can constantly jump out of their comfort zone, so that they will not be easily out, to live an active life, brave forward, in order to withstand the wind and waves.
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The book says: "The best state of a person is not to envy anyone, not to laugh at anyone, not to depend on anyone, to maintain financial independence, to maintain personal autonomy." ”
When a woman has a happy family, she can get along with her lover and play happily with her children, but she does not forget to think of danger in peace and does not give up her dreams and pursuits.
No one knows whether the future is smooth or bumpy, only by allowing themselves to have more preparations, in order to make the heart more solid, even if they encounter wind and rain, they can also raise the sails, master the rudder, and firmly face various tests.
Truly powerful women, "half-hearted", love both others and themselves; both family and career; cherish both the present and seek the future.
When a woman's ability is greater, the more she can take on more things, only to be a protected person, in the face of a crisis, will only become a burden to others.
Women know how to precipitate themselves, make themselves stronger and braver, and they will find that there is no difficulty in the world that cannot be overcome.