Famous composer Xu Peidong: I want to buy them a big house, and my younger sister can come over

One day, the famous composer Xu Peidong said to his wife: "My parents are old, I want to buy them a big house, my younger sister can also come over..." Before the voice fell, the wife said: "I can't buy a big house!" Xu Peidong was anxious when he heard it, but his next words touched him.

Xu Peidong has composed more than 60 well-known songs such as "Asian Majestic Wind", "Shadow of the Fence Wall", "Fifteen Moons and Sixteen Circles", "Hot Girls", "Flying Song of the Earth", "Love My China" and so on. Xu Peidong was born in Dalian to ordinary workers, but he himself is very talented in literature and art. In 1966, in a special era, the school often did not attend classes, Xu Peidong fell in love with erhu, allegro, and timpani drums.

Later, he studied cello with the teachers of the Dalian Song and Dance Troupe. In 1970, the Fuzhou Military Region's Forward Literary and Labor Corps came to recruit literary and artistic soldiers, and 16-year-old Xu Peidong was conscripted into the army.

At that time, he was a northerner, unable to adapt to the humid heat of the south, full of prickly heat, and in some places he caught infected and pus. But he never showed any emotion, and the abrasion medicine continued to train. Because he is willing to endure hardships and has a strong business, he has received many meritorious awards and is very appreciated by the leaders.

In 1976, the Central Conservatory of Music enrolled students, and the leaders gave the only quota to Xu Peidong. Towards the end of college, he interned at the China Song and Dance Theatre, where he met Cui Jing, a 7-year-old Yangqin player. Xu Peidong fell in love with Cui Jing at first sight, but the one-month internship was about to end, and after that, he had to go from side to side, and Xu Peidong did not dare to confess.

Unexpectedly, Xu Peidong, who returned to Fujian after graduation, was seconded to Beijing shortly after graduation to arrange and conduct for the large-scale dance drama "Baolian Lantern". The two met again, and in the 3 months of getting along, the two finally determined their intentions and bravely came together. After returning to Fujian, the two used love letters to contact feelings, the paper was short and long, and the endless thoughts and love were endless. The two gathered less and left more, and there were many suitors around them, but they both stuck to their hearts and were very determined.

In 1981, the two finally talked about marriage, Xu Peidong's household registration was in Fuzhou, and he needed to register in Fuzhou, but Cui Jing could not leave every day when he had a performance. Seeing that the wedding date had been set, Xu Peidong was anxious like an ant on a hot pot. He thought of a bad idea, borrowed the wife of a colleague, pretended to be Cui Jing, and accompanied him to get a license. At that time, the marriage certificate did not have a photo and should not show the filling. He looked for several people, but everyone felt it was inappropriate and refused. Later, a comrade-in-arms couple helped him with this. After this matter was passed out, everyone felt that Xu Peidong's marriage was too hasty, not enough attention, and it was definitely not long.

In fact, although the two lived separately in two places, their feelings were very good, and letters were constantly exchanged. After 3 years of marriage, Cui Jing was pregnant, she was a little overwhelmed, Xu Peidong was not by her side, how could a person take care of the child? Xu Peidong is 30 years old and wants to be a father, so he changed careers. It just so happened that the China Opera and Dance Theater was short of people, so he officially went to work in Beijing. The two lived apart for many years and were finally able to be together. Soon after, Cui Jing gave birth to her daughter Xu Sing, who inherited the strong genes of her parents and was very good at singing and dancing since she was a child. At the age of 4, Xu Peidong created a personal album for his daughter, "Xu Singing Songs - Little Beijingers", one of which was "Planting the Sun", which was very popular. After giving birth to a daughter, Cui Jing quit her job and became a full-time wife, reassuring her husband and godson. Xu Peidong is becoming more and more popular, not only writing songs for major singers, but also composing music for more than 60 film and television dramas.

Among them, "Fence Woman and Dog", "Peace Era", "Yongzheng Dynasty" and so on are very classic, and Xu Peidong has also become a celebrity in the entertainment industry.

Xu Peidong is very low-key, never discussing his marriage and the other half, many netizens speculate, is his wife unable to take it? Otherwise why never mention it? Cui Jing was very confident in her marriage at first, but with the absence of youth, the entertainment circle was more chaotic, which made her a little worried.

In 2010, the two had been married for nearly 30 years, and Cui Jing asked her husband, "I'm just an ordinary housewife now, and I won't blame you for whatever you decide in the future."

Xu Peidong listened to a stunned, and quickly explained: "What nonsense, you are my first love, and you are the only person I want to rely on and accompany each other to the old age, so many years together have gone through ups and downs, is it comparable to others?" Cui Jing is still a little insecure, Xu Peidong just try to take his wife with him when he is working, and put the family portrait in his wallet. Working with the opposite sex will also deliberately keep a distance, and Cui Jing finally put her mind at ease.

In 2012, Xu Peidong's parents were old, and he wanted to bring his parents to Beijing to retire, but his parents said that they did not agree to anything. They had relatives and friends in their hometown and were accustomed to life there. Xu Peidong had no choice, in order to fulfill his filial piety, he wanted to buy a big house for his parents to live in, and he discussed with Cui Jing: "We buy a big house for my parents, so that my younger brothers and sisters can live together and take care of it more conveniently." Unexpectedly, Cui Jing, who has always been filial and sensible, did not agree, saying: "You can't buy a big house."

Xu Peidong thought that his wife was worried about money, and just about to explain, Cui Jing continued: "Even if it is a biological child, after all, it is two generations, it is inevitable that there will be a generation gap, and it is inconvenient to live together."

It is better to buy two houses and get closer, so that they each have space and are comfortable. "Xu Peidong is very touched, and his wife is really wholeheartedly for the sake of her family. Later, they bought two small houses in this neighborhood, one for their parents and one for their younger siblings, the best of both worlds.

Today, Xu Peidong and Cui Jing have been married for more than 40 years and are still in love with each other. Xu Peidong's health is not very good, "three high", Cui Jing pays attention to his diet every day, and also exercises with him. Instead of becoming a singer, her daughter Xu Sing became a doctor of psychology and taught at a university in Beijing without her parents having to worry about it. Xu Peidong, as a composer, left people with many popular songs, as a husband, he gave his lover a full sense of security, and as a son, he was very filial piety.

This is the real virtue and art double xin!