Many people do not know Xu Peidong,
But if you talk about songs such as "Fifteen Moons and Sixteen Circles", "Hot Girls", "Love My China" and so on, everyone must be familiar with it.
Xu Peidong is the famous composer who created these songs!
He has served as the music director of major theatrical performances in China for many times, as well as the judges of competitions.
He has also represented the country many times to participate in international music festivals, and is a Chinese music celebrity with both virtue and art.
He is also one of the top ten composers of CCTV's "Glorious Bloom", and the vice chairman of the China Federation of Literature and Literature and the China Music Association!
Now 68 years old, Xu Peidong and his wife Cui Jing have been happy and sweet from their first love to marriage, and they remember the happy events of receiving a license to get married, and they still remember it vividly.
Xu Peidong is not only a famous composer, but also a good husband in the eyes of his wife, a good father in the eyes of his children, and a good son-in-law in the eyes of his father-in-law!
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In 1954, Xu Peidong was born in Dalian, Liaoning Province, with his ancestral home in Xiaokuan Village, Zhongqiao Town, Qixia City, Shandong Province!
His parents are ordinary workers, usually need to go to work during the day, and the young Xu Peidong has no one to take care of him, so he can only send him to his grandparents' home in Qixia.
In his hometown of Qixia, Xu Peidong spent the entire happy childhood, and the love of his grandparents nourished his heart.
When he reached the age of elementary school, Xu Peidong's parents took him home.
In elementary school, Xu Peidong liked poetry and painting, especially the erhu, allegro and other musical instruments.
None of his ancestors had engaged in literature and art for three generations, and Xu Peidong's parents did not take his hobbies to heart at the beginning.
The so-called unintentional willow shade, Xu Peidong began to teach himself musical instruments as soon as he had time,
He found a cello teacher, slowly groped with people, and really found some doorways.
Once the cello of the school propaganda team went to the countryside, Xu Peidong volunteered, and with this opportunity, he met a cello teacher of the Dalian Song and Dance Troupe!
The teacher saw that Xu Peidong was quite talented, so he lent him all the teaching materials at home.
Xu Peidong, as if he had obtained the most precious treasure, returned home and copied it down page by page, looking at these musical scores, he had a feeling of hunger and thirst.
Maybe there is really such a thing as talent in the dark, and Xu Peidong has made rapid progress.
By the time the school rehearsed the symphony "Sha Jiabang", he was able to take the stage with professionals.
In addition to talent, Xu Peidong was also extra hardworking, practicing until eleven or twelve o'clock every night, and every time he was the last person to go home.
In 1970, 16-year-old Xu Peidong was admitted to the Fuzhou Military Region Song and Dance Troupe!
In the song and dance troupe, Xu Peidong's musical level has been unanimously recognized, and the spirit of hard-working and hard-working is deeply appreciated by the leaders!
In 1976, the Central Conservatory of Music opened its doors to the whole country, and there was only one place in the whole military region.
After careful consideration and screening by the leaders, Xu Peidong became the first candidate.
He not only has a high talent in music, his comprehensive ability and personal qualities have passed, and entering the conservatory of music is also the best choice for Xu Peidong.
Coming to the Composition Department of the Central Conservatory of Music, Xu Peidong met Du Mingxin, a lifelong mentor.
Du Mingxin is a famous music educator in China.
His creative fields are quite extensive, leaving behind his wonderful works from symphonies to piano concertos.
He has cultivated many well-known musicians, in addition to Xu Peidong, zheng Qiufeng, composer of "I Love You China"; and Wang Liping, composer of "Dream of the Red Chamber".
Du Mingxin was extremely strict with Xu Peidong, even if he took one less lesson in special circumstances, he must take time to make up for it afterwards.
Adults know that the more strict the teacher is, the more they expect the most from themselves.
In 1979, on the eve of Xu Peidong's graduation, the school arranged for him to intern at the China Opera House.
Here, 25-year-old Xu Peidong met 19-year-old Cui Jing for the first time!
Cui Jing was born in Beijing and grew up in a good family, when she was 19 years old and was a yangqin player at the China Opera and Dance Theatre.
Xu Peidong had never seen a girl like that, and there was a fresh and elegant temperament in his bones.
Her yangqin performance was flawless in Xu Peidong's eyes!
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The first encounter was so beautiful, but it was difficult for Xu Peidong to open his mouth.
He could only greet Cui Jing as an ordinary friend and introduce himself, and the two of them knew each other.
After a period of time together, Cui Jing also found that Xu Peidong was honest and talented in music.
But Xu Peidong only came to intern for a period of time, the future is unknown, and neither side has broken through the window paper.
On the night he was about to leave, Xu Peidong tossed and turned and couldn't sleep, in fact, he was afraid that he would never see Cui Jing again.
After graduating from university, Xu Peidong was assigned to the former Fuzhou Military Region Song and Dance Troupe.
I thought that I would never be able to intersect with Cui Jing again in this life, who knew that fate in the underworld was freely arranged!
Shortly after working, Xu Peidong was sent by the unit to rehearse dance dramas at the China Song and Dance Theater, and it happened that Cui Jing was also among them.
At that time, Cui Jing was a folk music player, and Xu Peidong was the chief conductor!
Day and night together, the feelings of two people who work together every day are further heated up!
From the beginning to the end of the work, a total of three months, Xu Peidong felt that his feelings for Cui Jing were more profound.
After the end of the work, he was about to return to the Fuzhou Military Region, and the night before his departure, Xu Peidong invited Cui Jing out.
He bravely expressed his heart for Cui Jing, and Cui Jing shyly bowed his head and did not speak, in fact, his heart was happy to blossom.
Xu Peidong returned to Fuzhou to work and wrote two letters to Cui Jing every week, in which he told about his work, life and misses Cui Jing.
After Cui Jing received the letter, she would also reply to Xu Peidong in time, the two young people came and went, and their feelings became deeper and deeper in the process of communication.
Xu Peidong is 7 years older than Cui Jing, and the love affair between the two places always seems unreal, so that many colleagues think that Xu Peidong is still single.
Someone took the initiative to introduce xu Peidong to the object, Xu Peidong did not want to think about it and refused, he told others that he already had a lover.
Cui Jing's family conditions are good, her looks are good, and there are many enthusiastic people who introduce her to her, and Cui Jing does not hesitate to refuse.
Although they are separated by two places, their hearts are always together.
In 1981, Xu Peidong was 27 years old, and his family urged him to get married.
Xu Peidong called Cui Jing: "Or let's get married?" ”
Cui Jing agreed very cheerfully: "Good! ”
At that time, Cui Jing happened to come to Dalian with the unit to perform, but Xu Peidong's hukou was still in Fuzhou.
Cui Jing couldn't take a leave of absence, so she handed over all the materials to Xu Peidong.
Xu Peidong felt that he could not wait any longer, and he must start a family this year!
A good friend gave him an idea, saying that he would find a girl to get a certificate in place of Cui Jing.
At that time, no photo was needed on the marriage certificate, Xu Peidong thought about it, although this trick was damaged a little, but as long as Cui Jing agreed, it should be feasible.
Xu Peidong called Cui Jing and told Cui Jing the idea of the whole incident, and Cui Jing really couldn't get out of her body and could only agree.
Cui Jing agreed, where can the girl who can replace Cui Jing find it?
Xu Peidong found a colleague and wanted his sister-in-law to do him a favor.
Originally, my sister-in-law had already agreed, but on that day she temporarily changed her mind, and people said: "I always feel that it is not good to pass it out."
Xu Peidong was in a hurry, after all, everything was ready only to the East Wind, and all the links were ready.
In the end, the comrade-in-arms heard about this and decided to help Xu Peidong.
In this way, Xu Peidong and Cui Jing received the license and officially became husband and wife, and later this small episode of the license became the talk of people after tea and dinner.
Conservative people always feel that the license can be so "child's play", and the days after marriage will not last long!
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But Xu Peidong and Cui Jing did not believe in evil, their lives were their own, and whether they lived well or not depended on themselves.
After getting married, Xu Peidong still stayed in Fuzhou to work, and his wife Cui Jing still stayed in the Beijing Song and Dance Theater.
During the days when the two places were separated, they still maintained the habit of writing letters, and they had about one or two chances to see each other every year.
I don't know if the distance has produced a sense of beauty, Xu Peidong and his wife have not quarreled once, and the feelings have always been sweet and loving.
After three years like this, Xu Peidong's parents advised their son and daughter-in-law that it was time for them to have a child.
In fact, Cui Jing did not think about having children, but she was busy at work, Xu Peidong worked far, how to take care of children?
Before they could think it through, Cui Jing found out that she was pregnant, which surprised and worried her.
Xu Peidong learned the news of his wife's pregnancy and comforted her: "Since the child has come to join us, let's give birth, and the future life will always get better and better." ”
Xu Peidong did not verbally promise his wife anything, but in his heart he had begun to plan to try to transfer back to Beijing to work and take care of them both.
In 1985, Xu Peidong finally waited for the opportunity.
He went through the transfer of jobs in the Fuzhou Military Region, and it happened that the Central Song and Dance Theater was an important person, and he was transferred back to Beijing to go with the flow.
On the day of his return, Xu Peidong did not greet his wife in advance, he stood at the door of the house carrying a box full of letters.
Cui Jing opened the box and looked at it, it was a letter that she and Xu Peidong had written over the years, neatly arranged one by one.
In addition to these letters, Xu Peidong did not take any luggage, which was the most important thing in his heart.
This is the testimony of youth, the testimony of love!
So the box has been kept to this day!
Soon after, Cui Jing gave birth to a daughter, and Xu Peidong named her Xu Sing.
Xu Sing inherited the musical genes of her parents and has loved singing and dancing since she was a child.
Xu Peidong and his wife began to cultivate her musical sense from the age of 3, and at the age of 4, Xu Peidong also created a personal music album for her, "Songs Sung by Xu - Little Beijingers".
The well-known children's song "Planting the Sun" is also a song written by Xu Peidong for his daughter.
In terms of educating children, Xu Peidong is actually only an assistant to his wife, and his wife Cui Jing chose to sacrifice her career to accompany her children after giving birth to her daughter.
With the support of Cui Jing, Xu Peidong can create so many great works with more peace of mind.
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Gradually, Xu Peidong's fame grew, and Cui Jing sometimes felt insecure.
The two people from nothing to now, Xu Peidong can naturally see his wife's mood, he pays more attention to the intensity of work, and when he has time, he accompanies his wife and children.
After a long time, Cui Jing's worries were canceled, and she knew that she had not looked at the wrong person at the beginning.
Xu Peidong is not only a good husband and father, but also a good son-in-law!
After the death of her mother-in-law, Cui Jing was particularly worried about her father's physical condition.
Being so old and unwilling to move in with Cui Jing, Cui Jing could only run to take care of her father.
Every time he saw his mother's relics, Cui Jing's father would secretly shed tears!
The feelings of the older generation young people can not understand, together for decades, have long become relatives.
Just when Cui Jing fell into anxiety about her father, Xu Peidong secretly consulted with his wife:
"Children can only take care of their parents to eat and live, there is no way to take care of their mood, otherwise find a companion for our father!"
Cui Jing thought about it too, if her mother has a spirit in heaven, she definitely hopes that her father will have a good life and have a happy life!
Cui Jing thought of a person, she was Cui Jing's aunt, and she happened to be alone.
The aunt has a particularly good personality and is kind, and Cui Jing feels that it is not a good thing for her father and aunt to be companions.
Xu Peidong was afraid that it would be inconvenient for his wife to come forward, so he took the initiative to broker the affairs of his father-in-law and his sister-in-law, and he worried a lot before and after.
In the end, the father-in-law and the little aunt really came together, and Xu Peidong and his wife finally relaxed their hearts.
Cui Jing saw that the old father's face began to smile again, and she especially thanked her husband Xu Peidong for everything he did!
In life, Cui Jing gave Xu Peidong more meticulous care, and Xu Peidong also gave his wife a sense of security in all aspects!
The two have been married for 41 years, and their feelings have never changed.
Now her daughter Xu Sing is already a teacher at a college, and her most envious love is the love between her parents!