A woman's desire not to have children is not selfish, but the right to choose how to live!
Everyone's status in married life is equal, having children or not having children is a personal act, has nothing to do with others (including in-laws and mothers-in-law, mom and dad), and has nothing to do with selfishness!
Having children should not be influenced by stereotypes and think that it is only a woman's business, because only women can give birth, in fact, to have children is to have children, and the most important thing is the word "fertility"!
If both spouses are not prepared to be parents, or if they are not born out of love, but out of profit, then do not give birth.
Even if you give birth, you will not only harm yourself but also harm your children, and your own happiness and your children's happiness will be ruined! So now many people have children at random, and find that their other half is not what they want, after divorce, the child has become a burden, is it not very painful?
Birth is not important, breeding is the most important!
In real life, after many men become fathers, they do not participate well in the process of raising children, and what is more, when they are in charge of the treasurer, let their wives experience what is widowed marriage, which is selfish!
A good marriage makes people happy and happy, out of love for the other half, out of their own need for a child to bring themselves happiness and satisfaction, more noblely, for the sake of human reproduction, it is okay to have children!
Don't have children for the sake of your husband, mother-in-law, and mother, and don't have children just because you want to prove that you can!
Children are not tools, not toys, children are their own navigation lights to continue to sail, is the driving force in their own lives, which is why we always call them "babes"!
Since you have a child, you must carry out the obligation of raising children!
To be born or not to be born is a woman's right, not an obligation, and it is not a selfish act!
As long as you live comfortably and happily in your future life, the woman's womb woman decides for herself!