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Recently, the news of the divorce of the neighbor's old lady spread throughout the community. Everyone laughed and laughed, but after I understood, I was silent for a long time.
The neighbor's wife has been happy in recent years, marrying a daughter-in-law and having a grandson. Just when we all envied the old lady's blessings, she was going to divorce herself, and it was useless to persuade her.
It turned out that after the old lady and the grandfather got married, almost the old lady stood up the whole family. The two have been together for decades, but the grandfather has to share everything with the old lady, even the medical expenses of the son's high fever in the early years, the grandfather has a clear account to find the old lady to settle the account.
Widowed parenting, perhaps the word used to describe the old lady's career with a baby, is the most appropriate. The grandfather did not make much effort, and the child was older. Without much tossing, the child married his wife. Because no matter how big or small the family is, the old lady handles it in an orderly manner.
When they are old, the pensions of the grandfather and the old lady must be kept separately. The old man said that he did not know who of the two people died first, and the wealth left to the descendants was the dignity of each person.
Grandpa's pitiful efforts, as well as well-defined accounts, really crushed the old lady's last fantasy of marriage. In fact, the old lady has long wanted to divorce, but the child is too young. Now, the old lady can finally live for herself once.
She said that if you want to give two pieces of advice to young couples, then what she wants to say most is to find someone who pays with you, who is in the same heart as you, and secondly, to know how to accompany each other and love each other with your heart.
After listening to the old lady's story, I fell into contemplation.
A harmonious marriage is an equal effort, not a unilateral supply from one party for many years. Therefore, if women want to get happiness in marriage, men must also remember their responsibilities and obligations, and when they become a family, they must bear all the storms of a family.
One: pay together, work together, marriage can get better and better
Some couples always calculate each other, on the surface they look like husband and wife, but in fact, in their hearts, they treat each other as outsiders, such a couple is not good after all, and they cannot feel any happiness.
A really good marriage is inseparable from the joint efforts of two people, only when both parties selflessly pay, the whole family will go up, there will be more possibilities.
The 60-year-old grandmother mentioned above decided to divorce because in this marriage, she did not feel any happiness, nor did she feel the taste of being respected, and her wife always looked down on her, guarding her everywhere, making her completely cold.
Second: Mutual trust and companionship can keep the marriage alive
It is said that marriage is the graveyard of love, but have men ever wondered why there is such a statement? When it comes to love, men in order to hold the beauty of the return, endless patterns emerge. Entering marriage, men think that women can't run, so they have no intention of running marriages.
The wind and snow when in love gradually evolved into a partner in marriage. Did the man change his mind or did the woman change his mind? Maybe not, men lack passion for life, lack of companionship with women, the quality of marriage naturally declines.
Men leave work, don't rush to play games, accompany his wife to the supermarket. You can discuss what dishes to eat tonight, and the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar in the kitchen do not need to be replenished. Men should try to participate more in the life of their wives, after all, most husbands and wives can only get along after work hours.
If the husband comes home and just washes his hands and eats, bathes and sleeps, then isn't such a husband and wife relationship equivalent to a shared roommate? How can a wife feel happy?
In a happy marriage, the husband is mostly actively involved in the daily life of the family. The surprises of the festival are not as good as the careful companionship on weekdays.
Husbands and wives do not get along for two or three years, but for the rest of their lives. The husband gives his wife high-quality companionship, but also fulfills his own high-quality married life.
The effort is mutual, the husband has a heart for the wife in the marriage, and the wife is more willing to give in the marriage. The wife feels happy, so she will not complain while working.
Families full of laughter and laughter can prosper day by day.
In a family, the wife is happy, the husband is happy, and the children are happy. Therefore, men are kind to marriage and to their wives, in fact, they are kind to men themselves.
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