After 5 years of the husband and wife AA system, the wife helped the mother's family renovate the house and was rejected by the husband, the wife: Leave me alone

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Throughout this life, marriage is the top priority in life, and everyone has been looking forward to finding a partner all their lives, hoping that they can find a partner who is a perfect fit for themselves.

However, the wish is beautiful, the reality is somewhat or less satisfactory, we cannot deny that in a normal marriage, even the most perfect, fully compatible two people will eventually fall into endless life troubles, the original romance of the wind and snow will eventually become a chicken feather.

Everything in marriage can only have a comprehensive understanding of it after personal experience, even if it is spoken from other people, it cannot be empathetic, marriage is like a besieged city, the outside looks forward to life in the city, but the people in the city yearn for freedom outside the city.

017 years marriage, AA system 5 years

Xiaoyu is a graduate of a prestigious university, after graduation, she went to work in a good company, after several years of struggle, in the career is also slightly small.

However, during the rising period of Xiaoyu's career, she chose to follow her parents' wishes and return to her hometown to get married.

Everyone around them feels sorry for Xiaoyu, but Xiaoyu does not think so, Xiaoyu's original intention of staying in the big city was only to realize his dreams, but as his parents gradually grew older, his marriage became a troublesome thing for them for many years, and it was also in order to be able to stay with his parents for a long time, Xiaoyu decided to return to his hometown.

It seems that in The heart of Xiaoyu, who is serious about righteousness, the importance of parents is far greater than the dreams he carries.

Under the arrangement of his parents, Xiaoyu met a man, and after a short time together, Xiaoyu and him entered the palace of marriage.

In fact, in Xiaoyu's heart, for the upcoming married life is still full of infinite expectations and good wishes, but after marriage, Xiaoyu found that everything in reality is very different from what he ideally looks like, and those who once longed for the wind and snow have become a chicken feather after repeated husband and wife quarrels.

Finally, after the two were married for two years, at the behest of their husbands, the couple began an AA life.

In Xiaoyu's heart, he has not agreed with the life of the AA system, but helplessly under the insistence of her husband, Xiaoyu has gradually become accustomed to this mode of married life.

After all, seven years of married life, 5 years of AA system, anyone, can not be indifferent.

02 Helped her parents renovate the house, but her husband refused

During this seven-year period, Xiaoyu also had the idea of divorce, but as he has been hesitant, this idea has slowly disappeared, but marriage is different from love, once the decision to divorce, the cost is undoubtedly huge.

Later, Xiaoyu slowly found that in fact, the husband and wife AA system life is not only negative, since the AA system, everything in the family is jointly undertaken with the husband, even if it is a housework, it is also half of the husband and wife, which means that Xiaoyu has enough time to do some things he wants to do, and will no longer be like before, all day busy for the family.

Perhaps I have had experience working in big cities before, even Xiaoyu, who is already in his 30s, has a certain competitiveness in the workplace, and then slowly, Xiaoyu's income gradually catches up with her husband, and even in some months it will exceed her husband's income.

After being financially prosperous, Xiaoyu was a little more concerned about his parents, and Xiaoyu saw that the house where his mother's parents lived was relatively old, so he had plans to renovate the house for them.

However, in the middle of Xiao Yu's renovation of the house for his parents, he was rejected by her husband.

The husband said to Xiaoyu: We are under so much pressure now, you still give your parents to repair the house, I do not agree with this matter.

Xiao Yu asked rhetorically: Since we both have AA system, what do you do, why do you have to ask? What's more, I will not be less than a share of this family.

The husband was silent after listening to Xiaoyu's words.

After this incident, Xiaoyu can obviously feel that the distance between himself and her husband has widened a lot, but Xiaoyu does not care about this, because when her husband proposed the AA system, Xiaoyu predicted what the future life situation with her husband would be.

It's just that the appearance of this incident has pulled the distance between the couple a lot.

But in this regard, Xiaoyu has no regrets, since there is only a trace of marital love between her husband and her husband, then for her own biological parents, Xiaoyu should have been grateful and repaid their 20 years of nurturing grace.

Conclusion: In fact, regarding marriage, due to their own experience, everyone has a different understanding of it, whether it is happy or sad, or happy or sighing, but in either case, they are just the norm of marriage.

In today's life, the example of the husband and wife AA system is not uncommon, but without exception, behind the husband and wife AA system, in fact, is the biggest embodiment of the contradiction between husband and wife, some couples think that the AA system will greatly alleviate the emotions between husband and wife, such as quarrels, cold war, but all this is only the appearance, the end of the so-called AA system is the indifference of the husband and wife's feelings, although the AA system seems to be an absolutely fair and just embodiment of the husband and wife, but in the long run, it will cause the husband and wife to be emotionally weak, until the final situation of mutual disregard appears.

To put it bluntly, the husband and wife are originally a whole, since they have chosen each other, no matter how big the ups and downs are encountered in the future, they should also spend hand in hand, only in this way, after going through thousands of sails, they will usher in the agreement of a lifetime of hand in hand.