"After my wife left, I lived in my son's and daughter's house for a month, and I was resolutely admitted to a nursing home!"

01.

In the eyes of outsiders, Li Da Niang and Uncle Wang are a loving couple, in fact, the relationship between the two is really good.

It's just that Lady Li has always had a pimple in her heart, and because of this knot, she always suspects that Uncle Wang's kindness to her is a superficial kung fu, and often flashes a thought about whether the other party has another purpose when Uncle Wang asks her if she is warm.

In the beginning, Lady Li was actually not like this.

In the era of their parents' fate, the two were free to fall in love, and their feelings were naturally very good.

The reason why she has such thoughts from time to time and has such knots in her heart is because after her son and daughter got married and started a family, the two also retired.

Once there was a casual chat and mentioned death.

Uncle Wang finally sighed and said: Life and death are not up to people, if you can let me choose, I hope to be able to go behind you, so that you have someone to take care of, and you will not be alone.

Li Daniang's face changed at that time, and she thought to herself, this is looking forward to my early death.

Uncle Wang later explained the reason, said a bunch of things, summed up: couples with good feelings, old and old, or the people who go first are happier, and the people who stay behind are miserable.

Li Da Niang did not say no, she did not believe in such a theory, but thinking that for so many years, Uncle Wang had always been very good to herself, so she was like this incident had never happened, and suppressed her dissatisfaction.

But there were also knots in his heart, and he still doubted Uncle Wang's sincerity.

02.

She didn't realize later that she was wrong to blame Uncle Wang until she needed someone to take care of her and couldn't find someone to take care of her.

In this life, the best for her, always leaving a way back for her, has always been his wife who has complaints in his heart.

Uncle Wang was thinking of his heart, hoping that when the couple got old, he would walk behind his wife.

But the weather is unpredictable, how can this kind of thing be how you think, how will it come.

In a car accident, Uncle Wang was seriously injured, and he lay in the hospital for a month, lacking surgery.

Uncle Wang closed his eyes with deep reluctance and concern for his wife.

Li Da Niang is naturally heartbroken, but after the sadness, especially after taking care of the aftermath of his wife, his sons and daughters have gone back to their own small families, leaving Li Da Niang alone, lonely and all kinds of inconveniences in life.

After all, by this time, she was almost 70 years old.

She and Uncle Wang have a son and a daughter, and now they both have their own small families in the city.

Her own family is also busy, has her own children, and is far away from her hometown, so Li Da Niang was stunned that she only saw her son and daughter after half a year, or because of some things about Uncle Wang.

She may have lived like this all along, but her son and daughter did not take the initiative to take care of her, and she herself could not bear to trouble her children.

But one day, Mrs. Li suddenly fainted, fortunately at the door, and fortunately there were people in the neighbors at home.

The big guy rushed to the hospital in a hurry, a small stroke, because the medical treatment was timely, plus the condition was not serious, and after a period of hospitalization, he basically recovered.

But because of the age, and the original is still incomparable, for the sake of safety, it is natural to need someone to take care of it.

Otherwise, such a situation will appear again, not necessarily good luck, and it will be at the door again, and it will catch up with the neighbors who are at home.

According to the customs of this side of the countryside, the general old man follows his son to retire, after all, the daughter takes the dowry, and the son inherits the family business.

03.

But Mrs. Li's son said that his two sons were busy at work and did not have time to take care of their old mother.

The son was unwilling, and the daughter naturally did not speak.

Later, it was still hindering the face of the big guys, and the son and daughter reluctantly said, either we will pay for it, plus your own retirement salary, you go to live in a nursing home, someone to take care of, there are many people and lively.

Li Daniang did not want to go to the nursing home, thinking that it was not like living a life, and after arguing and shouting, she decided to go to her son and daughter's house to take turns.

After this was settled, time quarreled again, and it was originally proposed that the son and daughter take care of each other for half a year, starting with the son.

But the son was not happy, and the implication was that in case the old mother disappeared for half a year, he would not suffer a loss, and then he decided to take turns to take care of it for a month.

Li Da Niang was really embarrassed at that time, but she thought that this was the worst situation.

In fact, no, when she arrived at her son's house, the daughter-in-law did not face her face, and her nose was not her nose.

The daughter-in-law said that the mother-in-law did not take care of the confinement at the beginning, and the son wanted to buy a house and did not say that he supported a little more, and now how to be kind to the pension.

Li Da Niang was really depressed, but the daughter-in-law herself hated the mother-in-law's bad care, and chose the mother-in-law to pay for the sister-in-law to take care of it, how did it become that the mother-in-law was unwilling to take care of it?

And how big a thing is the ability to buy a house, how big a thing is, uncle Wang really refused to take out all his savings to support his son to buy a house, only a part of it.

But in the end, it was paid, and there was no money in this part, and the big house now could not be bought under any circumstances at that time.

Therefore, this is also to blame the in-laws and mother-in-law, and then become the reason for not to retire.

They all say that sons are not as good as daughters-in-law, and this sentence is correct.

Because the daughter-in-law did not treat her kindly, Mrs. Li's life was not good.

If the grandson had not been at home, the daughter-in-law was worried that her son would learn from him in the future, and perhaps the speech would be more difficult to hear, and it was estimated that he would not even be able to eat a few bites of food.

It was hard to last until a month, and the son was relieved, and he did not want to delay for a minute, so he sent the old mother to his sister's house.

After delivering, not a word was said.

04.

They all say that the daughter is a sweet little cotton jacket, but Li Daniang's daughter is not, she is reluctant, saying: We are all sons of the pension, how do you mean to run to your daughter's home.

Li Da Niang's stomach was on fire, and finally she said: How do we say this to your daughter?

Later, the daughter did not say anything, but she was a housewife, and the family was basically the son-in-law who had the final say, and life was still not good.

When the month came, she did not wait for her daughter to send her, so she packed up her things and returned to her hometown.

A man went to the nursing home in town to complete the formalities, and finally notified his son and daughter to sign.

Although she still didn't like it here, lying in bed at night, she was very down-to-earth, because no one would dislike her for not working and eating too much.

She finally realized why she wanted to walk behind Uncle Wang's words before, if Uncle Wang was still there, she really wouldn't be like this now.

She also finally understood why her wife was clinging to her savings and refusing to take them all out to change her son's big house.

She thought of Uncle Wang's intention in saying these words to herself when he was dying: After I am gone, the money left for you must be put away, otherwise it will be too difficult in the future.

Indeed, if they don't have the money, the son and daughter will definitely send themselves to the worst nursing home.

Alas, I still have no blessing, my wife is gone, and I have not been able to enjoy the joy of heaven, and my children and grandchildren are on their knees. For the rest of his life, the nursing home is his own dependence.

Li Daniang's life after the death of Uncle Wang was so lamented.

"Parents raise us small, we adopt parents old", a simple and simple sentence, I hope that children in the world can do it.

The reincarnation of all things, the present day of our parents, is not our tomorrow. To be kind to your elderly parents is to be kind to yourself in the future. Everyone encourages.

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