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After the TV series "Dear Child" was broadcast, many netizens hated the screenwriter's plot clichés, but many people kept chasing the drama.
Why are so many people still attracted by Qin Hao and Ren Suxi's acting skills while scolding. Because it's real.
In particular, Fang Yinuo, played by Ren Suxi in the play. It can be said that it has experienced all the misfortunes related to marriage that all women in today are unwilling to face.
1. He said he loved me
When he was about to give birth, her husband Xiao Lu was not present. When he and his husband complained that there was a problem with his sister-in-law, the husband turned a deaf ear.
Even, on the child's full moon wine, Xiao San came to the door and played the audio that her husband had sent to the other party, which can be described as a word.
Everything Xiao Lu did to his wife from beginning to end, he did not really fulfill the responsibility of being a father and a husband.
He said he loved his wife, but he never showed up when her wife needed him.
Every time, Xiao Lu only habitually skipped his wife's words, and his attitude towards her was always full of perfunctory and impatient.
And it is because of such a married life surrounded by 'widowed marriage' and 'widowhood-style parenting' that Fang Yinuo has endured too much.
In fact, every collapse, helplessness, persistence, and accusation she performs is a true portrayal of modern marriage.
It's also why more women would rather be single than get married.
If my marriage is destined to be just a farce, then maybe not starting is the best ending.
2. Patience, will there really be results?
Some people say: 'Most of the current TV dramas are derailed at the beginning, but the follow-up is that women should have more responsibility for the family.' “
Indeed, now whether it is a TV series or real life, women are always given heavier responsibilities and pressures, and they are also poured more attention.
A qualified mother and wife must be independent and have full control over everything outside the home, otherwise it is a dereliction of duty.
However, this marriage is not her own marriage, this child, not only the woman's own children, the other half of the family, also need someone to support.
People always habitually advise women to understand the general body, to know how to be humble, and to learn to understand the hardships of the other half.
However, women are also human beings, they also need to vent their emotions, they also need to be understood, and they also need to be appreciated, why can they only blindly pay?
Forbearance is never the way out of marriage. If you don't love, then don't force it. In a marriage that hurts both, no one will be happy.
3. Go here, I don't love you anymore
After the broadcast of "Children of the Qiao Family", the marriage of Qiao Simei once made her actor Song Zu'er begin to fear marriage.
Because, Qiao Simei gave everything for his other half. She forgives again and again, only to be rewarded with more betrayals.
Before their divorce, Qiao Simei sat quietly next to each other for the first time, and summed up their marriage with tears in her eyes.
From the beginning to the present, she did not have any things to be sorry for her husband, and her tolerance for him became a reason for her to hurt her.
Qiao Simei asked Qi Chenggang, "Do you still love me?" Do you still want to live with me? But this time, I don't love you anymore. “
She wasn't sober, only this time, she really wanted to open up, and understood why her siblings had been persuading her to leave the man before.
With hard work in life, you may be able to get the results you want, but in love, this road is not feasible.
Because whoever betrays you once will definitely betray you a second time. People who hurt you don't let go because of your weakness.
So, don't go down. That kind of person is not worthy of your love, let alone any of your efforts.
4. Let's get divorced
The beginning of marriage is all hot, like the fire of June, like the moment when a match touches the fireworks, brilliant and beautiful.
But marriage is not the end of everything, but the beginning of a new stage. It is a new life of two people, held up together.
If it is not suitable, it can be slowly run-in. But if the rift can't be repaired, giving up is the best choice.
Your life is not as long as you think, why make it so bad for others?
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.