When I first watched "Children of the Qiao Family", I felt that Qiao Simei was very stupid, it was a love brain, Qi Chenggang was obviously cheating and playing with feelings, qiao Simei still repeatedly chose to forgive.
However, after watching this drama again, I found that Qiao Simei seems to be stupid, but in fact, she lives a very transparent life, and the children of the Qiao family, because of the existence of Qiao Simei, even if there is a contradiction, it can always be alleviated.
Comfort the third sister
When Qiao Sanli was molested by Li Heman when she was a child, when she grew up, she formed a serious inner shadow.
In the face of feelings, Sanli is always very afraid and passive, even if she has moved her heart to Wang Yiding in her heart, but when Wang Yiding kissed her out of true feelings, Sanli was like a frightened deer, immediately panicked, emotionally collapsed, braved the heavy rain, and fled home.
Qiao Simei saw Qiao Sanli's abnormal behavior, at first she thought that Wang Yiding had bullied her, and then from Sanli's words, she tried to find out that it was not Wang Yiding's doing, and soon she thought that Sanli might have been scared out of the shadows by the experience when she was a child, and then Qiao Simei comforted Sanli: "When I was young, you took care of me, now it's good, and let your sister take care of you, sister, you are unhappy, you have to vent out, you can't always hold back, you vent out, live well, angry at those bad guys, You can't just meet someone and let him ruin your life. ”
Although Qiao Sanli is very sensible from childhood to adulthood, she is also more energetic than the two and four beauty in her studies, but Sanli has a shortcoming that is very similar to Yicheng, that is, when she encounters unhappy things, she always loves to hold it in her heart, digest it by herself, in fact, there are some things that cannot be opened, if you say it to others, maybe the other party will help you untie the knot with three words and two words.
It is precisely because Qiao Simei saw this shortcoming of her sister that she encouraged her to bravely open her heart, communicate more with her family or friends, and get out of the shadow of her childhood.
Enlightenment two strong
When Erqiang fell in love with Ma Suqin, everyone in the family objected, only Qiao Simei understood Erqiang and supported him to bravely pursue love.
When watching TV dramas, we will find that the relationship between Simei and Erqiang has always been very good, and Erqiang's heart is not willing to say to others, but is willing to say it to Simei.
The reason is that Simei's emotional concept is very open and tolerant and delicate, in this drama, although Simei has been scolded for love brain, it is undeniable that she is the most active lover among the brothers and sisters of the Qiao family.
Like Qiao Yicheng and Qiao Sanli and Qiao Erqiang, in the relationship, has always been a passive posture.
After Qiao Erqiang divorced Sun Xiaomo, qiao Simei encouraged him to bravely confess to Ma Suqin.
Qiao Simei: "Tomorrow and accidents don't know which one comes first, so shouldn't we hurry up and grasp the present?" As long as it doesn't hurt people, if you have anything you want to say in your heart, you should say it, and who you like, you should hurry to tell her. ”
With the encouragement of Qiao Simei, Erqiang boldly confessed to Master, and finally won Master's heart.
Erqiang in his heart has long made up his mind to live with Ma Suqin for a lifetime, only with Ma Suqin, Erqiang is the enterprising and energetic youth in the former machinery factory, since he has already decided on something, there is no need to delay, and it is the truth to boldly do it.
Qiao Simei saw through the mind that the second strong was not Ma Suqin, but he still lacked the last bit of encouragement from his family, so Simei was willing to be the first to support the second strong family.
Coax good big brother
On the surface, Qiao Yicheng is the eldest brother of the Qiao family, but in fact, Qiao Yicheng replaces the responsibility of his father.
Because of the habitual concern for his younger siblings, Qiao Yicheng inevitably has a situation of overly strict discipline and one-size-fits-all.
He always arranged a smooth and decent life for his younger siblings according to his own ideas, but ignored that his younger siblings had already grown up, everyone had their own ideas, and if they were as big as before, it would be easy for their younger siblings to resent.
Qiao Erqiang and Ma Suqin's entanglement led to unemployment, and later concealed that Qiao Yicheng was in the business of selling clothes with NiuYe, and as a result, Niuye's business violated the law and was detained.
Qiao Erqiang was implicated at the same time, and Qiao Yicheng was furious to the police station to help Qiao Erqiang clean up the mess.
After returning home, Qiao Yicheng taught Qiao Erqiang a lesson fiercely, and Qiao Erqiang was discouraged, claiming that he also wanted to do a good job, had a job, but there was no way, and finally asked Qiao Yicheng to help him point out a way (to find a job).
But Qiao Erqiang let Qiao Yicheng look for a job, but at that time, he was angry, in essence, he did not think about what he wanted to do in his heart, but at this time, Qiao Yicheng had already helped Qiao Erqiang find a job opportunity.
Qiao Yicheng eagerly forced Qiao Erqiang to go to work, and Qiao Erqiang fought with Qiao Yicheng in various ways, and the two people were sword-fighting, almost moving their hands.
At this time, Qiao Simei, who had been persuading qiao simei on the side, shouted and asked Qiao Erqiang to take her job and go to work in the binding factory.
Qiao Yicheng did not learn that Qiao Simei had resigned behind his back, and at that time, the job of Qiao Simei's binding factory was still found by Qiao Yicheng for her, which would make Qiao Simei complain that she did not like to work in the binding factory at all.
Qiao Simei's words can be described as a fierce punch to Qiao Yicheng, making Qiao Yicheng feel that his big brother is useless.
The reason why Qiao Simei said this at this time, I wrote before, on the one hand, is to raise an eyebrow in front of the family, to tell the family that they are not useless, this is not to apply for a foreign-related hotel, on the other hand, it is indeed dissatisfied with the big brother's one-size-fits-all education method.
Of course, resistance is rebellion, Qiao Simei is still well aware of Qiao Yicheng's efforts as a big brother, so when he turns back, Qiao Simei runs to coax the big brother.
Qiao Yicheng has paid so much for his younger brothers and sisters since he was a child, who knows that his younger brothers and sisters do not appreciate it, he will naturally feel very wronged in his heart, Qiao Simei sees through the heart of the eldest brother, and warmly coaxes him.
Qiao Yicheng: "I used to think that my big brother was quite qualified, but now look, my brother, for an outsider, almost wants to do something with me, preferring to go to my sister's binding factory rather than listen to my arrangement." ”
Qiao Simei: "You are good to us, we all know, but when we grow up, we will have our own things to do, if we really listen to you about everything, do nothing, and have no opinion, isn't it more troublesome?" ”
Qiao Simei knew in her heart that the eldest brother was lost and the younger brothers and sisters did not understand their own efforts, so she first affirmed the big brother's efforts, and then patiently explained the reason for rebelling against him with the big brother, so that Qiao Yicheng was easy to accept, and finally deliberately said that he did not even recognize the English alphabet, let the eldest brother teach her to learn English, so that Qiao Yicheng felt that although the younger brother and sister grew up, they still recognized and needed him as a big brother.
Qiao Simei comforted the third sister, enlightened the second strong, coaxed the big brother, she is not a useless love brain, nor is she stupid, carefully observe the details, you will find that she actually lives very transparently, between the Brothers and Sisters of the Qiao family, but also because of her lubricant, the relationship can be more harmonious.
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★ About the author: Xin Qing, original author, taste book review drama, meet a better self in the world.
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