In the face of love, we all easily lose our minds and become blindly impulsive for love. In life, as long as we often observe the people around us, we can find such a phenomenon, when a person has a favorite person in his heart, their words and deeds are no longer as calm as before. Especially there are some things about people who like them, and they are more likely to lose their minds.
Although women are naturally more reserved and shy, especially when dealing with the opposite sex, they will pay more attention to their own image and maintain the safest distance.
However, after some women completely fall in love with a man, they will be like Zhu Yaoxie said: "In terms of love, women may be very strong or very cowardly." Either she loves others or accepts the love of others, and once she is in love, she will be willing to obey if she is ordered to drill into the fire. ”
In women's hearts, they will feel that everything is worth paying for love and sacrificing themselves. It's just that women don't think about what your so-called giving and sacrificing means for men.
Remember that in "Children of the Qiao Family", the most failed feeling is Qiao Simei. Her personality is very cheerful and enthusiastic, if you meet a person who likes each other, you will be able to have a beautiful and stable relationship. However, Qiao Simei stubbornly gave her true heart to a man who did not love her at all.
From the beginning of this relationship, Qiao Simei took the initiative to pay and strive to have a good ending. She wants to tie Qi Chenggang's heart, so she gives her enough trust and support, whether in marriage or in her career, Qiao Simei has been working hard to change her status quo, and wants her family to see that her choice is correct.
However, her expectations were finally shattered by Qi Chenggang's betrayal, and in the case that the marriage could still be saved, Qi Chenggang did not choose to cherish it at all, but challenged Qiao Simei's bottom line again and again.
Later, after the two divorced, Qiao Simei seemed to have changed as a person, and she no longer had the same enthusiasm and trust as before, in her heart, Qi Chenggang only had the identity of a child's father, nothing more.
However, when Qiao Simei became what she is now, Qi Chenggang was interested in Qiao Simei and wanted to remarry her. When Qiao Simei needs help, Qi Chenggang will also come uninvited, not caring at all about Qiao Simei's indifference to him.
Seeing such an ending, I can only sigh that if Qiao Simei had always been such a character, perhaps the ending would be different.
In Qiao Simei's body, we can also get some enlightenment, women want to get a man, not deliberately to please men, but to do these points, the effect is not ordinary.
01 In love, women should not be too enthusiastic, but also know how to be appropriately cold.
In love, some women want to keep a love, but her approach is somewhat foolish. The more you love a man, the more you want to give everything you have for a man. When getting along with men, women will also behave very enthusiastically, and they will completely tell men their intentions. Women think that love is to be so selfless, in order to show the greatness of love.
In such a practice, women only care about their own ideas, but always ignore the men's thoughts. If you want to get a man, a woman must first understand the man's heart and know what kind of love he wants. If the feelings you give him are not the kind of love that he expects in his heart, how can a man love you unreservedly?
As the saying goes: "Pursue love it flies high, escape love it follows." "No matter how much a woman loves a man, she has to remember this sentence. If you want your love to have a good outcome, don't be too enthusiastic. Appropriately cold, but it is easy to attract the attention of men.
02 Pay attention to your own image, although men love you, they will naturally accept the most real you, but love also needs to be pleasing to the eye.
Shakespeare once said a very classic saying: "Women love with their ears, and men, if they have love, love with their eyes." ”
A man will fall in love with a woman, first conquering his eyes. Of course, not all women who can conquer men are young and beautiful women. There is a woman who has a special temperament in her body, even if she is not outstanding, at least she can pay attention to her own image.
So, women don't think that if a man really loves you, he will naturally accept the most real and sloppy you. If you want to get a man, women must first know how to pay attention to their own image. When you conquer a man's eyes, you naturally conquer his heart.
03 No matter how much two people love each other, don't get tired of being together all the time.
Falling in love with someone, the heart will always want to be tired of being with him, even if it is doing boring things every day, as long as the person you love is around, you will feel that life is particularly happy and sweet.
However, we should understand that no matter how happy your love is now, if you have been tired of being together, one day it will become dull, and at that time, the other party will be tired of such a life and want to have free space.
The more a woman wants to conquer a man, the more she must understand what Toh Fuller said: "Parting makes love warm, and meeting makes it strong." ”
If you want this love to be more enthusiastic, you must let this love have a parting time. Grasp the balance of it, and when you meet again, your love will be stronger.
Meller Sain said, "Love is not who sacrifices for whom, who does what for whom, and once love becomes like this, it is not love." ”
Women want to get a man, don't always think of pleasing men, and don't blindly sacrifice themselves. If a woman does this, love will only disappear faster. Women may wish to learn to do these points well, and perhaps the effect will be much better.