For the trick of picking up girls, many boys have a lot of say, especially the kind of boys who are more liked by girls, he picks up girls, the method is always set by set. It can especially please girls, so that girls feel that such boys are particularly pleasing.
He can clearly know what kind of boys each type of girl likes, and then he can switch his personality at will, which can be described as a veteran of the love field.
And some men seem to be completely opposite to this type of person, they especially do not pick up girls, that is, simply say a word, will make women particularly disgusted, will make women feel particularly unsatisfactory, say a word is greasy.
So it is really important for a man to be able to talk when he is flirting with women, and it must remember these principles, otherwise it will make women disgusted.
First of all, don't exaggerate yourself, don't feel that you are very good, the words you say, no other party to see your real appearance to come well, even if you are really strong, but also give the other party a chance to let her discover, do not say it yourself.
The second is not to brag, women hate men the most braggadocio, all day long to talk about it, such a man will give women feel special and out of breath, and then will not be willing to go near you again.
The last thing is not to restrict each other's free thoughts, everyone has different thoughts, don't use your ideas to imprison other people's ideas, learn to give others freedom, distance can produce beauty, no matter what kind of relationship is so. When you master these principles, the pursuit of people you like will be handy.
"Flirting" a woman, keeping in mind three principles, she is not disgusted
Don't exaggerate yourself
In fact, many people after having a favorite person, for a time will want to let the other party look at themselves, and then when they speak, they will exaggerate themselves too much, and they do not feel that they have much ability, but they want to prove themselves too much, and then they are not very attentive when they speak.
Women hate to be such a man who praises themselves, women will feel that you have no ability, only the mouth of the kung fu, such a ni, they will not like.
So when talking, you must be humble, even if you have a lot of sharp edges, you must learn to hide a little, and your own goodness will wait for her to slowly find out, and he will not hesitate to fall in love with you.
Don't brag
There is also a kind of man that women especially don't like, that is, men who often brag about it, will feel how powerful they are, how strange they are, and then talk about it like they don't think through the brain.
Rhetoric will make women particularly disgusted, such a man in the eyes of women is a brainless man, a slightly more mature woman will not like.
So when talking to women, you must not brag, what you know is what you know, there is nothing to be ashamed of what you don't know, and your bragging will only make the other party's view of you more and more bad.
Once the other person thinks that you are a person who can only play tricks, then you have no chance at all
Don't have any ideas that limit the other person's freedom
People don't like to be imprisoned, whether it is mental or personal freedom, if you fall in love with her and make her feel that there is no little freedom with you, then slowly, it will definitely not like you anymore.
When pursuing a woman, be sure to preach freedom, to make her feel that life with you is comfortable, so that he will slowly get closer, and there will be stories between you.
If you make her feel like you're a controlling man, she won't continue to get close even if she has a crush on you, because she's afraid that she'll lose her freedom after being with you.
So don't have the idea of restricting the other person's freedom when you are flirting with women, you don't have the right and you can't do it.
epilogue:
The pursuit of a person is a method, with the right method you will feel that it is particularly simple to fall in love, use the wrong method, no matter how hard you work, you can not get a woman's heart.
Many men are not because of how good they are, but because they understand a woman's heart and can grasp the measure when speaking.
So when you like a person, you must learn to speak, try to maintain modesty, your own good, and let the other party personally discover.