The good guy card is synonymous with the confession of rejection, many suitors among the boys have had the experience of being issued a good guy card, as Edison said, failure is the mother of success, the same reason can be obtained, the good guy card is to love its mother. Boys who have not received a good man card are not really masters of seduction, "Whoever will eventually shock the world will be silent for a long time; Whoever will eventually ignite the lightning will drift like a cloud for a long time. ”——Nietzsche
The essence of the good guy card
Boys who receive a good guy card should understand that the good guy card is not available to anyone. The essence of girls giving boys a good guy card means polite refusal, and those who directly refuse, such as "you are not handsome, no money, no ability, and lack of humor and humor, please don't chase me...", which means that the boy's strength is the scum of the war, so being able to get a good person shows that your strength is relatively good, but you have not yet conquered the realm of girls.
Benefits of receiving a good man card
The ability to fall in love is summed up through the experience of continuous failure, so getting a good guy card symbolizes that you have a lot of experience that many suitors don't have, and in the process of chasing girls, you have the tricks and dating routines that many suitors lack, and these will become the advantages of competitors.
Good people have a lot of cards, good temperament, and are gentle to everyone. There are always cigarettes and sugar on the body, and who needs to give it to whom. With girls, it has become a habit to take the initiative to carry bags, open doors, and carry things. Such a boy is gentle and elegant, and naturally invisibly likes many girls.
The good guy card gets more results
Good people have more cards, naturally know how to please girls, how to chat with girls, how to arrange dates, how to create ambiguity, what sister skills, what sister routines, all have a deep experience and natural neural reaction in failure, at this time the boy is no longer a love white who does not understand the world, but a love god who knows how to mobilize the atmosphere.
When you receive enough good people cards, you will find that you already have a super strong ability to seduce your sister, and it can even be said that you don't have to chase after your sister, and your sister will naturally take the initiative to find you, so receiving a good person card is a path of suffering cultivation, and only a tough guy who can withstand this blow can exercise a stoic love master!
What is a "good guy card"?
The good guy card is that in the eyes of others, you are a "good person", you can find you to do anything you can do, even if you can't do it, you will find a way to help her unconditionally, to put it bluntly, it is that you can learn infinitely here without paying any price.
Now that we understand what a "good guy card" is, we can clearly solve the problem described in the title:
First, be yourself normally
We still follow our normal way of life, do our own things, ignore the ups and downs outside, because what others think is not something you can decide, and how you think and how to do is what we need to consider, if we think about other people's minds every day, it can't be done, don't say you can't guess, even if you know what you can do. So I think we are the first thing to do ourselves is the most premise, there is a saying that is not good: "The body is not afraid of the shadow oblique, they have the strength, the rumors do not attack themselves."
Second, change yourself
Ignoring the wind and rain outside does not mean that you don't know anything, so according to the actual situation, or things related to yourself, you must have a bottom in your heart and understand the other party's thoughts. Girls don't send you a "good guy card" for no reason, if you don't mind, you are willing to be treated as a "good guy" by the other party then everything is not a problem. But if you don't want to be treated as a "good person" by the other person or you want to think further with the other party, then you have to change the way you treat others, both to change your external image and influence, and to change the perception of others about you.
Third, learn to refuse
What you don't want to do or don't want to do, or inconvenient things, you must learn to appropriately euphemistically refuse, blindly, do not distinguish anything, do not ask for returns, etc. to help others, is not necessarily a good thing, everything has two sides, whether it is for yourself or for others.
In my experience of so many years, I have found that whether in society, or in life, or in the family, blindly paying, unconditionally helping others, doting on education methods, etc. these are all self-righteous and right, but they have not considered what will happen later and what may happen, so the final result is not what they think they want.
But such things are still common, why?