Good performance when chatting can be a good way to bring the relationship between boys and girls closer. When chatting with girls, it is not only necessary to have material content, but also to pay attention to humor and humor. But it is basically impossible to do this in the early stages of the chat, in this transition period, seconds back or not seconds back? That's a problem.
When flirting with a sister, chatting can be said to be the most important step in closing the relationship, there is no shortage of boys who can speak well and are versatile, and they appear incoherent in front of the girls they like, in fact, they are between chatting but not chatting with girls.
Seconds back to the girl's pros and cons
When the girl does not answer to you, she is not willing to answer when you talk, at most one or two words back to you, it is obvious that she is not interested in chatting with you, or has no time to chat with you. In this case, it is wrong to reply to her message in seconds, it seems that a high dialogue posture is difficult to show your attractiveness, and it will also give you a score in the subconscious of the girl.
Anyone has their own topics of interest and do not want to talk about the topic, when the sister will also encounter this situation, for example, when you are talking about a political event, she does not know what to say, you continue to reply for seconds, it is easy to create a self-contained, childish image of the girl.
In a normal chat, boys can do as many seconds as possible, because the seconds back is a respect for girls, girls are slightly sensitive, long time do not reply to the message will make her feel that you are very perfunctory to her, this impact can basically declare your end.
Seconds back or not seconds back
In the normal chat, most of the boys who return every second are in a state of some kind of unconfidence, because they do not know how to chat with girls, and they are afraid that girls will be bored with their replies, so they copy and paste some words on the Internet, "The good-looking skin bag is the same, the interesting soul is the same", and from time to time there are two popular golden sentences in the discourse.
Or pretending to be humorous, delicate and pretentious, forcing a stalk in the usual chat, forcing a car. This kind of deliberate packaging and deliberately modified second return method usually makes girls feel childish and ridiculous.
Those boys who do not return seconds, too like to choose words and sentences, it will make the girl's head bigger, the daily dialogue has to wait for a minute or two to get a reply, the girl's patience has long been consumed to the end. The second return can adjust the comfortable chat rhythm, and the second return can have time to appropriately increase the beauty of the sentence, which is the difference between the second return and the second return.
When chatting with girls, boys should return in seconds most of the time, and take a non-second way in the moment when they can reflect their own charm, and appropriately depict the beauty of language.
So in the chat, there are four of the following seven situations, please be sure to invite girls:
1. Ambiguous nicknames appear in chats
2, do not exclude dating you
3. The chat is active and enthusiastic, and the circle of friends interacts frequently
4. Overlap and integration of each other's social circles
5) Her passion for you is unique
6. There is physical contact between "prospective couples"
7. Allow you to enter private spaces alone (bedroom, mobile phone, private theater, etc.)
Chasing girls, in fact, the most exquisite point - the heat. The time has not come, hastily confessed, most of the girls reply to you is "I don't want to fall in love at the moment." When the time is late, and then to confess, most of the girls reply to you is "I think we are not suitable." ”
So get it?
It is difficult to catch up with a girl by chatting alone, chatting is just the process of you knowing this girl, if you want a girl to accept you and like you, then you must learn to seize the window period and create an ambiguous communication atmosphere, and your relationship can come to fruition.
Chatting every day is not the point, the focus is on "what to talk about, how to talk, and what is the ultimate purpose of the chat".