When everyone sees beautiful things, and when they meet people they like, their hearts will become warmer, and they will involuntarily become gentle, their tone of speech will become gentle, they can't bear to speak loudly, they are always afraid of scaring you, and they will approach you from time to time.
Just like when people see a particularly cute puppy or kitten, you will unconsciously touch it, and the voice will become very gentle, and the face will become much softer.
The same is true when men like you, and when they like you, they talk at a lower volume and become very gentle.
The "volume" of a man's speech exposes the love for you
Men talk to you at a low volume, showing that they care about you, do not want to scare you or let you misunderstand their attitudes
Yishu once said: "I fell in love with him, I know, because I began to tell him the truth, I began to be sad, began to care." "Because I love you, I will produce a lot of care and a lot of emotions that arise from you.
When a man talks to you, the volume becomes smaller unconsciously, which means that he cares about you, his attitude towards you is always different from others, you are the special and exceptional in his life, and he always wants to chat with you in a harmonious way, because he does not want to scare you, nor does he want to affect you because of his different emotions, and he is afraid that you will misunderstand his attitude.
After all, men and women have different thinking, men really love you, she will always want to communicate with you well, afraid that some of their words and certain behaviors will hurt you when you are not careful, so they will always reduce the volume of their own words to you because they care about you, the tone will become euphemistic, want to be kind, gentle and gentle to treat you.
Talking to you unconsciously lowers your volume because I care about you, and I always unconsciously want to leave my most gentle side to you.
Men disagree with you, but they speak softly and reasonably, indicating that they love you deeply
The feelings between two people can not always be smooth, because of this, so in the process of getting along, there will inevitably be differences and contradictions, but there are problems are not terrible, the terrible thing is that they have not been to solve the problem, when the problem accumulates into more, eventually the estrangement and contradictions between the two people will become "East African Rift Valley", and finally cannot be solved, and the original good feelings have become irreparable because of this.
But the man really loves you, although there will be contradictions in the process of getting along, but she can now bow her head to you, and can do a light reason with you, always unwilling to put the worst side of yourself and the most angry side to you, there is always a lot of intolerance and love for you, this is a man really loves you.
George Eliot once said: "In dialogue, women speak loudly to the men she despises, and whisper softly to the men who begin to be impressed with her." ”
Women are like this, so are men, really love you, and are always reluctant to face your worst side despite disagreements.
Men really love you, and despite differences, they will still speak softly to you, because they love you deeply.
Men who love someone will give their tenderness to each other
Everyone always wants to be gentle with the world, wants to experience less hardship, be happier, and think of themselves when there is no one they like.
However, when a man falls in love with someone, he will hope that the you he loves will be treated tenderly by the world, always hoping that you will be happier and less sad, preferring to feel bad to himself rather than see you hurt. The same is true verbally, always wanting to give you all his tenderness, you are the most special person in his life, and her tenderness is not willing to give to anyone but you.
Xi Murong once said: "When you are young, if you fall in love with a person, please, please be gentle with him." No matter how long or short you have been in love, if you can always be gentle with each other, then all moments will be a flawless beauty.
If you have to separate, say goodbye and thank him in your heart for giving you a memory.
When you grow up, you will know that in the moment of looking back, the youth without resentment will have no regrets, such as the quiet full moon on the mountain. "When you fall in love with someone, you will always give your tenderness to the other person.
A man will only be willing to bring his tenderness with the wind when he loves you again.
epilogue:
When people face people who are close to each other, they will involuntarily become gentle in tone, and even more so when facing the people they love, because they are willing to spoil people for a lifetime, because that is the biggest weakness in their hearts, because the most special existence in their lives at that time, because they love you, you deserve the gentleness of men.