Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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In the relationship between men and women, it seems that too many people tell women how to choose a reliable man to enter marriage, but few people tell men what kind of women are worth marrying.
On the issue of mate selection, men and women take the same risk!
Wrong marriage and wrong marriage are nightmares for the rest of your life! Many people, because of the wrong partner, have spent the rest of their lives suffering tragic results for their own wrong choices!
Although, in the adult world, it is the responsibility to make choices to bear, but who wants to face a wrong person and be lonely for the rest of their lives?
A woman marrying someone is a bet for the rest of her life, and why is it not an investment for the rest of her life when a man marries a wife?
Winning or losing for the rest of your life, in fact, the moment you decide who to choose, it is already doomed!
The world of young people, the view of love, is always superficial! I think that love is together, and as for the future chai rice oil and salt, we can face it together!
But in fact, the real chai rice oil and salt in life and the beautiful life outlined in the current wind and snow are usually the opposite!
Women are born beautifully, and in the marriage relationship, they certainly occupy an "advantage". However, the woman who can be loved for a long time must rely on her inner being.
A woman's appearance only determines whether a man will have the possibility of having feelings for her, and whether a woman is a man worth living a lifetime, he must also look inside through her surface.
For men: women who can't do the following 3 points, no matter how good-looking they are, don't marry!
First: Live your life with great care
Men are responsible for earning money and supporting their families, and women are responsible for being beautiful as flowers! Is this really the case?
This sentence, I don't know how many men and women in the relationship, let people smell the tears of the touch!
But in fact, after the two people are combined, even if the woman can be a full-time housewife, she does not have to worry about her livelihood and food and clothing. However, we must also know how to live a careful life.
Some people may have too many misunderstandings about the four words "carefully calculated"! Think, careful calculation is to reduce food and clothing!
In fact, daily life is nothing more than the upper, middle and lower levels, and it is necessary for families with real living constraints to reduce their clothes and food. But for relatively endowed families, we must also know how to spend money on the cutting edge.
The neighbor and the girlfriend were in for 3 years, the neighbor went out early and returned late to make money, and the monthly salary of 8,000 yuan was handed in, but when the two people talked about marriage, they found that there was less than 20,000 yuan of savings.
While the neighbor was angry, the girlfriend said: I spend your money, isn't it supposed? You earn less because you don't have the ability, do you want me to pay back the money?
It was at that moment that the neighbor learned that all of his girlfriend's clothes, shoes, and bags were at a high price. And, when girlfriends and their sisters go out to parties, most of them are girlfriends...
Yes, two people together, whether the other half is extravagant, they should have some sense! Without carefully observing the degree of family expenses and women's "purchases", is that not self-inflicted?
Men and women together, men pay their full salary, not money! It is a solid and honest hand over to the woman, and it is the full sincerity of the man himself.
If, the woman in front of you, just spend money does not know how to save money, and will spend money in too many unworthy places, but also use the phrase "love me to give me money" to morally kidnap you, no matter how much love must be separated as soon as possible.
A woman, carrying the feng shui of a family, marries a woman who is a "loser" and enters the door, how can life be better?
Second: clean private life
Things are clustered in groups, and people are grouped! This sentence is very reasonable! What kind of person you are, what kind of people your friends will be!
A woman with a clean circle, her character will naturally not be bad.
Women who come and go all day at bars, nightclubs, and boyfriends who change their boyfriends generally don't have too clean circles.
Women with clean circles will only have a clean private life!
Women with clean private lives will not make "unclean" friends to absorb the concept of destroying the three views, and will not have close contact with other members of the opposite sex.
The most important point is that a woman with a clean private life will not have one in front of her eyes and one in her heart, and she will not be able to calm herself by looking at the spare tire horizontally and vertically!
Circles are not clean, private life is not clean, such a woman is difficult to be single-minded and loyal to anyone! Because, she is a person who does not love herself, how can she be responsible for feelings?
Women with clean private lives will know how to interact with positive people, achieve each other, grow each other, have a sunny mentality, and think hard. They will not agree and will not do harm to others and themselves that violate their conscience and morality.
For people, those phenomena of "coming out of the mud without staining" do not exist! What kind of person you are, what kind of people you attract.
If your circle of women is chaotic and you have a close relationship with the opposite sex, you must be cautious about combining! It's okay to fall in love, and it's okay to get married! Bao Buqi, one day you have a touch of green on your head, she is still pretending to be innocent!
Even, there will be too many of her "friends" who have wrong views to do justice for her!
Life is not easy, choose a mate need to be cautious! Women whose private lives are not clean, no matter how beautiful they look, don't marry! What you lack is not a vase that anyone can move, but a solid stone that can give you a moment of peace of mind.
Third: Filial piety
Filial piety comes first! If a woman is not good to her parents, she will not be good to the man's parents from the bottom of her heart! A woman who is not good to her parents, no matter how good she is to a man's parents, is also a clear purpose that cannot be hidden!
In addition, some women are not bad to their parents, but they are deeply "seduced" by poisonous chicken soup, standing at the highest end and saying:
Daughter-in-law is not obliged to support her in-laws...
But in fact, you choose this man, you choose his parents! Raising children and preventing old age includes women who live with men!
If raising children and preventing old age needs to be exchanged for all kinds of unspeakable heartaches of the elderly, then raising children is a sin of a past life!
A daughter-in-law is not obliged to support her in-laws, so who raised your man as an adult?
Grateful people, who only do things that are not ashamed, will not be unreasonable and will not allow the elderly to exist in their lives.
It is true that we cannot morally kidnap daughters-in-law how to treat their in-laws, nor can we teach women to know how to feed their parents "without knowing the hardships of others to persuade others to be kind".
After all, everyone's upbringing is different, and the story between every woman and her in-laws has too many ins and outs... However, when the elderly need to be fed back by the young people, no matter what, we must remember the words of the parents who are more generous than the sky...
Without parents, there are no children! Don't say the big rebellious words "parents let themselves be born without their consent"! Parents raise you small, parents should be fed back to the elderly!
A woman who is not filial piety does not know how to be grateful! For such a woman, unless someone has the value she wants, she will definitely hold high and low!
Moreover, a woman who does not understand gratitude lacks a sense of responsibility, and once there is something unsatisfactory in marriage, she will be selfish beyond your imagination.
When you meet a woman who is not filial piety, usually your feelings are harmonious, and you love her again, you must also choose carefully!
In the marriage relationship, women who often do the above 3 points will really be sought-after! No matter how old you are, you can become a man's "gold does not change" for the rest of his life!
Love can be a little willful, but marriage is different!
Marriage carries the luck of the second half of a person's life, and it is related to the elderly and the younger. Once wrongly married, the man will not want to die!
If a woman does not know how to live a life, she will not consider the hard work of men, and only live for her own material desires.
When a woman's private life is not clean, she must be a master who does not understand what responsibility and reverence are, so she cannot be sure of anyone!
In particular, if a woman loses the ability to be filial piety, no matter how well she can speak, she will certainly not be your best partner!
Life is not easy, marriage is not easy. Men are advised not to marry a wife in an impulsive way, but to be cautious and repetitive!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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