Life is so short that nothing will last forever.
In the calm of December, a new melon burst out.
At two o'clock in the afternoon yesterday, Wang Lihong announced the news of the divorce on Weibo.
In just a few minutes, Weibo's hot search exploded again.
In the divorce statement, Wang Lihong admitted that it was because he had many places to do insufficient, which led to the breakdown of this marriage.
Seeing his sincere remarks, I suddenly remembered a passage:
"You finally believe that there will be such a person in your life, even if you are desperate, even if you give everything you have, even if you die, you will not be able to go to the end with him." 」
Reality is heart-wrenching.
I used to think that love, like life, would be rewarded with hard work.
Later, after several crawls and rolls, I hit my head in front of the south wall and bled, only to find that love is not something that can be owned by hard work alone.
Some people leave, not because they don't love or don't want to love, but because they are too tired to love, too tired to love anymore.
When the feelings come to the point of exhaustion, letting go is the best choice.
This is true for both boys and girls.
"When I was a child, I liked to eat tomatoes, thinking that I would love them for the rest of my life. But when you grow up, you don't like to eat, you don't love to eat.
There is no reason. You're not wrong, neither are tomatoes, it's just those self-righteous lifetimes that are wrong. ”
Life is so short, and what is immortal.
Even the years when plastic wrap will expire, who dares to expect to talk to whom year after year.
In the TV series "Children of the Qiao Family", Qiao Simei fell in love with Qi Chenggang at first sight on the street. At the first sight of Qi Chenggang, she fell helplessly and threw herself into this encounter.
Qi Chenggang was a soldier in Tibet, where it was snowy and icy. But in order to see him, Qiao Simei trekked thousands of miles to the troops. Altitude sickness made her dizzy, and the moment she saw Qi Chenggang, she smiled happily.
In order to be with Qi Chenggang, she even lied and deceived the leaders of the army that she was Qi Chenggang's fiancée, and they would soon get married.
Later, Qi Chenggang was dismissed by the army because of his style problems, but Qiao Simei turned a blind eye and had to marry him regardless of his disregard.
After marriage, Qi Chenggang cheated three or four times. Even Qiao Simei was outside looking for flowers and asking for willow during her pregnancy. Qiao Simei knew it, but chose to forgive him again and again.
No matter how much the family persuaded and blocked, Qiao Simei was determined to be with Qi Chenggang.
In fact, many girls are like this, when they like a person, they always think that they can change and influence him.
Therefore, no matter how hard and tired the love is, even if it is sad, it will not let go.
But reality always tells us that being lonely and courageous is not really brave, and the result of wishful thinking is often a willingness to gamble and lose.
No matter what you do, you can't touch someone who doesn't love you.
Adult feelings are not just about having love.
Qiao Simei didn't understand this truth until the end.
The girl who cheated on Qi Chenggang went to her and knelt down in front of her, asking her to let them go. Looking at the girl's tearful appearance, Qiao Simei remembered herself at that time.
She finally chose to divorce Qi Chenggang, no matter how he saved it, she was not moved.
She didn't want to divorce because she didn't love Qi Chenggang anymore, she still loved it. I just couldn't stand his deception and betrayal anymore, and I understood the fact that he didn't actually love her.
She loved too tiredly, deceived herself for too long, didn't want to force herself any longer, didn't want to pretend that she was happy anymore.
She chose to let go because she wanted to let herself go.
Feelings are sometimes like this, after being disappointed again and again, after the disappointment reaches its peak, there will be no going back.
It is not that I am not brave, nor that I am afraid of being hurt, but I wake up and feel that I should not continue to delay myself for the sake of a wrong person.
Whether it is to fall in love or get married, choosing to be with someone is for someone to rely on someone to hurt, not to be angry, to endure a stomach of grievances and a pillow of tears.
When I turned over and over at night, I also questioned myself, wondering whether the relationship was not worth it, or whether I was not worth it.
Can't bring you happiness and happiness, but also often let you suffer from loss and loss, insecure people, love it.
As this passage says:
"If all that's left of your love is generalization and forbearance, then, I'm sorry, this is not what I want, I'm responsible for myself." 」
Staying away from you and giving up on you is not that I don't love you, it's just that I can't accept that you treat me in ways that I don't want and don't want.
I don't want to be in a relationship that is uncomfortable, unfree, and not in line with my nature.
Someone said:
"Love is not a two-phase consensual, after the combination of romance, everything will come naturally." More precisely, love doesn't really begin until the tests come out even after the romance fades. ”
Therefore, for the sake of happiness in the future, for the peace and tranquility of the rest of the decades, in order to walk through the world without regrets.
Maybe we should all be brave, free, and resolute.
Live up to any enthusiasm, nor please any indifference.
When love can't go on, it's better to get together and disperse, don't force it.
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Lucky to meet, just in time.