Li and his card friends full of Qiao Zuwang are naturally very familiar with the situation in Qiao Zuwang's family, and since Wei Shuying's death, the Qiao family has only Qiao Zuwang and Qiao Yicheng in charge.
However, Qiao Zuwang, seriously speaking, is only the father of the children in name, but he has not fulfilled his responsibility as a father at all.
Only Qiao Yicheng is left to be a father and a mother, although he has the heart to protect his younger brothers and sisters, but he alone will inevitably be powerless.
The accident happened precisely when Qiao Yicheng gave Qiao Erqiang a parent-teacher conference.
When Qiao Yicheng and Qiao Zuwang were not at home, Li he sneaked into Qiao's house and defiled Qiao Simei.
Li Heman's ugly behavior eventually led to Sanli's growing up, planting a deep psychological shadow, and had an inexplicable dislike and rejection of men, and even once affected his marriage.
Lee and Man defiled Sanli
Li and Man defiled Sanli long ago.
Every time Sanli goes to Li Heman's small shop to buy soy sauce, Li and Man deliberately use the statement that he has given Sanli a discount many times to draw Sanli closer to his kindness and gratitude.
Li Heman's behavior is a common means and trick used by many people who intend to molest children, first give children a little benefit, let the children relax their vigilance against themselves, produce familiarity and intimacy, and then slowly achieve their own indecent purposes.
Sanli is still young, and may not be aware of Li Heman's sinister malicious diagram, but we can see that the camera has a clever switch in the process of buying soy sauce, Xiao Sanli grew up in an instant, Li heman deliberately held Sanli's hand with both hands, and when sanli grew up, he was already aware of the bad intentions behind Li Heman's excessive intimacy, so when Li Heman said to let Sanli follow him into the house, he wanted to give Sanli good things, Sanli refused: "No, my eldest brother is still waiting for me to plant chrysanthemums." ”
Sanli's refusal provided valuable information for Li heman to further carry out his own indecent plan later, "my eldest brother", here, Li Heman should understand in his heart, if he wants to get close to Sanli, he must wait until Qiao Yicheng and Qiao Zuwang are not at home.
Although Sanli was aware of the ill intentions behind Li Heman's excessive enthusiasm, after all, Sanli was still a child, and where could she think that Li Heman would do that kind of thing to her.
This is actually the tragedy of the child in the single-parent family, especially the mother's absent family, because of Wei Shuying's early death, about the knowledge of the girl's physiology, there should be no one who has taught Sanli, and although Qiao Yicheng is responsible enough, he is a boy after all, it is not good to talk to his sister about these things, and Qiao Zuwang, a big man, or the kind of parent who ignores it, is even more impossible to teach Sanli this knowledge.
Sanli does not understand these basic physiological knowledge, so although she perceives the danger and inappropriateness of Li and Man's excessive physical contact, she cannot say or realize the ultimate purpose behind the other party's excessive intimacy, which causes Sanli to miss the opportunity to cut off Li and Man's obscene plan at the beginning.
If Sanli had been taught these basic physiological knowledge by her mother beforehand, and when Li and Man shook her hand intimately, Sanli might have told her parents, then the tragedy would not have happened.
When Li Heman went to find Sanli, we could see that Sanli had actually smelled bad intentions in Li Heman, but as mentioned earlier, because Sanli was too young and lacked physiological knowledge, she did not know what Kind of thing Li Heman wanted to do to her.
Therefore, when Li and Manzhi walked Qiao Simei, Sanli did not stop Qiao Simei, because she only felt that Li heman might be dangerous, but this possibility was uncertain, and she did not firmly stop Simei.
Li Heman had been planning for a long time, and finally attacked Sanli, fortunately, Qiao Yicheng went home and saw it halfway, otherwise Sanli's psychological shadow would probably grow deeper when he grew up.
Why did Li and Man keep an eye on Sanli
So why did Li heman set his sights on Sanli?
I think the main reason is that the Qiao family does not have a real sense of the big parents to take care of the children, although Qiao Zuwang is Sanli's father, but this father is very unreliable, often ignoring the child, and Qiao Yicheng as the eldest brother, assumes the responsibility of parents, but Qiao Yicheng himself is only a child, and qiao Yicheng alone is definitely not busy.
Therefore, Sanli's situation is no different from those left behind children.
You should have seen a lot on the news, most of the child molesters often love to attack some left-behind children, because left-behind children are generally with grandparents and these old people live together, so those bad people see that the child's parents are not around, and the grandparents are old and old to take care of the child may not be so comprehensive and fine, and they will have a bad heart for the child.
In addition, the group of people who molest children, we will find that they generally have one thing in common, that is, many of them are acquaintances around them.
On the one hand, acquaintances are more aware of the child's family situation and action trajectory, and it is easier to carry out indecent plans.
On the other hand, in the eyes of these acquaintances, wearing the hat of an acquaintance and doing bad things is more convenient to gain the trust of the children.
Secondly, child molestations may have such a fluke mentality, feel that the relationship between their acquaintances, even if they do bad things, perhaps many victims' parents will be hindered by affection and cannot choose to do so, then they can get away with it and escape the consequences of being severely punished.
It can be said that the hats of acquaintances have, to some extent, contributed to the ugly behavior of these people.
Isn't that what's in "Joe's Children"? Li Heman molested Sanli and gave Qiao Zu a little money to think about things, and later if Qiao Yicheng had not insisted on reporting Li Heman, Li Heman would have gone unpunished.
"Children of the Qiao Family" Li He man defiled Sanli and tore open the hidden pain of many left-behind children.
Once as a member of the left-behind children, I can understand the pain and heartache of left-behind children, although parents choose to leave children, may be forced, but if you can, I still hope that parents can try to provide children with a more complete childhood, after all, whether childhood is good or bad, the impact on children is a lifetime.
In particular, if left-behind children are unfortunate enough to be targeted by ill-intentioned people, it will be a lifetime of regret and pain not only for the children but also for their parents.
Of course, if you really have the pain of not being able to accompany, please be sure to teach your child the basic physiological knowledge as soon as possible, so that she can learn to protect herself, after all, bad people will not think that your child is too small.
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