A friend told me about his father:
My mother died when she was nine years old, and although my father did not remarry, the woman did not take it home. He never bought me or my sister clothes, and his money was spent by him drinking and playing with women. He's just having fun! My sister and brother-in-law built houses and he didn't lend them money. He is kinder to others, he doesn't pay attention to his own children, I really don't know what his old man thinks?
When parents reach the age of fifty or sixty, they only take care of their own pleasures, regardless of their children's lives, I see it like this:
First, the old man who only cares about his own pleasure is a person who has no sense of responsibility, and such a person will live a dashing and happy life!
Only oneself in the heart, no one else, can live happily, the father Qiao Zuwang in the representative character "Children of the Qiao Family".
The mother of the Qiao family died in childbirth when she gave birth to her fifth child, Qiao Qiqi, and the father, Qiao Zuwang, was a particularly selfish person. He only ate and drank for himself, regardless of his five children.
He gambled, liked to drink, didn't work well, and didn't remarry, but he had no place for children at all. He only gave a small part of his salary to his eldest son every month, so that the child would not starve to death.
And the role of his father was taken up by his eldest son, Yicheng. Yicheng should take care of the two strong, three beautiful, four beautiful, seven seven. These children grew up supporting each other and relying on each other during the hard years of lack of clothes and clothing.
Second, the old man who only cares about his own pleasure is open.
The daughter-in-law died early, and she became a father and a mother, and she must have paid a lot to raise you and your sister.
Although you can't see him when he is embarrassed now, when you are young, he must have cried when he was embarrassed!
When the child is pulled up and raised to an adult, he does not have to care about the child.
And I am fifty or sixty years old, and I still can't enjoy it?
Otherwise, wouldn't it be too much of a loss to live for your children? Such an old man looks very open, and people may not think of what will happen when they are old!
Live the moment, this is the old man's life credo. After eating bitterly and tiredly, I can enjoy it.
Not married, but women keep. I don't buy clothes, but I keep drinking. Didn't find it? He enjoyed both of them, and everyone got them.
Enjoying a day is a day, people must have thought about it!
I'll talk about it when I'm old! Can move just live and enjoy; can't move, children can still ignore?
Su Daqiang in the representative character "All Is Good".
Third, the old man who only cares about his own pleasure is more assertive and is a blessed old man!
Such a person compares himself, no matter who says anything, as long as he is happy!
Strong inside, big ism! Such a person, when he was young, his parents could not control him; when he was old, his children could not control him.
Heaven is the king, he is the second king! Unyielding, blessed!
But such people, their children have to worry about them! Everything is the other way around.
And they said: I raised you, did you raise me?! I don't need you to raise it!" Do you have anything more to say?
What to do with him?
Stay the same, or he won't listen to you!" You're still angry and can't do anything.
Besides, he did raise you, he's old, and a happy day is a day.
Wait until he's old and can't move, and you'll take care of him. Then he would have to listen to you if he didn't listen to you.
As for the fact that he doesn't give you and your sister financial help, you have to open it. It's good that you don't give him pension money now, and how much you want is more!
I am very pertinent in my analysis and have given you very pertinent advice, which I hope will help you.
I am Youlan smiling, please pay attention to me, let's laugh together on life!