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Most women will worry about how to deal with the mother-in-law relationship with their mother-in-law after marriage, because in the eyes of most mothers-in-law, even after the daughter-in-law is married, they will not talk about their daughter-in-law, as a family, because they always feel that even after two people get married, there is still a gap between the daughter-in-law and their entire family. Therefore, in life, we will see a lot of contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
And because most of the mothers-in-law, they always have some patriarchal ideas in their lives, because they always feel that as long as they give birth to sons, they can pass on the generations of their families, so after their daughters-in-law give birth to daughters-in-law, they will be difficult for their daughters-in-law in life, and even show clear dislike for their granddaughters.
And when the son needed it most, they did not share the problems for the son. So when they are old, how can their sons go to the pension for them without hesitation? Recently, in life, in the face of her mother's unreasonable demands on her mother-in-law, Sun Huiyao chose to stand up.
The patriarchal mother-in-law refused to serve her daughter-in-law
Sun Huiyao was born in an ordinary rural family, as the eldest son in the family, Sun Huiyao did not get a lot of attention from his parents at home, so after going to college, Sun Huiyao rarely went home again. After Sun Huiyao went to college, he met his girlfriend Han Wenwen on the college campus, Han Wenwen's family conditions are not bad, and her parents have always been very fond of Han Wenwen, so Han Wenwen, who grew up in love since childhood, is also very cheerful.
Soon after the two graduated from college, a wedding was held in the presence of both parents. Because the two people have always had a good relationship, so soon after the two people got married, Han Wenwen found out the news that she was pregnant. Because Sun Huiyao's mother has always lived in the countryside with his sister, she also felt very happy after learning the news of her daughter-in-law's pregnancy, so she immediately said that after the daughter-in-law gave birth to the child, she immediately went to serve her daughter-in-law.
Under the assurance of her mother-in-law, she also let Go of Han Wenwen's hanging heart. So Han Wenwen began to prepare for pregnancy at home, after Han Wenwen waited for a long time, finally pregnant in October, a child, but Han Wenwen gave birth to a boy that Sun Huiyao's mother expected, so after seeing that her daughter-in-law gave birth to a girl, Sun Huiyao's mother also immediately made her attitude clear that she would not take care of a daughter-in-law who could not even give birth to a grandson.
Therefore, after clearly expressing his attitude, Sun Huiyao's mother directly returned to his hometown to live, and Sun Huiyao and Han Wenwen were helpless after seeing their mother's attitude, and the two people had no choice but to take Han Wenwen's mother over to take care of Han Wenwen's confinement, but because of this matter, Han Wenwen had some complaints about her mother-in-law, and Sun Huiyao was also dissatisfied with her mother because of this matter.
The mother-in-law took care of her granddaughter for 15 years
Because Han Wenwen's father also died a few years ago, in fact, Han Wenwen's mother has always felt that she is a little lonely living alone, and now she lives with her daughter to help her daughter take care of her granddaughter, which can not only reduce the burden of her daughter, but also make herself less lonely, so Han Wenwen's mother is also very happy. So soon Han Wenwen's mother moved into her daughter's house to serve her granddaughter full-time.
After his mother-in-law lived here, Sun Huiyao has always been grateful to his mother-in-law, but in life, his mother-in-law has never complained of being tired, which also makes Sun Huiyao feel more sorry for his mother-in-law. Although Sun Huiyao also thought about hiring a nanny to take care of his daughter when his financial conditions allowed, which could also reduce the burden on his mother-in-law, but in such a day-to-day care, whether it was his mother-in-law or daughter, they all had deep feelings for each other, so Sun Huiyao also completely forgot about the matter of asking a nanny.
After the birth of her granddaughter, Sun Huiyao's mother rarely met her granddaughter, so there was no deep affection between the two people, and Sun Huiyao also had some resentment towards her mother in her life because of her mother's original approach. In the mother-in-law's day-to-day care for her daughter, 15 years have passed. However, at this time, Sun Huiyao suddenly received a call from his mother.
Mother's approach
When Sun Huiyao's family was living very peacefully and happily, Sun Huiyao suddenly received a call from his mother, in which Sun Huiyao's mother said that she had arrived early the next morning and asked Sun Huiyao to prepare a room for herself.
Early the next morning, Sun Huiyao's mother came to Sun Huiyao's house with her luggage. After his mother came, Sun Huiyao learned that his mother actually planned to come to live here for a long time and let himself give her a pension, after listening to his mother's request, Sun Huiyao directly said that his mother-in-law lived at home, and there was no extra room for his mother to live.
However, I did not expect that after listening to her son's words, Sun Huiyao's mother directly said: Let her get out of the egg, I want to come to the pension. After listening to his mother's words, Sun Huiyao couldn't help but feel very funny, and he directly said to his mother, who was extremely confident: "It's you who should roll." After saying that, he sent his mother back to his hometown overnight, and left her enough living expenses, and then he turned around and left.
After seeing her son's approach, Sun Huiyao's mother did not think of it at all, but no matter how she scolded, her son did not look back, and when she was old and needed to retire, she finally paid for the mistakes she made when she was young.
In life, although blood relations are a very close feeling, if the people who have blood relations are not close to the warm network in ordinary times, then this blood relationship will not work. Just like in life, we can often see that there are many children who have been raised by their adoptive parents for many years, even if their biological parents stand in front of them, many people will choose their adoptive parents.
And in a family, nature is also like this. No matter what kind of identity you are in a family, if you do not choose to give in life, then no matter what kind of identity you are, you will not get the equivalent return of others. Therefore, in life, we must always remember that only when we first show our kindness to others can we get the same return from others in life. Even parents are no exception.
In life, especially for a child who does not understand anything, they will only have a good impression of the good people around them, and only when they feel the kindness of others to themselves when they are young can they also return the same feelings to each other. Of course, correspondingly, if in life, they do not feel the kindness shown by others, then they naturally do not have a good face for those people.
Therefore, in fact, in the eyes of children, the world is very simple, that is, people who are good to themselves and people who are not good to themselves. So if in life you find that a child's attitude towards himself in life is not good, then you may wish to find the reason for their attitude in yourself first and may find the reason for their attitude faster.
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In the course of life, have you ever met such a mother-in-law? How do you deal with it?
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