The mother-in-law picks up the rags every day, the 3 sons are unwilling to raise, and the son-in-law takes home and buys a house and a car

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In life, most of the elderly people have a very strong obsession with their sons. Because they always feel that raising children to prevent old age, only after giving birth to a son, their life after old age will be guaranteed, but is this really the case? In fact, if there is only one son, then it may be better, and if they have more sons, then it will. There are cases of mutual prevarication, because everyone is not willing to pay more, and will calculate how much they give in life. And once this happens, it will happen that the elderly have no place to go to the pension.

And there are also children in life, they will hate their parents' work. Because most of the elderly are always idle in life, even if they are old and cannot do some complicated work, they will find some things to do in their lives. So there are a lot of old people, they often go to the street to pick up some rags, back home to sell, but this also makes their children very unacceptable, so there are many children will be in their parents when they do this and are not willing to give their parents a pension.

Recently, in life, Aunt Zhang was disliked by her son and unwilling to raise her because she picked up rags in her life every day.

Three sons, the pension is not worried

Aunt Zhang has always been envied by many people around her in her life, because Aunt Zhang and her wife have three sons and a daughter. Not only have we achieved both children and daughters in life, but people always feel that raising children is preventing old age. Aunt Zhang has three sons, so the pension problem after that must not have to worry. Therefore, Aunt Zhang's friends have always been very envious of her.

Because Aunt Zhang also feels that the matter of raising children and preventing the elderly is also very well-founded, she has always been very good to her three sons. Aunt Zhang and her wife and children are ordinary farmers, so they do not have the so-called pensions, so after old age, they can only live on the help of their children. In order to enable her children to be able to pay for themselves wholeheartedly when they retire for themselves in the future, it is said that in life, Aunt Zhang has always tried to meet the requirements of her son.

Although Aunt Zhang also has a daughter, but Aunt Zhang also feels that after the daughter marries someone, she also has her own in-laws to raise, although she does not have those patriarchal ideas, but because she does not want to add a burden to her daughter in the future, nor does she want her three sons to have some bad ideas about her daughter, so for her daughter, Aunt Zhang has not given her too much help.

Aunt Zhang's daughter also understands her mother, so she is not dissatisfied with her mother's approach. However, originally Aunt Zhang thought that as long as she was good to her son, she would have security in the future, but it was always difficult for people to achieve a bowl of water, so Aunt Zhang's three sons often complained about their mother because they felt that their mother was unfair to themselves, and even had some conflicts with their three brothers.

Picking up the rags was disliked by his son and did not want to retire

After the death of her wife, Aunt Zhang was taken to the city by her own children. However, because when she was in the countryside, Aunt Zhang was already used to work, so after coming to the city for a while, she also made Aunt Zhang feel very unaccustomed, so she always wanted to find a job to do. But after all, she is now older, so it can be said that it is difficult to find a job in the city.

But when Aunt Zhang was on the street that day, she saw that there were a lot of plastic bottles in the garbage can, and she thought that she could pick up some rags to sell, but she could also have some income of her own. After thinking about this, Aunt Zhang also quickly put her ideas into practice.

Because the matter of picking up the rags is actually very simple, Aunt Zhang quickly began her own life of picking up the rags after preparing her own equipment. But didn't think about it. After Aunt Zhang had just picked up the rags for two days, the son who found out about this matter had a big fight with Aunt Zhang. Because after Aunt Zhang came to the city, she always took turns living in the three sons' homes, but after knowing about Aunt Zhang's picking up the rags, the three sons also expressed their attitudes at the same time. They felt that it was too humiliating for their mother to pick up the rags, and they did not want to have anything to do with such a mother, so they directly refused the fact that their mother came to live in their home, and even expressed their unwillingness to give Aunt Zhang a pension.

Son-in-law's attitude

After Aunt Zhang was rejected by her three sons and was driven out of the house, Aunt Zhang's daughter and son-in-law quickly took her home like Aunt Zhang after learning about this matter. Because Aunt Zhang did not actually pay anything for her son-in-law before, because in the eyes of her heart, Aunt Zhang felt that her son and herself were a family, even if it was useless for her son-in-law, but now her son-in-law's approach made her feel very emotional, and she also regretted her previous approach.

After following her daughter and son-in-law home, her son-in-law's attitude towards Aunt Zhang has always been very good in life, and she has not objected to Aunt Zhang going out to pick up the rags, but she feels that Aunt Zhang should have something to do when she is older. After listening to her son-in-law's thoughts, Aunt Zhang also felt very comfortable.

In the process of living with her daughter and son-in-law, Aunt Zhang has always lived a very happy life. Because she was already disappointed in her son, and because she was touched by her daughter and son-in-law, Aunt Zhang also directly took out the savings she had accumulated for many years and was supposed to leave to her sons, and bought a suite and a car for her daughter and son-in-law.

After Aunt Zhang's son knew about this matter, she also regretted that she did not support her mother. But now even if they regret it, it is useless.

In life, in fact, many old people still behave very differently between their sons and sons-in-law, because they always feel that even if the son-in-law honors himself, it is not that his son is not related to himself, so they will not have a good attitude towards the son-in-law, but the son is different, even if the son is no good, he also has an unshakable position in their minds. Therefore, most of the elderly will have different attitudes when they treat their sons and sons-in-law in life.

However, although most of the elderly still attach great importance to their sons, if in life, they are hurt by their sons, then they will find out who is truly filial to themselves. Especially for the elderly, they actually want a filial piety in life. So if they find that their son is in life, they can't rely on themselves at all, they will find a new thing that they can rely on, and they are also very good for their juniors.

Therefore, if we are not good to our parents as sons in life, then do not blame our parents for treating themselves differently in life. Now with the development of society, more and more elderly people have learned to think about themselves in life. So although there are still many elderly people who adhere to the idea that their son is the most important, there are also some elderly people who have now learned to change. They have learned to put themselves in the most important position, so if they find out in life that their son is not good for them, they will choose to give their property to someone who is better for them.

But this is a matter of reproach, so even as sons, we should not be dissatisfied with the decisions made by our parents, but should reflect on why our parents made such decisions.

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